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Responding to Men That Contact Me  

kcclaire0923 68F  
410 posts
7/2/2016 10:36 am
Responding to Men That Contact Me


I always appreciate the number of men that attempt to contact me by sending a regular message or seeing me over on IM. I respond to ALL contact by declining politely or saying yes and chatting or I send a "yes" reply to his regular message so we can chat.

One thing that is very annoying to me with this is that a vast majority do NOT read my introduction and requirements of who and what I will respond to. When I say this, I am referring to Gold members mostly who can clearly read my profile page but choose to ignore what I have written.

I do NOT want contact from married men - PERIOD. I have learned that those married men who are members here have no intention of ever changing their situations and I have had my heart broken over this; I do not ever intend to get involved with another married man. I don't care that he gets no sex at home; or that his wife lost all interest in sex; or that she has an illness that prevents her from having sex, or that she is a raving BITCH most if the time. I don't care. Or even if she has "given him permission" to be on this site (so he says) I don't believe that. So do not waste your time trying to contact me if you are a married man. I will delete the message and block your profile. TOO MUCH DRAMA for this girl and I have zero drama in my life.

If you are a smoker (0f ANYTHING) I will not respond. If you are under age 50 I will not respond. If you are bi-sexual or have any interest in dating T-Gurls I will not respond (too risky health wise). If you have long hair (I prefer the shorter clean cut look) or do not bother to shower or brush your teeth daily I will not respond. Most of all, if you are all about yourself and unkind, I will not respond.

With all of that being said (and it sounds like a lot but it's really not) here is what I will respond to, especially if there is chemistry in chatting and then when finally meeting in person......

Just be fairly local to me, a normal, single, sweet and decent guy over age 50 that loves good sex and wants to spend time in and OUT of the bedroom. When I say single, it means NOT married, but SINGLE, divorced or widowed. If you say you are "separated" does she know you are separated? I doubt that. You enjoy taking a drive for the day, like up the coast stopping for lunch or dinner; or going to a movie, or even walking the beach holding hands...just because it feels right. I am not looking to get married again and I pay my OWN bills not dependent on any man for that. I just am searching for a guy that fills my physical needs and emotional wants....so with that being said please READ MY PROFILE before contacting me. It will save you time and then you won't wonder why I deleted and blocked you. I am a member on a couple of other "vanilla" sites and had some good luck - but not long lasting for one reason or another. No chemistry, family drama or he lives too far away.

Again, it's really not too much to ask but please read the main profile page first...most of us women appreciate that very much!

{=} {=} KCClaire0923

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
7/2/2016 12:12 pm

It's refreshing to know that there is one person here that
doesn't consider men over 50 dead.
Thanks!

Using more than all the road!


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
7/2/2016 4:58 pm

Distance seems to be a big factor on this site.


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