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"Sexless" Marriages - "Faceless" Photos  

kcclaire0923 68F  
410 posts
10/9/2016 10:18 am
"Sexless" Marriages - "Faceless" Photos


If I had a nickel for every time I have seen the phrase "I am in a sexless marriage" I think I would be a millionaire by now. Of course this is the platform forum for these types of individuals who are looking for that physical satisfaction that they are not getting at home. I get that. I would think it can be a bit risky, especially in today's world, but hopefully these folks are selective staying safe and sexually healthy. There are a lot of crazy people out there.

I know quite a few married men on this site; some I have met in person once for coffee or a drink; some I have had in my life for a lot longer; there is one that I continue to see when his schedule permits. Not sure why I still allow this, I guess because there is a deep connection there that surpasses the physical part. But his situation will never change and I know that. Hopefully mine will change someday and I will be committed to one single man who can give me all of his time and not have another life where I am such a low priority. I deserve better and I know that and remind myself of it often.

Anyway, some of these married men in their "sexless marriages" post no pictures on their profiles; just a gray silhouette but are searching to get laid. Others post face shots smiling with information that they are simply on here looking to see what's out there. My opinion is that the ones with photos posted most likely think they won't get "caught" and are not afraid to show their face. The others are wanting to be discreet so they can get laid and not get caught by possible co-workers, friends or family that also may be on this site.

I know one thing is for sure. If I am with someone I care about and we are enjoying a nice relationship inside and outside the bedroom I would NEVER look elsewhere. Whether i was married to him or not. Monogamy is important to me and that's what I am searching for. A nice SINGLE man that is not in a sexless marriage and has face pictures posted. I know I may not find him here and that's okay. I have good luck on a couple of other "vanilla" sites but I keep Local Adult Companion around as my guilty pleasure!! Been a fun 5 years on here.....

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kcclaire0923 68F  
822 posts
10/9/2016 11:01 am

I will continue being a member here at least for the time being. I chat over in the 50+ Mature Chat Room and have met so many nice folks from there. I attended a Meet and Greet event in 2014 hosted by this room; we all stay in e-mail and F/B contact talking about our families, exchanging recipes etc. Life long friends indeed!


Woodyeverready 65M
1187 posts
10/9/2016 11:22 am

There can be many reasons for a good marriage to be sexless, and it is also possible for a married person (man or woman) to be here with the blessing of the spouse. The reason for many not to show a face pic is so that friends, family, etc don't find out about the arrangement that the couple has. So embarrassing explanations don't have to be made. Not all "married and looking" are cheating. Just saying.

Woodrow J. Evers


bestfriend2156 68M
840 posts
10/9/2016 12:24 pm

As someone stated above there are many reasons for a sexless marriage. I have lived it for decades and continue to. I am not looking to hit the sexual buffet. But someone in the same situation who wants to have someone in their life to fill what's missing would be nice to find. Hasn't happened on here. but I have met some wonderful people to talk to about things. It all helps.


tedscott40 60M
2550 posts
10/10/2016 1:55 pm

You seem like an attractive and intelligent woman. You'll find the right man.
Ted


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