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I want a sexy, intelligent and non-judging MAN!  

Chai12007 67F
22 posts
1/1/2015 10:49 am
I want a sexy, intelligent and non-judging MAN!



Wow, what a year!

Dumped one for being an controlling idiot, chatted with another that lied about his pictures he kept sending me that were not him and met another that lied about his feelings for me just for sex chat, and now..........I am moving on, a new year!

I have a forgiving heart, I have to have to continue to grow as it is meant to be.
I feel sorry for the ones from the past for not being real and sincere. No concern for the emotions they stir up, the mind games they continue to play like little boys and only receiving the instant gratification from not valuing love, life and themselves as maturing grown men.

For those who think I hate men, ass u me that I think all men are assholes, you are so far from the truth, that you should be out in space! Wondering around as though you have no clue what life is about and how you would want to be treated as a person. Most of you know, you do reap what you sow and life is too precious and short to treat others like door mats.

With the New Year here, I want to meet someone after only looking and showing my pictures for about four months, that has a sense of pride about himself, gives me chills when he says mere words to me, makes my body and pussy ache and yearn for him, his touch, his air and his love for life!

If you are out there, if you are not scared and want to start the New Year, making it a "Year of Awesomeness", with no regrets, come chat with me. Let me share my thoughts, listen to yours, give and take as friends and lovers do!

I think you will want to find out more, and learn about what women desire, what women want, and what everyone deserves in sharing life with someone even if only for a moment in time.

PS: For those who have received face pictures from me and do not like my look, how very shallow of you, to think beauty is only outside. Everyone is special in their heart and mind!

I wish you wisdom, in your future years!

Chai with an I!




NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
5/6/2017 12:16 am

You sound like a great woman and you deserve the best


DickGuicey 72M
22 posts
4/6/2017 5:24 pm

Real beauty is to be found in the spirit, the soul of a person and is usually expressed in their intellect. I'd love to be one who has the opportunity to view your facial countenance, however I do not need to do so to realize the beauty that you possess. "Here's looking at you kid!"


Handyman7830 49M

1/28/2017 10:12 am

Rose,

I would be honored to see your face pictures as well. Spend time with you and see where it leads.

Handyman


photon46 76M
339 posts
1/2/2017 10:58 am

Half the world is below average. Not sure if on here everyone even meets that standard. Part of being a grown-up is realizing that you always get caught in lies, that no one needs abuse or disrespect and, eventually we all have to live with the results of how we treat others.


hornysenior4 79M  
1391 posts
10/2/2016 6:48 pm

Hello Chai!

It's been awhile since3 I've seen You being on-Line! Honesty in All We speak is the Best!. But how to Discern what is What? I have always tried to be Honest. that way I Always Know What I said and don't have to make up other lies to cover up other Lies! Simple, Huh? LOL!!

The Truth is Muddled. But still out there. Hope You find Your One or A Couple of Good People! Your Wit and Frankness has Attracted Many! Of Course Your Sensuousness Doesn't hurt either! You just need to be able to Sort them out! I'd Love to sit and Chat Sometime! A Glass of Red Wine Sometime?

Sex? Probably not? You would probably send me to my Grave! LOLOL!!

Hugs!


olderfwbforyou 73M
6 posts
9/4/2015 9:12 pm

pity


newazlvr 75M
74 posts
1/16/2015 10:51 pm

This venue offers a great opportunity to share thoughts, desires, intimacies without restrictions or concerns, but the shallow stop there and never recognize the deeper, more meaningful aspects of getting acquainted, talking, sharing. What a shame that potentially great friendships can be ruined when built on shifting sand without true foundation. May we look past the surface to the core, may we communicate past the coarse sexual to the truly intimate, may we place sexual favors where they fit-an important but not dominating factor in building a friendship or relationship. If the sexual is the only facet of an association, may we always be aware and not assume there is more there!


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
1/11/2015 8:37 am

Hello Chai,

Your posting got me thinking about my experiences with Passion. I’ve met women who posted misleading pictures or were not as their profile described. I understand your frustration, it is annoying and a waste of time. I don’t think you hate men, but you’ve obviously been disappointed by the ones you’ve met. That seems to be one of the common complaints about this site along with the fakes and flakes.

Sometimes it is the nature of the site and, unfortunately, it is sometimes the nature of the people. The site caters to a wide range of people and interests and it isn’t always easy to filter out the fakes given how easy it is to lie online. Even when you think you have a reasonable idea of who a person is when talking to them, meeting them is a whole other thing. Communication is crucial, you know that, but still you don’t know until you meet.

As far as people who don’t like your look, I’ve been there. I contacted one woman, with a simple message essentially saying I would be interested in talking to her. Her response was men with beards are disgusting. If someone doesn’t like how I look that’s fine, it is there preference. Having certain preferences doesn’t necessarily mean someone is shallow. If they don’t know that there is more than just physical beauty then yes you are right they are shallow. When they are disrespectful about it that’s their problem and I don’t let their issues become mine. Like you said just move on.

“Don’t hate the player, hate the game.” (RIP Stuart Scott.)

If you want I would be interested in hearing your thoughts.

Have a most excellent new year.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
1/1/2015 11:42 am

A sad testament to those of us who never judge and are more comfortable
engaging others in a more gentlemanly and demure manner to win a heart
no just a piece.The intrinsic values we have to offer others in an loving relationship are never given enough time to bloom. Especially when an interested party is bent on looks and not the importance of communication.
Trust me, we're out there.It's the capacity of the heart that interests us not the package where it resides!JB

Using more than all the road!


Chai12007 replies on 1/4/2015 1:03 pm:
You are a very intelligent man! Nice words of wisdom for those who can grasp the meaning!!

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