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Blow jobs with condoms only?  

playwithme7272 51F  
172 posts
6/23/2013 3:39 pm
Blow jobs with condoms only?


For me, sex with a new partner or even some not so new, requires the use of a condom. That has thankfully become the "norm", and I have never had a partner complain about it.... if they were to complain, that would automatically entitle them to a quick trip out the door.

Blow jobs are a different story altogether. I tried to insist one partner wear a condom during a blow job, but he had such a dislike for the idea, he chose to not have the blow job at all. His loss!

I know you are at a lower risk of transmitting or receiving STI's during oral sex, but you are still putting yourself at SOME risk... ever hear of gonorrhea?

I do like the taste and feel of a hard cock in my mouth, and I dislike the taste of most condoms, but maybe this is something I need to get over.... sometimes I wonder if it's a little bit the same as before the AIDS era, when it was rare that anyone wore a condom for sex, except as a method of birth control.

Is this going way overboard? Would you give/receive a blow job with a condom on? Do you refuse to give/receive one without a condom? And how does cunnilingus fit into the equation? Dental dams??? Oh how very sexy! lol But then again, STI's are not sexy at all.

FunNewGuy1000 63M
511 posts
6/24/2013 1:27 am

This is a very insightful and interesting topic, absolutely necessary to breach with any potential partners.
STI's are simply a good way to ruin yer day!
I agree with your choice, as it seems to represent the only sensible approach to keep everyone at ease, and safe.
I would be a cautious to the point of "NO" without protection, because the alternative just simply isnt a healthy or wise option.
Dont go in without a helmet! EVER!
Dental dams also make a great deal of sense, when it comes to other activities.
People who you dont know well(and even people you do!) that insist on sex without such concerns for personal health and safety are an EXTREMELY risky choice of partners.....
It should be noted that we can now add HPV to the list of nasties lurking out there, and one that many of us certainly carry unknowingly. Along with cervical cancer, it is responsible for mouth tongue and throat cancers!
As for flavoured condoms.....Cherry, Lemon, Lime, or Banana? Mebbe a Lifesaver pack?


lindoboy100 61M
23969 posts
6/24/2013 4:01 am

Ah McPlay, better safe than sorry I always say. Ask Michael Douglas what he thinks too..............


playwithme7272 51F  
229 posts
6/25/2013 8:50 pm

    Quoting dadisbored1973:
    I would be very pleased to receive a blowjob from you either way- covered or bare!
I like your attitude!


playwithme7272 51F  
229 posts
6/25/2013 8:52 pm

    Quoting  :

I wonder if the condom ever starts to taste better than the cock?



Nah... not possible.


playwithme7272 51F  
229 posts
6/25/2013 9:06 pm

    Quoting FunNewGuy1000:
    This is a very insightful and interesting topic, absolutely necessary to breach with any potential partners.
    STI's are simply a good way to ruin yer day!
    I agree with your choice, as it seems to represent the only sensible approach to keep everyone at ease, and safe.
    I would be a cautious to the point of "NO" without protection, because the alternative just simply isnt a healthy or wise option.
    Dont go in without a helmet! EVER!
    Dental dams also make a great deal of sense, when it comes to other activities.
    People who you dont know well(and even people you do!) that insist on sex without such concerns for personal health and safety are an EXTREMELY risky choice of partners.....
    It should be noted that we can now add HPV to the list of nasties lurking out there, and one that many of us certainly carry unknowingly. Along with cervical cancer, it is responsible for mouth tongue and throat cancers!
    As for flavoured condoms.....Cherry, Lemon, Lime, or Banana? Mebbe a Lifesaver pack?
I agree with you, the alternative is definitely not healthy OR wise. It is surprising how rare it is to see condoms used during fellatio, whether it is in porn or in real-life. I've only been to one real swingers club in my life, and I can't recall seeing a single condom on anyone that was receiving a blow job... they only seemed to make their appearance once the "foofie" was involved. Sorry, new word for me...couldn't resist lol.

Dental dams.... I wonder how often those come out during the heat of the moment? Unless you are dating your dentist, of course

I like variety, so a Lifesaver pack sounds perfect


playwithme7272 51F  
229 posts
6/25/2013 9:13 pm

    Quoting lindoboy100:
    Ah McPlay, better safe than sorry I always say. Ask Michael Douglas what he thinks too..............
Sound advice, I'd say. And may I add.... I'm thrilled to have you visit my blog, and bestow on me title of "McPlay"


playwithme7272 51F  
229 posts
6/25/2013 9:18 pm

    Quoting  :

Smart man!


FunNewGuy1000 63M
511 posts
6/28/2013 1:44 am

Someone wise once told me that saran wrap was a useful tool for lessening risks dramatically, in all sorts of interesting ways. This person is a professional consultant in the healthcare field concerning this very subject. Although I am not certain i would rely on it entirely, it may be wise to carry a roll of it around............


FunNewGuy1000 63M
511 posts
7/3/2013 2:03 pm

any favorite flavours, or are they all good, or not? keep me posted........


playwithme7272 51F  
229 posts
7/5/2013 5:10 pm

All good.... better than the taste of plain latex, anyways


rm_travelguyoh 63M
12264 posts
7/28/2013 7:22 pm

it always to safe than sorry

some times the things that comes from between my ears makes me pause for reflection


playwithme7272 51F  
229 posts
7/28/2013 7:29 pm

Indeed!


FunNewGuy1000 63M
511 posts
9/1/2017 3:01 pm

I miss this gibberish....

perhaps you are too busy gathering .........ideas............

(rather than write them here?)


stealthyy 58M
2 posts
9/25/2017 11:58 am

I agree with flavour variety


Thepekr 47M
6 posts
12/17/2017 2:20 am

hey there, blow jobs are arousal, the desire for my partner is so much stronger after a good tongue'ing, on goes the magnum and its cream city. foreplay is an art, although if my partner asked for a condom for oral, absolutely. personal preference, nothing feels like a warm mouth and a playful tongue, hm, now i want one, lol. my thoughts only, thanks


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