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Blogs > carmelcandy78 > CANDY'S THOUGHTS

Place for 1st Meet  

carmelcandy78 47F
152 posts
8/19/2009 11:33 pm

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5/15/2010 2:13 pm
Place for 1st Meet
Where would you prefer to meet if u already have built a chatting relationship with the person and feel u want to have sex with this person that u have never seen?
Their Home
Hotel
Bar
Club
Gas Station
Car Wash
Coffee Shop
Park
Mall
Parking Lot


carmelcandy78 47F
67 posts
8/20/2009 4:09 pm

 That sounds nice.


Shifgrethor 68M
588 posts
8/22/2009 7:14 pm

 The best meeting place is a coffee shop where you can make the meeting short if think turn out to be different that expected. It can also be short if you decide things feel right and you want to take the meeting to a more private place.


carmelcandy78 47F
67 posts
8/22/2009 10:10 pm

 That sounds like a good idea!!


climbingivy 60M

8/23/2009 2:37 am

 Ideally ....a 5* hotel somewhere..a few drinks first. a nice meal...if we are both still awake after that, go up to a luxury room with all cons..


starloverdude 62M
1583 posts
8/23/2009 7:14 am

 Coffee shop, but a coffee shop that serves drinks other than coffee, like tea, for the non-coffee drinkers. Nice, safe place.
you put the left foot in, you take the left foot out...


carmelcandy78 47F
67 posts
8/24/2009 5:39 pm
    Quoting climbingivy:
    Ideally ....a 5* hotel somewhere..a few drinks first. a nice meal...if we are both still awake after that, go up to a luxury room with all cons..
Now that sounds like a good idea for real! I see you have done this before..lol!


carmelcandy78 47F
67 posts
8/24/2009 5:40 pm
    Quoting starloverdude:
    Coffee shop, but a coffee shop that serves drinks other than coffee, like tea, for the non-coffee drinkers. Nice, safe place.
That is considerate. I see you think of others. I like that.


climbingivy 60M

8/25/2009 1:39 am
    Quoting carmelcandy78:
    Now that sounds like a good idea for real! I see you have done this before..lol!
Yes I have done it before..But not in a seedy way...I was with my then Girlfriend and I decided to give her a surprise for new years eve....Great night, good fun, not just sex..


carmelcandy78 47F
67 posts
8/26/2009 10:53 pm
    Quoting climbingivy:
    Yes I have done it before..But not in a seedy way...I was with my then Girlfriend and I decided to give her a surprise for new years eve....Great night, good fun, not just sex..
Believe it or not I have never had anything like that. Cannot say that I have ever been on a real date. Sad thing but I have not. One day will have to put that on my Christmas wish list.


climbingivy 60M

8/27/2009 1:40 am
    Quoting carmelcandy78:
    Believe it or not I have never had anything like that. Cannot say that I have ever been on a real date. Sad thing but I have not. One day will have to put that on my Christmas wish list.
Never been on aa real date..??..Wow..!!..I wish I lived near You..I'd try to put that right..If you'd have me..!!..What are the Guys in Arkansa at..?


carmelcandy78 47F
67 posts
8/27/2009 11:52 am
    Quoting climbingivy:
    Never been on aa real date..??..Wow..!!..I wish I lived near You..I'd try to put that right..If you'd have me..!!..What are the Guys in Arkansa at..?
As far as the men I've dated only selected few come close to being men. The good ones are taken and the women sure aren't letting them go(don't blame them). My guy now is cool but just finding hisself on that level. Giving him time...lol not too much though! The friends I have are DL friends so of course we cannot be all out in the open. I need to start traveling....lol


climbingivy 60M

8/27/2009 2:35 pm
    Quoting carmelcandy78:
    As far as the men I've dated only selected few come close to being men. The good ones are taken and the women sure aren't letting them go(don't blame them). My guy now is cool but just finding hisself on that level. Giving him time...lol not too much though! The friends I have are DL friends so of course we cannot be all out in the open. I need to start traveling....lol
At least you have somebody Carmel..!!..If you ever start travelling, maybe look me up..


carmelcandy78 47F
67 posts
8/27/2009 8:21 pm
    Quoting climbingivy:
    At least you have somebody Carmel..!!..If you ever start travelling, maybe look me up..
True that!


Jobe00 49M
210 posts
9/5/2009 8:40 am

 I like to meet at a nice restaurant for a meal (my treat since I'm a little old fashioned). It's public enough that both of you can feel safe for a first meet, but still allow for private conversation.

If you click in person, then you can go somewhere else for fun after dinner.


carmelcandy78 47F
67 posts
9/6/2009 6:06 pm
    Quoting Jobe00:
    I like to meet at a nice restaurant for a meal (my treat since I'm a little old fashioned). It's public enough that both of you can feel safe for a first meet, but still allow for private conversation.

    If you click in person, then you can go somewhere else for fun after dinner.
Sounds intriguing


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