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Flirting on here Why is it we get notifications that someone has flirted, so you go to their profile, say Hi and maybe something witty, bam No Response. You send friend request only just friends? No response, Did they really flirt or is the system making it up? or do people actually flirt just to see a guy crawl? I am a man and this is bullshit. And dont get me started on Views. Comments welcome |
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Because usually, it is nothing but a scammer, who has already screwed a member here of their off site information. So they have their Gold membership by way of ill gotten gains. Standards used to be able to flirt years ago, but the site wised up and did away with that feature for standards, they should do the same exact thing to hot listing as well. Over 95+% of the time, it's only fakes and scammer that use those features on this site. Just my opinion !!!
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Why is it we get notifications that someone has flirted, .... Because someone has flirted with you... or the site flirt-bot generated it. so you go to their profile, say Hi and maybe something witty, ... In case it is real, don't muck it up with the additional wit.... see if they respond to your "Hi". If they do, then go from there. You send friend request only just friends? .... Wouldn't do that....Why would want to be only just friends with a woman? Especially if she lived in your area. or do people actually flirt just to see a guy crawl? ... Consider your age. The women , most anyway, are likely around your age, and some may be just testing to see if they can still hook a mans interest .
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5/27/2018 6:38 pm |
I would basically assume that if it is a standard member it is site generated and if she is a gold member she can write a message so why the flirt? Yeah, it is all basically junk with the site trying to get something to happen for those of us who no one is really interested in. Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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Ah, well, this is all about looking to see what's out there and being an emotionally intelligent being. (HuH???) People cannot checkout profiles without VIEWING them. Some here only do that from the comfort of their own laptop or phone for the Entertainment value. Under no circumstances need anyone take it personally one way or another if they are viewed, even repeatedly, by others who do little more than that, or just try to engage in a chat. That said, its also perfectly OK not to chat, even if you looked at a profile or flirted (my version of giving a thumbs up to what I see there). For me, distance generally prevents taking things further, but I like to let others know when I think they are interesting or really have it together in my book. So I flirt my support or approval, or friend, or I hotlist in case I manage to have more than a little in common with the profiler. An exchange of emails may quickly bring to light other things in common, or differences that will illuminate an ill-fitting match. Nothing personal.....its sampling, even before meeting. Don't want to waste your time and would prefer that if there is some dealbreaker, we discover it sooner rather than later. Those just wanting hook ups may have different standards of communicating. These are mine.
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what lala and curious said...mostly site generated..i had someone that showed as viewed me everytime i was on..contacted and was told they had looked...once..2 weeks before...site kept pushing it to make me think it was ongoing... woop woop
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I have been contacted quite a few times with flirts, and it never leads to anything. I don't see why someone would not just write a message on here.
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5/27/2018 9:12 pm |
hoving over any profile will say you viewed it even when you didnt view it. the site fucked up like that. I flirt if I am interested but I dont message free members becuase they cant read it anyways being a free member and all. I never have paid for my gold and the site gave me gold status on its own without ill gotten gains I might add and hate the vip status shit.. thus why i dont have videos up or alot of pictures... I'm afraid to get that vip status... becuase then if i got it.. it blocks any local guys for seeing my profile and all i get are people not even in my state contacting me... local isnt a word most people know it appears to me... But I dont get the reply back from those I do contact becuase they fit what I want... so unless a guy contact me.. I no longer try on this site.. thus why i have another way other then the site to contact me that's free to do so.. But I have found sooooooooooo many fakers,flakers, bullshiters, and game players on here with most of the males... that yeah I am a bitch if you dont meet what I want.. usually I am nice in my rejection reply... most because of distance or having a beard..but that's just how I roll.. As a guy you must earn my respect for you. just saying... not enough real males on the site.... "Men need to hunt. She obviously understands this. She’s offering herself as prey. Not easy prey. But willing.” Found this quote on a website... befitting I think.... Meli
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They almost should just do away with the flirt feature. If somebody can flirt, they can get to the point and send a message. Oddly, I mostly get flirts from men, often right after I do a cam show. Go figure lol
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Local Adult Companion system sucks . I get notifications pple viewed my profile only to say hi and get the most rude response
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GeekWluvTool replies on 5/29/2018 9:37 am: You are not deserving of rude comments. Most aren't but in the world of the internet people feel like they can say and do anything with no repercussions. Thank you for your response..... You are not deserving of rude comments. .... Hold on..... "Rude comments" can be very subjective. She might think a guy I.M. 'ing her and telling her he wants to fuck her ass, is a rude comment, when really , for this kind of site versus eharmony, that is appropriate and not rude. .... So tell her to give an example before you say , "You don't deserve rude comments".
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