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Endless E-Mails  

kcclaire0923 68F  
410 posts
11/17/2015 9:44 am
Endless E-Mails

I get frustrated at times when I respond to a man here that seems like someone I would like to get to know. After about a week or so of daily small talk, online whether on IM here or on YIM, I would think that if he is as interested as he seems that he would ask me out or even mention that we should meet for a drink or coffee (in a public place always of course!)

Being rather "old fashioned" I never make the first move that way, and usually never have to. But there have been a couple of guys lately that I have been talking with and it seems endless chat about work or family, everyday stuff. That's fine, but gosh after a couple of weeks and it goes no place else then I just give up and stop responding to e-mails. Neither one have asked me why, one stopped e-mails all together and the other one just sends a message like "Hey" or "Hi Ya" or "Good Evening" and that's IT. They both know that I won't initiate any contact and that I am old school that way. As we know, years ago, a guy would ask a girl for her phone number and call her to ask her out on a date. Those days are gone of course but I always felt special when asked for that.

So guys, I wonder what it is sometimes that holds you back when asking to meet us in person? Is it shyness, or low self esteem or God forbid, because you have been deceitful in sharing your information with us and possibly posted photos that are 20 or 25 years old? Help me understand please. I have posted my face photo that is less than 2 years old and all my profile information is true accurate and honest. I can't understand why people are not honest about that.

Any information to help me understand this would be much appreciated! {=}

kcclaire0923 68F  
822 posts
11/20/2015 8:30 am

 Thank you Harley for the input and I believe you are right. Even though what you say about us ladies being "used" (especially HERE on this site) stings a bit, I know it is true. That's why as many men as I have met in person here over a four year period and only two were serious for awhile, I know I won't ever find what I am looking for...it's s fun site but the quality of men are NOT to my standards, sadly. It's a shame too, because I am real, I am honest and have a lot to offer. Plus a HIGH sex drive helps too! But that isn't all there is to it.

{=} {=} KCClaire0923


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