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Married to a memory
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Married to a memory Happiness is a choice. I know reality can bushwhack you. But you get to decide how to live. If you want to live in the past with a memory, you can. I choose not to do so. I run into people who glorify some old flame. Well, that flame is burnt out. Yes I know that is so unsentimental. Reliving the glory days is fine for history buffs and Halls of Fame. I prefer to live in the present and seek a future. If you prefer the past, enjoy yourself. Real relationship with a living breathing partner beats an imaginary future based on a memory... for me. |
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i have a friend who keeps everything from this one person in a trunk. it's a bit scary actually. she's been married for eons but is still pining for this lost love. You cannot conceive the many without the one.
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Recently visited Museum of Broken Relationships in LA. Check it out (they have a website) If you don't take it all too seriously, it is somewhat amusing. As for not moving on from memories... I am not one to let my past stop me from enjoying the now or the future, but when you had a really good experience, even if it was just for a short while, it sets a high bar for any others. Sure there was a reason a relationship ended, but when there were certain aspect that made you very happy, you tend to look for those things again with someone else.
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I would rather not check into Heartbreak Hotel....
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Carrying a torch is a good way to get burned.
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