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Men: Want more results? Tired of wasting your time?
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Men: Want more results? Tired of wasting your time? I'm always amused when I read an angry statement on a man's profile such as "there's nothing but fakes on here," or "no one here answers messages." Although I'm sure this is true in some cases, I believe it's more likely a result of the effort one expends. And I'm sure that women are just as guilty, so men, please don't take offense. Some men seem to be of the mindset that every woman on a site like Local Adult Companion is just waiting to hook up with the first man to come along. Men, we're not much different here than anywhere else, with the exception of being open about our sexuality. We want to know what it is about you that would make you a good partner; whether for one night or longer term. We want to know what you're looking for, what you enjoy, and more if we're looking for something besides a NSA relationship. We'd like to see that you can form an intelligent, articulate paragraph or two about yourself. It's not enough that you have a cock, unless that happens to be all we're looking for; as in, "just shut up and fuck." Even then we have some criteria. And how about a photo of some type just to catch our interest? If you take the time to read a woman's profile, you should have a good idea what she wants and whether you'd be compatible. READ the profile!!! And put some effort into yours!! I don't understand why someone would pay for a membership and write two sentences about himself, nothing about what kind of woman he likes, and a bunch of "prefer not to say" responses. Unless you anticipated failure. And should you reach out to make contact with a woman, you might find you're more likely to get a response if you put forth more effort than, "hey what's up," "what are you into?" (which I always reply to with "intelligence"). If you're 35 years old and she's stated she's looking for someone in their 50's, how likely is it that you're going to get any reply other than a hostile one??? It seems that younger men think we older women are just dying for some young cock. I'm sure it's magnificent, and if and when we are, we know where to find you. As for me, a well-thought out profile and an intelligent and interesting message from a man who's read my profile, knows what I want and feels he fits the bill is what gets my attention. And it's why I tend to adore "older" men. Women - any thoughts or comments??? What would make you more likely to respond to a man's profile or message?? Men - are we asking too much? Is it just a numbers game or do you really want to meet the right women for you? |
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I agree completely with everything. Problem is that the men who you are talking about most likely do not read the blogs. I know what I like and will not change just because a man is interested in me. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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I have to agree with what you have written. When ever I send a message to a profile that I like, I first read the profile & comment on what is written and about myself. I usually only get 10% response back. Please feel free to read my blog at Losnewf Thoughts
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Unfortunately, the people who read blogs are largely already aware of this - as they are usually "more intelligent beings" than the random members on here. And the site is largely to blame, because they market this site as a place to "get fucked tonight". They are appealing to the "lowest common denominator", the men that think like Neanderthals. This is NEVER going to change - no matter if each and every woman blogger on here were to send the exact same message. Well said, though.  Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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Thanks for commenting Karlof. Your approach demonstrates good deductive reasoning, which I find to be more highly developed in men past a certain age. I think some guys are just bored and are looking for some kicks. But I consider it a waste of time to share more than a friendly note with someone I know I'll never meet, whether due to my own limits or geographical obstacles. There ARE some of us who share common goals and want great sex, but prefer it within the context of a caring relationship. Sex for sport gets old fast in my opinion. So good luck to you, don't give up!
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I've often had similar thoughts about women whose profiles are one giant rant about how nasty and fake the men on here are.  I think it's more a function of human nature - that's why I like some peoples' nature and not that of others. Like you, I generally prefer partners closer to my age, or at least closer to my stage in life. I also love well-educated people - things just go more smoothly, generally. Ultimately, though, it's a question of personality. Some people are impatient, feel entitled, or are quite narcissistic. You can't change that, but can only shake your head and say "next!".
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