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Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type??  

hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:00 pm

    Quoting Blee761:
    I had to ponder this for a day to answer honestly. It is CONFIDENCE. I have had awesome satisfying sex with women that are even BBW+. I would rather be with a larger woman that is confident and caring than one that has a perfect body, yet lacks the enduring traits that turn me on.
Thank you for taking the time to give me your honest answer. It is always a pleasure to see you visit my blog. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:01 pm

    Quoting celldwellerfan:
    I feel like it's definitely a combination. The right mind and the rest doesn't even matter, but your confidence will definitely accentuate your other "assets" to make you that much sexier.
Fair enough. Very good answer. I appreciate you stopping by and commenting. Happy day to you.


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:03 pm

    Quoting bs2019cj:
    To me confidence is way more sexy then just looks. I want to have some type of actually conection and someone with confidence is so sexy in my opinion
I feel like the more confident I am the more sexually free I become. I appreciate you stopping by and commenting. Happy day to you.


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:04 pm

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    Confidence always means more than body type to me. You just happen to have both working for you.
Awww..thanks sexy friend


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:05 pm

    Quoting dec47:
    " A lot of cargo on the upper deck will get my attention, But a quick wit and a curious mind will keep me attached"
Very honest answer great to see you dec.


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:10 pm

    Quoting scottj55555:
    I don't really have anything I apply to everyone across the board. Each person is unique. If you make a connection with them, they are sexy by virtue of that connection in addition to their own beauty. I can get turned on by someone's appearance, but generally that's fleeting.
    Look at women who are regarded as sexy - Marilyn Monroe and Mae West. Neither was thin by today's standards, but decades after they're gone, they're still hailed as epitomes of sexiness. The thing is when you think of each of them, a certain personality comes to mind as well, it's not simply an image. It's that combination that truly is the compostion of sexy. Beauty, personality, the way someone carries themselves.
    I'll finish this up by saying I haven't seen a photo of yours here that I haven't thought of as beautiful. Your blog brings your personality to us, so I have at least the same image of you as the ladies mentioned above. Because of that, something extra comes across in your photos to make you sexy.
    Wow, I'm not sure I actually answered the question you asked, but it is my answer.
You did answer the question Scott. Thank you I am quite unique I just need to learn to embrace it..lol.. I appreciate you stopping by and commenting. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:39 pm

    Quoting travellerabc123:
    I think it's the confidence of your pictures. Not because they are naked. I would love whatever body you presented and whatever medium. Ultimately its your confidence that makes me overwhelmed for you.
    SuperBJ is having a similar issue right now with stolen pictures and not doing HNW. She posted a clothed NNW pic. It's her creativity and confidence that make the difference.
I am trying to come up with some creative ideas to give me some inspiration..lol.. I apologize for the late reply. Thank you for commenting.


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:39 pm

    Quoting GreenEyedGuy1968:
    It is insane!!
    I gave up correcting stuff and hopefully whoever reads it realizes I'm not completely nuts.
I gave up too. Which drives me nuts!! Lol


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:41 pm

    Quoting GreenEyedGuy1968:
    Everything comes back into style!

    Bigger women used to mean bigger babies, thus bigger warriors for the tribe, so big breast/hipped women were more desirable than scrawny ones.
Interesting. I have read in some cultures bigger woman and more desirable.


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:43 pm

    Quoting GreenEyedGuy1968:
    My vote has changed over time for sure, when I was younger it would have definitely for been body shape/size in the slender range.
    Now... I like "curvy". Yes, curvy. Period.
    It's way sexier to me than xylophone ribs and man abs on a woman!

    But to the original question, I love a soft, curvy woman with a brain and a huge sense of humor, who is confident and sexy in her own skin.
I agree. I think when people are younger physical appearance is important.


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:44 pm

Thank you niceguy


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:45 pm

    Quoting rick315875:
    For me it is about respect. If I do not respect you as a human being. Then there is no sexual desire.
I like your answer Rick Respect!! I apologize for the late reply. Happy day to you.


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:46 pm

    Quoting leftoverture69:
    yay! your back i would say its a combination of looks attitude and confidence that gets me excited about a woman
It great to see you Combo of both is also my answer. I apologize for my late reply. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:48 pm

    Quoting merlot5555:
    ....genetics determine your body shape... plus or minus of course depending on how you take care of it.... confidence is a plus because it enables you to be yourself and relax in your sexuality.... now curiosity, curiosity is the key because that pushes you to explore... and that curiosity makes anyone a more interesting and attractive person.... imvho...
Yes I agree. I found I was more sexually free when I was comfortable in my own skin. I apologize for the late reply. Thank you for commenting.


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:50 pm

    Quoting  :

I agree
On a site like this we are drawn to personal appearance. I appreciate you commenting. Happy day to you


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:52 pm

    Quoting Don_Harlo:
    Ahhh yes I have struggled with this issue too. I love all women shapes and sizes. Let me be the first of many to say women you are beautiful you are precious I love a great body I also love a confident woman. So a man that recognizes beauty knows that it's an entire package. Baby there are men on their knees waiting and wanting to admire and devour your sexy ass body a long line. Lol! I just know how I want you to feel Sexy just the way you are. Hugs and kisses!
Thank you so much


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:54 pm

    Quoting  :

My goodness


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
2/1/2020 3:56 pm

    Quoting tnjackin:
    I just want to say I adore the new you. I love a body with curves and I love a woman is comfortable in her skin. I think we all have things we would change about ourselves , i think its normal but that doesnt mean we dont want to be who we are. I am a firm believer that "sexy" really doesnt start to come into play until at least age 35. Thats about the time we all really start to realize who we are and find comfort and confidence there. sexy is way more that body type. Sex was good in my 20s but id have to say it has been Soo much better the last 10-15 years because i know who i am now. it really does get better with age. and for the record, you're a delight.
I would agree. I really started to accept and embrace myself in my late thirties. Its been a interesting experience..lol..Always a pleasure to see you. Happy day to you.


rusty_nail 74M  
699 posts
2/2/2020 10:38 am

Beautiful, thank you for being among these blog pages. Hubba Hubba.


Cfitzwell71 52M
17 posts
2/4/2020 11:55 am

Damn I want to know you!


kumswaloer3 55M
282 posts
2/7/2020 10:07 am

It doesn't matter what you want to tittle yourself, they are all Beautiful!


Udontwant2misout 42M
3 posts
2/14/2020 10:35 am

Confidence 100%. Everybody is unique and beautiful.


Hardthicksteel77 46M

2/18/2020 12:24 pm

Damn why arent you in Central TX?? Gorgeous.....


NeedMoreCowBelll 47M

2/19/2020 11:24 am

Women verbally beating down women and body shaming their own? Hmmm, who would have thought it worked that way too.


twntiersbiguy 54M

3/4/2020 11:57 am

Personally, I find the level of confidence a women has in herself and her sexuality to be much more important than whether she would be considered conventionally attractive. A woman with quiet confidence in herself is such a turn-on for me, especially if she's not a 10 by society's standards (which I find insulting anyway- who is to say what is and isn't attractive?)


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