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Men Be Realistic About Head
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Men Be Realistic About Head I am just flabbergasted about a NSA that I had with a dude here on Local Adult Companion. 1st of all he did not read my post. 2nd he was selfish and lazy. 3rd he wanted me to give him head but not return the favor. 4th he had the ordasity to get upset about it. 5th he still wanted to have sex after I left. This is a 38 year old man who would expect to get head, but not expect to go down on a woman on a first meet. Now some women might be willing to do that and that is fine, but if it states otherwise in your profile then men please read the profile and you will notice details that might save both of us time, energy and disappointment. Everybody is not for everybody. Everyone will not make a good match or a good fit... just be honest and realistic about it and move on don't be greedy and lead people on. That is how people get hurt... physically, mentally, emotionally, financially and spiritually. Sometimes you get what you give and in this case that is exactly what he got... NOTHING!!! I got my ass up and went the heck home and left him wanting for more. I don't have time for games so be mindful of other peoples time. Thanks in advance. P.S. Remember if it is not a right fit for me. I will get my black azz up and go the heck home. ONE LOVE |
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Pure & simple, he didnt deserve you, and you did the right thing to leave, maybe should have left a little faster, grin, and maybe he gave you some clues beforehand you missed that he was that selfish & self-centered, but all in all, YOU GO GIRL !
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Well good thing y'all are not together anymore... she is selfish and lazy. That's just the beginning of her selfishness and laziness. You deserve better and don't settle for less. And please don't look back.
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I had a girlfriend like that once. She could only get hers if I went down on her, and she hated the idea of going down on me. Needless to say, we are no longer together.
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Being gorgeous ain't got shit with being realistic... beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What one person thinks is beautiful another will think is ok, alright or passable. Shit I could say the same about a man... be handsome if you want us to be realistic. You might think that you are a very handsome man and I might think that you are ugly or just okay... so ALL of that is subjective. We are probably going to agree to disagree on this issue. It is not always just about looks for everyone... mostly for shallow minded people. Just make sure before you expect a certain type from a women that your are up to that same standard as a man ~ this is 2012 there is no double standards as far as I am concerned. As Forrest Gump Momma would say: "Gorgeous is as gorgeous does."
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WOW OK where to begin... I think you were right on in how you read him. Sometimes if you get that far with someone,ie. getting naked fooling around and suddenly start getting the feeling it's not right or your just no longer being turned on by that person, some people will just muddle thru it figuring it would be too embarrassing to stop at that point.And I have heard both men and women say they knew it wasn't going to be good but it was better than nothing. Please at that point it's no more than masturbating, your just using another person instead of your hand. I also had a few comments on the comments left here. LOL ok now I can't remember them all but first, and dude don't be offended, but to tell her to "Be Generous if u want us to be realistic" come on... what are you dyslexic? I think you got that backwards. Be realistic in in your approach and actions and you may find her more willing to be generous. And as for you lavender...  I have such similar ways as you I just wish more people would live life with that attitude. Let's face it if we all could say what we actually mean and stick to it, do it , live it, however you want to say it. Stop the lies or exaggerations or false boasting. I know it is an tired old saying and maybe a bit corny, but the golden rule has been around for a long time for a reason. It's true and can work. It's funny I have a friend I meet on here. we are pretty much NSA. When she text me saying she needed money to get her car fixed I didn't even hesitate. Even though I was midway a month long lay off I gave her as much as I could. and she got it fixed. there have been two others I have only talked to on here that have told me they were going through some personal or family problems. I automatically told them both if there was anything I can do to help let me know. a friend just pointed out it sounded like I was just being nice to try to get laid. I don't do that I said it and meant it because I cared even if I hardly know them I just want to help.HOLY SHIT... didn't realize how much rambling I was doing. well I will stop now. I hate it when I get on a rant.
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There's nothing wrong with sticking to what you've said. You make it clear what you expect. I really don't understand such behavior. I think oral sex is the most intimate of all and would never turn down an offer for such delicious intimacy. It is very selfish to expect it and refuse to give it. En-Joy!
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if he wouldn't go down on that, he ain't right
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7/5/2012 1:25 am |
good on you
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