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Cheater's Guilt
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Cheater's Guilt As a cheater, I'm supposed to feel guilty because my professions of love are made void by cheating. I'm not guilty about that because my professions were true. I'm guilty because in some instances ,through cheating, I didn't grow to love you less but I grew to love him more till my love for him eclipsed my love for you. But he's doing fulfillment on multiple levels (emotional, physical, spiritual, financial) that were lacking for that. As a cheater I'm supposed to feel guilty because I breached the sanctity of our intimacy. I don't really feel guilty about that. I feel guilty because I'm such a coward I'd rather sneak around that to wage Armageddon to be free of you or get you to change. As a cheater I'm supposed to feel guilty because I jeopardized the future we were going to have. There is a difference between conceptualize and actualization. I can plan good things all day long but if i don't move it doesn't come to fruition. To my knowledge I've never cheated a man who wasn't already cheating me already sexually, financially and otherwise. I'm guilty because sometimes I put my needs above others . Like my need to feel loved and wanted so I don't rock the boat and get in your shit the way I need to. Like the way I close my mind off to thoughts of how you might feel if you found out. Like my need to lie sometimes to get to the rush of him or to cover up afterwards when we've spent too long together. Ok, men chime in about your guilt. |
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guilt? what guilt? where I live there is now way I will have an opportunity to meet someone to even think about doing something to cause guilt...............then I come to this site and read blogs and I also try to keep in mind that what I read in some of these blogs can be written by a male pretending to be a woman .............this site is a money making business and I do know that sometimes fake profiles are sent to unsuspecting users in order to get their interest and part with some money............so I would feel guilty if I ever spent money to join this site............which I will never do.......it is a fantasy trip coming to this site....100%.
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The very first time I cheated I did feel guilty that lasted for about 24 hours I asked my wife if we could have sex she looked at me and asked why. I have never felt guilty sense that was over 30 years ago. My wife has become a non sexual person and has no desire or need for sex. Her words
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Cheating only occurs in the context of a committed relationship. No Ring, No cheat. If one is involved in multiple partnerships, all are cheats, IF there is a single committed partner. If one is involved with an individual to whom you have made vows, even looking may be cheating (Matthew 5:28 28But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.) But, if you are in a marriage, and your partner refuses to accommodate your needs, is this not cheating? Well, it certainly FEELS like being cheated out what was once promised to you.
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