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Attraction To The Opposite Sex
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Attraction To The Opposite Sex This topic is addressed to both men and women. When you are looking through and reading profiles on this site (and any others where you might be a member) is the physical picture/description the first thing that makes you desire to know more? Do you have a "type" that when you see her/him you just know? But then find out later that....he is NOT your type? Or even if someone isn't physically what you would normally pursue do you read more? I ask this question because as an older mature woman, I have found that when we look deeper sometimes we find attraction in other ways. Like for instance intelligence, manners, grammar and spelling, and overall attitude about life. I have noticed that many times men who are drop dead gorgeous have a horrible conceited bragging attitude and are all about themselves. There are other times when I read a profile that the man has a nice face, great smile but typically is not someone I would want to pursue but I find him attractive because he seems sweet, real and puts his heart out there being so candid and honest. I don't mean to be rude here, but I do know that a big majority of men can be very shallow and are all about a woman's outside looks and NOTHING else. That's just how God created most men I think....But for what it's worth, there is so much more than that. I have talked with men who have been with women who are beautiful on the outside but as one told me "she has NOTHING else to offer and is a BITCH when she opens her mouth." I suppose for some men that makes no difference as long as she looks good on his arm for all to see. Personally for me, I have dated both types. Men who are model types with perfect teeth, bodies, tall and tanned with great hair. Also I have dated men who are shorter, a few pounds overweight, thinning hair, and older. I don't have a "type" either but found that men who are NOT drop dead gorgeous are more genuine, kind and treat me much better, That is the type I am looking for now and I know he is out there. Someplace...somewhere. Thoughts anyone? {=} {=} KCClaire0923 |
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Most sites make it so that first thing you find about a person is a picture. That is probably geared toward men, the majority of members, since we are visual by nature. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I guess for me it starts with a physical attraction, call me shallow but it's the truth. With that being said they also need to be a quality person that I have a connnection with intellectually and share the same moral standards. A gorgeous woman with not much else to offer is as disappointing as having a great connection with someone where there is NO sexual attraction. I'm picky....I WANT THE COMPLETE PACKAGE!
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When I read profiles, I look for quirky-ness!  
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Pictures?Of what,legs,boxes,shoulders breasts and dicks? We all look at pictures.Women are even more visual than men these days so that that old saying is just that!When people post picture after picture of models in the grips of sex it's very telling of what they're after and what they expect.Finding more and more single women profiles that are married with a couples profile also tends to give me the third portion of a trifecta. No face, grossly exaggerated age,single and couple profile The first question obviously is is there anything else you're hiding? Using more than all the road!
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You have an interesting but grossly over opinionated reply there s2nddegree. Thank you for taking the time anyway.
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And I agree with you Boe, women certainly can be shallow as well.....I was speaking for myself in my blog that it makes NO difference to me as to outside looks. I am looking for someone who will treat me good and is kind. I was asking for opinions as to what others look for, men and women alike. Thank you for your response. KCC
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Redrockrascal, can I just say that I always appreciate your kind comments to my blogs? You are respectful, short and to the point. It is refreshing to always see your comments because I know you are being honest. Thank you, {=} {=} KCClaire0923
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Interesting blog KC and I think you are right about both men and women who are drop dead gorgeous being rather vain, think it comes with the territory I suppose. We all have our particular types and for me I tend to be drawn to looks and smarts, always liked to have good banter with a woman as it makes the attraction seem so much more enjoyable.
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