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What's the point?  

Horny_Holly 43F
768 posts
11/24/2014 2:05 pm
What's the point?

Him
HI there, I'm curious... I just joined this site and I read your profile. You sound super fun and you know what you want. I like that and respect that. I was hoping I could ask you a question. I know you're not into married men, so I won't bore you with any sort of trying to convince you otherwise, but I was hoping you could tell me a couple things. If I weren't, would you have possibly been interested, and based on my body photo, would you say I'm in shape/fit? I have been working out hard for almost a year and am proud of my progress. Thanks. Keep up the fun, looks like you're using this site to its full advantage. Hope I can someday!

Dave
24/11/2014 8:42 pm


So if I reply "Omg, yes, if you weren't married I'd want you!" is he going to leave his wife so we can live happily ever after together?

What if I tell him "No, you're not in shape, you've still got a bit to go." Imagine the names I'd be called!

Or there's always "It doesn't really matter how much weight you lose, I wouldn't be interested in you if you were the last man on earth".

So what is the point of his questions? What possible purpose could my answers serve his life?

Guys, I'm not your therapist. I have neither the time nor the inclination to stroke your ego - or anything else before you say it Seek your validation elsewhere.

Here's a thought...get validation from your wife! You remember her, don't you, Dave

Have a wonderful week, everyone




"I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."


_Pauline_ 43F
85 posts
12/11/2015 7:10 am

    Quoting timexxx691a:
    The Point Of My Typing Style Is To Get Your Attention. For Better Or worse I'd say It Worked.
Obviously not considering Holly didn't reply


timexxx691a 54M
87 posts
8/3/2015 10:13 am

The Point Of My Typing Style Is To Get Your Attention. For Better Or worse I'd say It Worked.


matt-battler 50M
199 posts
11/28/2014 3:53 am

re Vanity: I'll let you into a secret - every man who's started working out will flex in front of the mirror when no one else is watching, vanity is definitely a factor even if he's not body confident.

If your future special friends struggle to measure up to me as a benchmark they're in a world of trouble

By all means use the phrase marginally less repulsive - this is exactly the sort of discourse I'd like to see more of, especially around Christmas time.


Horny_Holly replies on 12/7/2014 3:17 pm:
Men flex in front of their mirrors? Say it ain't so

Hahaha, so very true, Matt, so very true

I intend to use it when they least expect it!

This guy's single profile has now turned into a couple's profile. A bit odd considering his story is that he's studying here and his wife is back in the US

matt-battler 50M
199 posts
11/26/2014 12:10 pm

As you know Holly the only thing I like better than a pointless, lengthy, acrimonious and circular argument is a period of protracted negotiation. Other people call this several hours of begging and pleading but I prefer to give this its proper description as I'm a frustrated courtier.

I guess your new special friend Dave has recently had several unsuccessful negotiations with his spouse in the last year, hence his newfound vanity. ALWAYS be suspicious of married people on a sudden health kick - my arsehole ex-boss did exactly this 6 months before he left his wife. He even gave up smoking to make himself marginally less repulsive. I'm glad his year of intensive gym work has proved to be a total waste of time


Horny_Holly replies on 11/27/2014 4:39 pm:
Hahaha, who knew you had royal connections!

Does it count as vanity, though, if he's not convinced himself he looks good and is seeking validation from strangers

Lmao @ "marginally less repulsive" - I shall use this line in a reply to one of my "special friends" in the future I'm sure you won't mind, I'll even mention you to them if you like

He's a total waste of time!

matt-battler 50M
199 posts
11/25/2014 10:26 am

Just before I read your blog I watched a public service advert on Youtube pointing out that '1 in 4 of us has a mental health problem every year' - does being hard of intelligence count?

Isn't it excellent that people think 'no married/attached people EVER' is a basis for negotiation?

Because I'm in a really annoying and pedantic mood: 'I wouldn't be interested in you if you were the last man on earth' - wouldn't that mean technically he was now a widower and therefore unattached again? I guess that means it's personal, not just a principled stand against infidelity . . . another feels the wrath of my formidable friend . . .


Horny_Holly replies on 11/26/2014 7:19 am:
Ahem, I did say last "man" on earth, not person. So put that in your annoying pedantic pipe and smoke it haha.

I know, they're the same people who think that anything I'm not interested in is up for negotiation.

Hard of intelligence = mental health problems I think you might be onto something there, haha.

FullOn4U 58M
20399 posts
11/25/2014 1:22 am

Maybe I'm twisted but one of the delights of the blogs is watching men flock to women's blogs to comment on "Some men are idiots" posts. Their comments are never really about the subject of your posts, they are all about them. And mine is no different

Continuing with the twisted theme, I do not think I could have resisted replying to him... probably something linking the effort he's diverted from getting the most out of his marriage into working out so he can get the most out of ARF.

And then tell him he's way too insecure to be of interest to any self-respecting woman.

And then block him


Horny_Holly replies on 11/26/2014 7:11 am:
Gee, and here I thought my blogs were just that interesting

Haha, I may still reply to him, you never know. I might be in a not-so-good mood one night and take it out on him

I like that line, though "You're way too insecure to be of interest to any self-respecting woman."

desiringyouforme 43M
128 posts
11/24/2014 9:02 pm

I'm guessing he's still a fatty and not all that and a bag of chips But he's still dumb enough to think someone as attractive as you - not blowing smoke up your butt, you're stunning, it's just a fact - is going to give him compliments. Duh No abs, no brains, has a wife, yep, a catch as someone else said


Horny_Holly replies on 11/26/2014 7:08 am:
Average/overweight if I recall, and may have just eaten a bag of chips

Either way, he needs to like what he sees in the mirror, no one else!

desiringyouforme 43M
128 posts
11/24/2014 8:56 pm

    Quoting NSAfriend20:
    That guy must have been singing this Lou Christie song.

    'll try every trick in the book
    With every step that you take, everywhere that you look
    Just look and you'll find
    I'll try to get to your soul, I'll try to get to your mind

    I'm gonna make you mine
    I know I'll never give up, I'm at the end of my rope
    From the morning till supper time, you'll find
    I'll be waiting in line, I'll be waiting in line

    I'm gonna make you mine
    Baby, I'm gonna make you mine
    Make you mine, I'm gonna make you mine
    Baby, I'm gonna make you mine, I'm gonna make you mine

    I'll try every trick in the book
    With every step that you take, everywhere that you look
    Just look and you'll find
    I'll be waiting in line, I'll be waiting in line

    I'm gonna make you mine
    Baby, I'm gonna make you mine
    Make you mine, I'm gonna make you mine
    Baby, I'm gonna make you mine, I'm gonna make you mine

    I'll be a hard-lovin', pushin' kind of individual
    Knockin' night and day at your door
    You'll have to turn me away like an indestructible force

    Baby, I'm gonna make you mine
    Make you mine, I'm gonna make you mine
    Baby, I'm gonna make you mine, I'm gonna make you mine

    I'll try every trick in the book
    With every step that you take, everywhere that you look
    Just look and you'll find
    I'll try to get to your soul, I'll try to get to your mind

    I'm gonna make you mine
    Baby, I'm gonna make you mine
    Make you mine, I'm gonna make you mine
    Baby, I'm gonna make you mine, I'm gonna make you mine

    Baby, I'm gonna make you mine
    Make you mine, I'm gonna make you mine
    Baby, I'm gonna make you mine, I'm gonna make you mine

    Read more: Lou Christie - I'm Gonna Make You Mine Lyrics | MetroLyrics
He should rename that "The Stalker's Song"!!


Horny_Holly replies on 11/26/2014 7:04 am:
Haha, yeah, sounds like a restraining order waiting to happen

bisarahsmiles 34F
282 posts
11/24/2014 4:33 pm

Another day another loser Low self-esteem and cheating on his wife, he's a real catch!!


Horny_Holly replies on 11/24/2014 4:55 pm:
You want him, Sarah Haha

BrockmanBites 37M
89 posts
11/24/2014 4:15 pm

If he's so proud of his progress why does he need you to tell him how he looks? Just another example of a married loser with low self-esteem. I feel sorry for the wives in these situations.


Horny_Holly replies on 11/24/2014 4:53 pm:
I have no idea. And let's face it, he's not looking to hear the truth

I agree. If their wives don't know what they're up to it's unfair to say the very least. God only knows what they're taking home to their wives

GimmeAThrill 55M  
24635 posts
11/24/2014 3:39 pm

Hmm? Oh, wasn't paying attention. Just admiring myself in the mirror. Damn I'm hot.

Smart as a horse and hung like Einstein.


Horny_Holly replies on 11/24/2014 3:47 pm:
And the weight is just falling off you!

comingtogetya4me 54M
165 posts
11/24/2014 3:06 pm

"you've still got a bit to go" just call him a fat mofo and be done with it Maybe then he'll appreciate his wife when he realises the hot women aren't interested in him


Horny_Holly replies on 11/24/2014 3:12 pm:
Hahaha, I would never call him that, that's just mean! I might think it, but that's a different thing

getlucky2132 45M
4996 posts
11/24/2014 2:53 pm

Horny_Holly replies on 11/24/2014 5:38 pm:
Hahaha, I had you in mind when I wrote that!


Bawhahahaha! Unlike these run-of-the-mill douche bags, my douche baggery grows on women like a fungus! I'd give them pointers that would allow their spores to propagate, but alas the world may be better if their mushroom stays in their pants, spores and all?

....Washes off with bleach

Greater Than The Sum Of My Constituent Parts!


Horny_Holly replies on 11/24/2014 3:01 pm:
Well, that put an end to my chocolate treat

And, no, that isn't a euphemism

sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
11/24/2014 2:43 pm

Just reply, No thanks, then delete and wait for the next idiot to e-mail you almost the same thing.

Makes you wonder what some people are thinking, or can they think at all.


Horny_Holly replies on 11/24/2014 2:50 pm:
Some men think a reply is an invitation to pester women even more, so I wouldn't reply to be honest. I'd have nothing nice to say anyway, hahaha.

Like you, I doubt they do much thinking at all

timexxx691a 54M
87 posts
11/24/2014 2:38 pm

It Would Appear To Me That The Point Is At The Top Of His Head! One Thing This Site Has Taught Me Is That You Can't Be All Things To All People. So Deal With It Or Move On!


Horny_Holly replies on 11/24/2014 2:45 pm:
I wonder what the point is of you typing every word with a capital letter at the beginning

getlucky2132 45M
4996 posts
11/24/2014 2:33 pm

Awww, I was gonna have some fun with the stroking part but... More or less, he sees that you're pretty hot, and he just wants you to say he is too. At the least he's gonna jerk-off fanatically on a yes, and the worst he'll get delusions of grander and leave his wife, hit on hot chic's, get slapped around etc...

Greater Than The Sum Of My Constituent Parts!


Horny_Holly replies on 11/24/2014 2:38 pm:
Hahaha, I had you in mind when I wrote that!

Rofl @ "get slapped around". He'd deserve it, too



tigerlady555 104F
2653 posts
11/24/2014 2:30 pm

Your right, there is no good answer, or for that matter reason to reply.
It's a game to them. I may have to do a drawing of this guy !

All female and born this way ~!


Horny_Holly replies on 11/24/2014 2:33 pm:
A game that will not end well, I'm sure!

I just a good laugh at your self-portrait, too damn funny!

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