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Dear Men, Why You Don't Get Offers to Meet for Real
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Dear Men, Why You Don't Get Offers to Meet for Real So first of all, I have to tell you even as a standard member as a woman I got probably 20 emails per week. At least 5 of those are from guys who really want to meet and hookup. About 2 of those are quality guys who actually read my profile and know that I'm looking for a man interested in continuing liaisons rather than just one night fucks. Having said that, you as a man have far more competition on this site. You as a guy get far less emails. We women are far more selective as well. If your profile consists of a statement that says something like "hey looking for real people who want to get together and have fun" end of paragraph, and for partner is says something like "real women or couples that want to actually meet", and all of your pics are of your penis (yes, we know you love it, we do too, but we see so many pics of penises we get sick of it), then well, you can expect to see very little actual action. For me and my fellow horny women, likely what we think and what I always think, is that you have little or no intellect or personality. If you want a response, I can't say this enough: READ MY PROFILE. Say something about something in my profile that interests you. Say something that is interesting or unique. Anything other than hey baby wanna fuck? If you want to meet real women, act like a real man, a real human being. I'm a total slut when I'm with a guy I like alone, but I want to know that you want to spend time with me outside of fucking. Most women want to be adored. Want to be wanted. Not just as a sex object, but as a person. Try it. It will work. Kisses, SubgirlDD |
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Well said subgirlDD. Real talk there.
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Very good advice....of course now that you told all the guys that, there will be even MORE competition....no wait, that assumes that guys will have read your blog and listened......
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10/20/2013 3:17 am |
I can understand your dilemma I cant view profiles because I don't have a ball so I read the blogs and I watch to see who is coo, coo for coa coa puffs and who's got their head on straight. I've never come at any of the women here in a way that's unbecoming of a mature adult male, looking to make a connection. The biggest sex organ is the brain, and I always stroke that first so that way sometime later on down the line I can stroke the pussy. Chemistry is everything to me, and I dont throw my dick around freely ...like some of the desperate no havin' fella's  good post.Please, just call me diggy.
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Too many men here think it's just a matter of emailing enough women before they get a response, so they use spammer tactics -- they email every woman within a 1,000-mile radius, regardless of age, what they're looking for, etc. because they don't even take the time to read profiles unless they get a response back. The result is that just about every woman here gets flooded with lame, impersonal emails that essentially say nothing, and only the most desperate woman would actually respond. Meanwhile, guys like me who would spend time reading through profiles, filtering out women who wouldn't match, and crafting emails that are personalized to that person get drowned out by the sea of stupidity. The spammers have really destroyed this website. [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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Subgirl, your thoughts are precise and your words articulate, great advice for anyone here, especially those who either have no clue or just don't care. On the other side of things as a man who reads profiles, yes reads them looks for a common bond and who you are actually seeking, I seldom get a response at all from the women that I write. My emails are not crude, lewd, or un dignifying in any way...they are kind and hopefully thoughtful and I still don't get a reply. why not just say no, or not interested instead of nothing? Maybe that's why some of the idiots just send the stupid messages. If everyone here was real this site would be much more fun for everyone involved.
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Lady-- Because your a FEMALE- your guaranteed 9 emails as soon as you open an account on here..lol Most of us SMART men know that this site's ration is 150:1 female on this site. So we have a small window to impress you enough to want to talk beyond the 1st, RESPECTFUL email. PArt of the problem is a lot of woman AREN'T here to meet. They are here to get their ego stroked. To get the attention they arent getting at home. So they either read your email, and discard, or not even read it PERIOD. Thats our biggest obstacle on here.. Read my profile and you tel me I am not doing all that you suggested...lol ~Linc was here.~
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The stated points are valid- the unfavorable ratio, the cursory reply, intrinsically not a good match. As guys the answer is to be yourself, recognize the odds, figure out what you really want, enjoy the process, and be confident that ulimately one its a metter of luck. Guys here too cover the whole spectrum- being too tenatative, to carpetbombing (emailing/paging every prospect). The silver lining is the odds are much better in real life, and women out there in real life can be sexually exciting as the ones here.
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