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More people need to answer their emails  

randkabq 109M/109F
54 posts
12/7/2013 10:44 am
More people need to answer their emails


Even if it is to say not ,interested. Lots of folks on this site but not as many as would really be involved. Be polite and at least answer emails receive. I am sure the number of emails you receive is not that overwhelming. We enjoy new friends and hope that we can chat with you folks

alilfun1981 62M  
108 posts
12/7/2013 10:52 am

thank you for your post i agree


rm_myhwyvonne 61M/60F
25 posts
12/7/2013 11:16 am

My wife has tried to respond to every message she received since joining and has fun doing it. I also field some of them but I have to say when you take the time to complete your profile with very specific criteria as to what you're seeking it is a slight imposition to respond to men who are not single or completely Str8 or have not filled out theirs or are ambiguous in their descriptions. No need to fish in our lake guys you won't get any bites.


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
12/7/2013 11:35 am

One of the reasons I stopped was because when I would send a brief not to say, "no thank you" I got too many nasty, abusive messages back. The same guy who would send me an (unsolicited) rambling fantasy about everything he wanted me to do to him would turn around and tell me I was a fat bitch and a whore for telling him I wasn't interested in him.

That can only happen so many times until you just think, "fuckit, I don't have to put up with that".


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
12/7/2013 11:48 am

Why should I answer when the person who writes is not what I am? My profile is clear a female or couple only but most that write is males. When i was interested in a male I had the age limits etc. Most that wrote was to young or whatever.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


randkabq 109M/109F
2 posts
12/8/2013 7:26 am

I msee several reason s why now. However our emails are always polite and I feel appropriate for wht the other folks have listed. I do aree that many singles here are obnoxious . If they answer agressively notify the site of their inappropriateness!!


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
12/8/2013 10:14 am

If you fit into what they want it would be nice that they answer. I do. Otherwise I do not or not in the way they would like. I am at a BDSM site and not one person who writes me is what I want. I mark as spam and delete without answering. Most did not read my profile or ignore what is there. At that site we can tell who reads them.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


DaddyScrewAbq 70M
12 posts
1/12/2014 4:24 pm

I'm guessing a majority of users can't email!!


wkyfuncouple3844 57M/50F  
14 posts
7/26/2014 8:41 am

Thank You I totally agree!!!!!!


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