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Blogs > travel_4_work > My Random Thoughts

You need to be "Attractive"  

travel_4_work 51M
52 posts
1/25/2016 8:18 pm
You need to be "Attractive"

So I was perusing some posts, still searching for my ideal FWB but that's a post for another time, and I've come across a few profiles that ask on their profiles to "be attractive" or some form of that term. I have to laugh a little at that but isn't attractiveness a personal preference? The looks of another may be attractive to one but not another. Seems an odd request to put on your profile. I'm sure there are those who would fine someone I don't find remotely attractive, a beautiful person. Anywhooo back to my search!

dyldofactory 31M
1 post
1/25/2016 8:39 pm

 Are you asking if beauty is subjective? Because it is.

That said, I think you're really over-trivializing what people mean when they say "be attractive". Is the person who's profile you're looking at physically fit? Do they appear to be well-groomed? What about their partner(s), if any?

Context clues, dawg. Use them.


Jigglypuff666 45F
217 posts
1/25/2016 8:52 pm

 I won't even message people that put that in their profile. LOL


travel_4_work 51M
16 posts
1/25/2016 8:55 pm

 temptationplus58: Right so what you find attractive some one else may or may not. So a person asking another who is contacting them to know what "attractive" is to that person seems odd.

dyldofactory: I'm definitely saying it is subjective. The person has it on their profile as a condiition of contating them. How do I know what they find attractive?


travel_4_work 51M
16 posts
1/25/2016 8:57 pm

 Jigglypuff666: Same here...just thought it was an odd thing to have in your profile....


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
1/25/2016 9:45 pm

 OK, yes, strictly speaking beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

However....

I bet I could throw a few pics up here and we would all agree that the person in the pic isn't attractive.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
1/25/2016 10:30 pm

 Tall,dark and handsome?They probably mean initially.Most move on so fast you know it's not your personality they're interested in.
We all have a very good idea what is and what isn't!
Using more than all the road!


travel_4_work 51M
16 posts
1/26/2016 6:28 pm

 I would venture to guess most "attractiveness" goes beyond looks anyway. Maybe not for sex purposes only but I have some pretty cool not great looking friends as well as having met some gorgeous people that I can't stand to be around.


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