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Sex Mistakes Guys Make  

dashing_me 40M
7 posts
11/6/2014 9:09 am
Sex Mistakes Guys Make


Every guy doubts their abilities to please their partner between the sheets at some point, but could you actually be performing a little less than satisfactory in their eyes? What are the big mistakes so many people make and how do you avoid them?

In Her Own Time::
Now don’t get us wrong guys, we know you that it really gets you off knowing that you’ve made your lady reach the big ‘o’, but don’t place all your pride on it. If your gal doesn’t come, don’t get yourself down, women’s orgasms don’t come as easily as a man’s. It’s not that she doesn’t find you attractive or isn’t being extremely pleasured by you, women’s orgasms or lack thereof can be greatly affected by many factors and are as psychological as they are physical, if not more. The biggest error you can do is question her. The likes of “are you gonna come?” or “why haven’t you come yet?” are extremely off-putting and this extra pressure will most likely cause her to lose her focus and reduce the chances of coming even more-so. Ask her things like “do you like that?” or “what do you want me to do to you?” This ensures good communication between the two of you and you know how to best go about getting her to her peak.

Dirty Decibels::
Be aware of the noise-pollution you’re sending out during sex. In the throes of passion you can lose yourself perhaps a bit too much, particularly when it comes to your audio. Letting slip an ex’s name or calling out for that Babe-Station girl that you have your tea-break wank over is never gonna go down well. It could be an innocent mistake not long after a break-up with being so used to calling out another woman’s name perhaps, but it’s a fatal one nonetheless! Stick to simple “Yeah baby”s and moans and groans that can’t be misconstrued should you think there’s any chance of letting slip something that you would’ve rather have kept to yourself.

Porn-About As Real As Father Christmas::
Measuring your sex life up against a porno is never a good thing as porn isn’t reality, yet so many men do it! These<b> explicit </font></b>movies are edited to the death before they ever reach the top shelf of a DVD store or those xxx-websites that are so commonplace nowadays. You don’t see the parts where the guys take viagra to keep them hard, the girls need to take a break due to soreness after too much anal sex or the cuts where something basically just doesn’t go to plan. There’s nothing wrong with trying a bit of rough sex, porn maneuvers or derogatory language with your girl now and again, with her full consent of course. However, unless she is really into this sort of thing, it would be impossible to maintain a sex-life at this level as porn is not real sex. Carry it on for too long you run the risk of making her feel used, resentment toward you or even injure her. Always communicate with her what you both want, what she’s comfortable with and stop if she’s not.

So fellas, if you think you could be making any of these easy mistakes, take a step back and ask yourself what you could do straighten them out and enjoy a fantastic and fulfilling sex life, for both of you.

bed_or_bye 42M/111F  
33 posts
8/28/2018 5:50 am

good one Keep writing


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