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"The one"!
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"The one"! All of our lives, since we were very young. We dreamed about getting the perfect mate. "The one", we planned to spend the rest of our life with. As we got older we looked for "The one"! There were qualities we expected them to have. Such as: Beauty, intelligence, body, smart, loyalty, compassionate, honesty, career, romantic, sensual, and most of all be into us. We hoped to find someone with all of these quantities, but compromised on most. Not only a man, most women want "The one" as well. I knew people , that been married for a very long time, and when they got divorced, they said, their mate wasn't the one. I would say, only a couple of people I met in my lifetime, said, they found "The one". We want the perfect woman, but we not perfect either. I know people in their 50s and never been married, they say, they still waiting for "The one". While my neighbor got divorced from wife number 6, and he said, none of them was "The one". So sad, do we ever find them, or are we looking for a needle in a haystack? I got married, and been divorced for 25 years, maybe I missed out on her? I knew of people that had good women. This one friend said, She's not "The one", I love thinner, more shapely women, and can't be with a woman who is 50 lbs over weight! Some men and women said, they wanted someone better looking, and in better shape. We want something we might not get, because "The one" must be perfect! If the person we with is not, we'll let them slip away. How you know, they are "The one"? Out of 10 qualities, how many are you willing to except? Four, five, six? this depend on the individual. My neighbor has two qualities, and they are, if they have a pulse and love sex. this is why he been divorced 6 times. It's sad for many, after so many years of marriage, and they weren't the one. I guess we want what we want. Just imagine, one day we find the perfect person, she meet all of your qualities and more! We find the person person for us! We think the story would have a happy ending, but then they tell us that we not "The one"! Riddle time: What two things people never eat before breakfast? ans: lunch and supper What one word has all 26 different letters in it? ans: The alphabet What does this represent? /R/E/A/D/I/N/G/ ans: "Reading between the lines".          |
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My husband allowed me to seek sex outside my marriage, figuring since he couldn't fulfill my needs, I could find it elsewhere. I ended up finding my perfect for me that way. We couldn't be together then, but here we are, 7 years later, and we are making plans to be together. Our situation has changed and both of us are divorcing our partners. Shortly, I will be with my perfect for me man.
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I know I had "the one" once but sadly he is dead. Maybe I could be lucky again?? I don't have any preconceived ideas....just let him be honest and make me laugh.  ~~Anais Nin~~
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We all want to find "the one", and each one of us goes different way in their search. When we're younger we have some very precise things we look for, and many expectations, only to get older, and realize that our expectation didn't really matter. It's not an easy process. The right one may come at the very wrong time, like it happened t o me, but was married, and my religious beliefs kept me from acting on it. When it was finally possible, and was hoping to be able to give all t he love we had in us for each other, he passed away, and we never had the choice to become lovers. He's the only man that ever loved me, and all plans are finalized from when it comes my times, to be unite forever. Even then, it can happen that our hearts do whatever they want, and we're just honest about it, and it doesn't matter how many times I say I just want/care for a true friendship, some treat you like the pledge now, and they get so mean to the point to tell you it was just out of pity, and have to move on. There was nothing for me to move on to, I just said it because up to that point, we talk freely to each other, about everything. Didn't want/expected nothing in return, just that precious friendship, and knowing to be thought of, listen to that phone ring just to check in........I loved that and I really miss it. I feel sorry for people like that because they really don't know what true love is, and they feel threaten by it, becoming very mean to only person who would give anything for their happiness, no matter the cost.. I already have found my "one" years ago, and I wish for all to eventually found theirs!!!  WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING
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Hope you find the one Scoupe you sure do deserve this! Will you settle for 8 out of 10 all depends who the person is. hugsssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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Finding "THE ONE" should be about the whole package, not based on looks or how big or small someone is. Its about the person as a whole, we all think we know what the one is. But I have to say I don't think anyone knows what the real one is until they truly find it. And yes everyone deserves to find the one that is for them, thru good and the bad..Great blog my friend.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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