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Silly men!!!  

mimi4evah 53F
78 posts
4/10/2014 12:45 pm
Silly men!!!

So for quite sometime there have been a couple of men that I've talked with, and never met. One not from here and one that started out here... and then left. The connection was very nice. Lots of interest and good conversation. To the point that I once decided that I was not going to go on any dates until this one person returned from a business trip out of town. I wanted to see what would happen when we met. So we continued to talk and share. For months. Then he said he had to travel overseas to Singapore. We would chat from time to time, and I'd decided that waiting was silly because when he was in town he never contacted me. Hmmmm red flag. So time goes forward and he contacts me again. Telling me that again he is out doing what he does... but will be back in a couple of months. I am willing to see. I'm not going to wait this time.... but I will look forward to it. He tells me things like he "needs" me... blah blah blah.... and then one day I never hear from him. Another man... the one not from this site ... we were talking blah blah blah... I really want to meet you, but don't have a way to Eugene... again a red flag.... and we were messaging on FB and then one day he just stops! I am confused....so I sent him a message saying hey, it is all good. Just communicate. It is ok to tell me that you've met someone. I promise I am going to be happy for you. that is just the kinda gal I am. I am happy for others who find what they want and need. No response.... but the next day he does post that he is in a relationship. hahaha

I am not sure how to classify this.... but it is interesting. Part of why I really want something ORGANIC!!! So universe... I empower you to allow it to happen. Some guy who is just my type.... or maybe he's out of my box to come up to me and say .... Hey lady... *grin*..... wanna get to know me? Lets have that happen!!! Ready, SET.... GO!

hiddenmythology 44M
9643 posts
4/10/2014 1:47 pm

 What is the saying? Gotta kiss(talk) to a lot of frogs before the Prince comes along? I do think there is often truth to that.
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rm_SweetenNerd 47M
6 posts
8/28/2014 1:18 pm

 Hey, lady.

So, chat room's deadish besides comings and goings. Z's being too bashful to take attention, and besides that, there's you.

Um... yes. Hi. Definitely hello you.

In case you missed it in chat, I am crushing on your profile right now. If I stick around here, it will be because I became comfortable being as honest as you. Tricky as I've been advised to maybe not do that...

Seriously. You're interesting.


TantricTiger74 49F
2 posts
3/4/2015 12:19 am

 I can definitely relate! I met a divorced guy from here and he turned out to be married and already had a drug addicted mistress. Ultimately it was just too much chaos and neglect for me and I've had to say goodbye. It's not an easy task. Some men just aren't built for open, honest communication.


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