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Just wondering...  

OhMischiefOne 53F
5 posts
3/7/2014 1:02 pm
Just wondering...


When a man cums, he is usually "tender" and needs a break or stops completely.....

Why is it then that when a man is playing with the clit and the women cums he then goes hell for leather! Am I the only woman that also feels a bit tender after cumming? Im refering to<b> cunnilingus </font></b>and clit play here.

kiwiswinger4040 61M
11 posts
3/19/2014 4:45 pm

no your not the only woman to say that its good to have a rest then start again a little later


Lost_Cause_69 59M
29 posts
8/20/2014 1:11 am

Hehe, good point


pussylikkaluva 75M
16 posts
11/30/2014 1:06 pm

You've sure got your 'finger on the button' here OhMischiefOne.

Come on guys, every woman is different. If your last date loved having her clit pounded incessantly and would orgasm rapidly one after the other - great!! But your next lucky lady may only be a single-shot-woman. Many women don't mind their earlobes nibbled. While you're there, show consideration and gently ASK in loving whispering tones, if she would still like to have her clit stimulated. If its a "no not yet" or any such similar answer, then LEAVE IT ALONE.

What could be of benefit is to try one or more of these:
Roll over on your back, taking her with you so that she ends up lying on top of you. Rub her back with firm pressure. Lightly massage the base of her neck and shoulders, light strokes up and down her sides.
Open your legs and let her grip your thigh between hers - she may want to just feel a firm pressure on her pussy as the last little waves of orgasm slowly subside. Sometimes she wants to take charge of her own pleasure points.
Talk to her - tell her how great it was that she climaxed. Listen to her murmurs and sighs - these are the triggers which express her contentment.
Hug her, cuddle her, stroke her hair, massage her scalp, light kisses to her cheeks, to her neck - especially to just below the junction of her jaw and ear. If she rolls over on her back, gentle heel-of-palm pressure above her pubic area and light strokes over her exposed labia with the tips of your fingers only. If you have your head down there, she may still love to have her pussy area gently stroked, licked, sucked and gobbled. Remember.... LEAVE THE CLIT ALONE. There are lots of other lovely womanly areas that could be explored. Listen to her murmurs and sighs, watch the expressions on her face and play HER game.
If you have yet to unload, be patient and sometimes in a few minutes, she could be taking control and you could end up with a BJ, a HJ, a titty-fuck, maybe an anal fuck if she is comfortable with that. >>!
More than likely, in a few minutes you could be back and penetrating that wanton pussy again and because YOU have shown great consideration, then SHE is likely to allow you to fuck her to reach your orgasm, and maybe she will get a second.
Try it guys.... If she is only into tender loving, then so be it and in most cases, you will finally get your rocks off with a maybe a longer than anticipated sex session, and.... more likely you could end up being her regular FWB. Most ladies have long memories when it comes to good sex.


piratebobx2 110M
28 posts
3/22/2015 2:38 pm

well its an art and sometimes each situation and women are different,think of the lady and not just yourself generaly you have more than 5 minutes


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