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Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type??
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Your pics are lovely. Attitude is everything. I love a woman with confidence.
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You know hun you look great, and I think it's about the person as a whole. If a man is really attracted to a lady its about being attracted to her as a whole, mind, body and soul. As we all come in different shapes and sizes, and men I know like a lady with some meat on her bones. And confidence along with skills play a major factor in people being attracted to one another. If they are just attracted to your body it's just usually all about the sex. Some great questions today, and shame on those FAT SHAMERS, I think the ones who fat shame are just jealous!!! I hope you have a terrific Thursday..  I do find it funny that someone who recently tried to fat shame a blogger out of pure jealousy has the nerve to come here and say the total opposite of how they act, another example how big of a hypocrite they are... like Tmptrzz said shame on them. Please Visit My Blog MAMACITA38DD
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Confidence ! Confidence ! Confidence ! "It is other women that are the most judgemental." I have a couple of friends I know since our teens, whose confidence was ruined by their own mothers. Either by longterm fat-shaming, or slut-shaming. These women, who are neither fat nor sluts (in every sense of the word) never recovered, even after they married and had children of their own. So, yes, one cannot overstress enough how important it is to maintain your self-confidence, and the rest will follow.
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I am attracted to all body types. I agree with you it is not just the body, but it is the confidence and intelligence of the lady as well that makes them sexy. I think you look great in all your pics and of course certain angles do help, but there is nothing with that. Keep being yourself and use your sexy mind to find mutual friends that enjoy the same. Cheers! 
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i like your pic a lot
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I quite love a confident woman. When at a swinger's club, I look at the various people there. They are of all shapes and sizes. I see how larger women rock their sexy dress and how they confidently carry themselves. I like that!
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Well, darling what can I say more then you sum it up just perfect!! Do you read my mind or??
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always interested in you
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Confidence is very sexy-attractive!
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Personally and Confidence are more important than body shape or size to me
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It is a combo of both for me! However, truth be told the confidence and the personality outweigh the physical. I have met some very sexy females in my 51 years, and that had nothing to do with their bodies. It is a woman's confidence and mind that brings it all together. I have been fortunate enough to meet a few women that would be considered BBWs, but they were some of the best fun I had and had wonderful minds. With all that being said, for me the biggest physical part is the face, eyes and beautiful, bright smiles! And you definitely have that my dear!
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Not sure you'd qualify as bbw, but most men I know, and me, prefer a woman with some "meat on her bones" so to speak. I am not terribly attracted to women who are uber skinny. Of course, personality is also key. Hot snotty people are no fun at all.
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I had to ponder this for a day to answer honestly. It is CONFIDENCE. I have had awesome satisfying sex with women that are even BBW+. I would rather be with a larger woman that is confident and caring than one that has a perfect body, yet lacks the enduring traits that turn me on.
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I feel like it's definitely a combination. The right mind and the rest doesn't even matter, but your confidence will definitely accentuate your other "assets" to make you that much sexier.
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1/17/2020 4:17 pm |
To me confidence is way more sexy then just looks. I want to have some type of actually conection and someone with confidence is so sexy in my opinion
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1/17/2020 6:57 pm |
Confidence always means more than body type to me. You just happen to have both working for you. 
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I don't really have anything I apply to everyone across the board. Each person is unique. If you make a connection with them, they are sexy by virtue of that connection in addition to their own beauty. I can get turned on by someone's appearance, but generally that's fleeting. Look at women who are regarded as sexy - Marilyn Monroe and Mae West. Neither was thin by today's standards, but decades after they're gone, they're still hailed as epitomes of sexiness. The thing is when you think of each of them, a certain personality comes to mind as well, it's not simply an image. It's that combination that truly is the compostion of sexy. Beauty, personality, the way someone carries themselves. I'll finish this up by saying I haven't seen a photo of yours here that I haven't thought of as beautiful. Your blog brings your personality to us, so I have at least the same image of you as the ladies mentioned above. Because of that, something extra comes across in your photos to make you sexy. Wow, I'm not sure I actually answered the question you asked, but it is my answer.
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" A lot of cargo on the upper deck will get my attention, But a quick wit and a curious mind will keep me attached"
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I think it's the confidence of your pictures. Not because they are naked. I would love whatever body you presented and whatever medium. Ultimately its your confidence that makes me overwhelmed for you. SuperBJ is having a similar issue right now with stolen pictures and not doing HNW. She posted a clothed NNW pic. It's her creativity and confidence that make the difference. Embrace the suck
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The gremlins keep eating my words. !! I gave up correcting stuff and hopefully whoever reads it realizes I'm not completely nuts.
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I think the older the man the less inclined they are to worry about body shape maybe because they realise that looking like a model isn't everything. I noticed the youngest man who posted went for body shape. Unfortunately, I think the men who like bigger women are few and far between or are reticent about stating they like bigger women for fear of "ridicule" With bodies getting bigger across the world, I'm hoping there will be a fat uprising and there will be no choice for the men, they have to like bigger or go without  Bigger women used to mean bigger babies, thus bigger warriors for the tribe, so big breast/hipped women were more desirable than scrawny ones.
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My vote has changed over time for sure, when I was younger it would have definitely for been body shape/size in the slender range. Now... I like "curvy". Yes, curvy. Period. It's way sexier to me than xylophone ribs and man abs on a woman! But to the original question, I love a soft, curvy woman with a brain and a huge sense of humor, who is confident and sexy in her own skin.
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be proud beautiful
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1/19/2020 11:47 am |
For me it is about respect. If I do not respect you as a human being. Then there is no sexual desire.
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yay! your back i would say its a combination of looks attitude and confidence that gets me excited about a woman
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