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The Art of Getting It?  

rm_PrisicaK 49F
712 posts
2/2/2016 12:22 pm
The Art of Getting It?

I am intent on baiting my line better and improving my cast so it begs the question, what is the art of getting it? What ranks most important on first impression for closing the deal?
Most people make up their mind in the first two minutes.
Face and Hair
Body shape in clothing
Clothing (dress, suit, shoe, hosiery)
Body Language (walk, handshake, head toss)
Manner of Speech
Tone of Voice
Other


asiaas 55M
747 posts
2/2/2016 12:25 pm

Wow that is rough, I think it could be a bunch of things in different combinations.


Looking4fun2d84 57M  
125 posts
2/2/2016 12:27 pm

Face and hair is usually first, but a close second is body shape in clothes.


rm_PrisicaK replies on 2/2/2016 12:37 pm:
I specified body shape in clothing because men tend to do this imaginary guessimation absent what a woman is wearing

tedbear472 76M
807 posts
2/2/2016 12:37 pm

Face and hair are first, paying close attention to the eyes. They tell the truth. then would come the body and how they carry themselves.


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
2/2/2016 12:44 pm

would really have to say all of the above, but looks, hair, and dress are the three at the top


rm_PrisicaK 49F
479 posts
2/2/2016 12:44 pm

For me its body first because I like height and proportion. Then it is the face because I have a thing about teeth


luvexotic 62M

2/2/2016 3:07 pm

Is more a combination of face, hair, clothing (and the body shape that is in it), body language and manner of speech help me decide.


Great_eight 58M
1561 posts
2/2/2016 3:46 pm

If you are just looking for sex, all you need is to be willing to have sex. If you are looking for something other than a one night stand other factors come into play.

Being good at conversation and flirting can help but it really shouldn't be too difficult.


gardenboy321 60M  
41936 posts
2/2/2016 8:17 pm

The ability to be open, articulate, and friendly...

of course attraction goes without saying.

Thoughts from the Garden...


1ForeTex 70M
120 posts
2/3/2016 1:57 pm

It is all of it . I'm finding out from a few friends that you girls or ladies are crazy. If we treat you nice you treats us like crap. If we do nothing for you fall all over us an think your going change us !! And make us better. I guess it is the mothering thing ! Forget Ladies you going to fail the bad boys do not change, and they will use you take from you what they can then leave you 85 to 90% of the time!! If not they will treat you as property to do as they want with.


rm_PrisicaK replies on 2/4/2016 3:46 am:
Thank you for that cheerful update.
I for one appreciate nice guys and if you can't be nice I won't get involved. If we're honest most bad guys know how to bait a hook and are sweet as sugar until they get you hooked then disintegrate

1tongue4yall 65M
2205 posts
2/4/2016 4:30 am

i think body language is the big thing. anything else is just superficial but body language can show your attitude, your openness, your confidence (confidence is the biggest key), your sexiness, everything is conveyed through body language.


Slim1der100 51M
123 posts
2/5/2016 8:28 am

With me, it's a lil combination of All of the above!!


EeseRider 66M
187 posts
2/5/2016 9:24 am

Hey Pris, didn't like the choices so I'm responding instead. First off I'm not a booty call guy or a one night stander. I put in the effort to get to know a lady. Like everything else in this world first impressions color ones opinions. In this situation blind conversation (ie) emails ,texts, and phone calls start the ball rolling. That's the first grab. Then when meeting its the package. Dress ,hair ,make-up. Last but most important ,since it seals the deal ,personality. Looks get you in the door ,personality keeps you in the room and coming back for more


rm_PrisicaK replies on 2/5/2016 4:14 pm:
I meant baiting men in real life not this virtual reality. I don't wear make-up so I'm off the list

powercaps716 67M  
83116 posts
4/3/2016 8:20 pm

i would say, all of the above..


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