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mimi4evah 53F
78 posts
8/2/2015 11:30 am
Insight


So recently a friend was in need of a new living situation. I have extra room and live alone. This seemed like a good match. I am happy for it. However she is beautiful, tall, blonde and has an amazing body. When we go out.... my jaw drops and my head shakes. The number of men who cat call her or just simply approach her is amazing. It confirms to me many of my insecurities. Never in my life (even when younger and thin) has anything like this ever happened to me. I don't even know what I would do if it did.

What I am feeling, thinking and will share is how I feel... remember my feelings are my own. I feel frumpy, unattractive and I realize how differently women are treated when they meet the "ideal" of attraction.

I recently watched a movie with Adam Sandler. He puts on other peoples shoes and becomes them. What an interesting concept. What would it feel like to put on her shoes. For ALL the men to desire you.... We were standing in line at an event and the number of men who asked to buy her a beer was staggering, and not one even said hello to me.

I don't know what to really think of this. I don't think I really care. This is the only life I know... I didn't know prior to this that men actually did things like this. It is just a little bit eye opening to that for some life is very different.

mbgbillybob 64M
72 posts
8/6/2015 6:39 pm

You should not feel that way about yourself. You are a very attreactive and sexy lady. You also seem to have a great personality. It is a shame we are so far apart I would love to meet you sometime.


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