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The swinger's club
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The swinger's club To start off the story i'd say that my first experience to the sexual lifestyle was just going to cam sites and just fooling around ...... and from doing that i kind of got past my shyness of getting a bit sexual. Then i felt that camming was just not enough, so i decided to looking into what else i could do for sexual fun ....... and that's when i found out that there were two swinger's club in the valley (Phoenix) So I go and read reviews and find where each club is located at, but i was still very shy to go to the club. Instead i would just drive by each location and wonder "What is going on in there?". So after a few months of just driving by and staring at the club i finally worked up the courage and stopped by Club Encounters. I chose this one first because I felt more hidden in it's location. As i start walking towards the door I got so nervous that I was kind of shaking just a little bit, but I still committed to enter the club. So i enter the club and I sit down just still surprised that i just entered a swinger's club, and at this moment I just felt like a lost wonder where i am at. Either this was a Friday or a Saturday night (since those are the usual days that it's busy) because there was quite a lot of people and couples there, and i had no idea what i am suppose to do. Too much was running through my head that i did not notice that there was the stairs that lead to the private rooms. So i go upstairs and that's when I was kind of shocked to find that there were people having sex in some of the private rooms they had there. The one that really caught my attention was the orgy room. I'd say that there was at least 8 or maybe even 12 people having sex in the orgy room, and I watched some of the action through the window looking into the room. So i watch for a few minutes and decided to head back downstair since more people started crowding to watch the orgy room as well. So i got downstairs and sat right next to the pool table and watch a few different people play pool. Since this was my first time I still was very shy and did not know what i was even doing at a swinger's club ...... and then the next two people come up to play pool and one of them was Ms S (i'll call her Ms S for now) and they played two game of pool. Then Ms S noticed me and asked if i wanted to play a game of pool, so i told her that i'll play as well as telling her that i was very bad at pool. So Ms S agreed to only play with one hand, so we played one round and I lost and then Ms S asked if i wanted to go play in a room ........ i hesitated for a moment due to my shyness, but i really thought hard and realized that this was leading towards some fun. So finally i got pasted my shyness and agreed to play with Ms S ....... and was it the best decision i made. Of course me and Ms S had fun which made my first swinger's club experience feel very welcome ...... but i'm also glad that i met Ms S that night because she really noticed that i was shy and before we got to fooling around she talked to me and got me very very comfortable with her. Now that i think about it, i don't know if i would have broken out of my shyness without Ms S help. Then there's Club Discretions ....... I finally decided to visit this the other club where the first thing i see is people outside smoking and chit chatting. My nervousness is not as bad as this time around that i don't have those small shakes like i had the first time i want to the other club ..... but i was still nervous being here as well, not know what to expect. But just like being at any other place i kept my distance and just sat there wonder what the hell i was even doing there. I know that it was a swinger's club, but I still have manners and don't just engage towards anyone there ...... I kind of just go with the flow of things. But the best part I liked was when i went outside to get a fresh breath of air. Outside i felt more comfortable because this is where most of the other people were interacting in conversations with each other. So i got to interact with the others by joining in some of their conversations ....... and there are times that the conversations was so interacting that i almost forget that I am at a swinger's club. Once I've gotten to talk and get to know the other people at the club I felt way more comfortable going back inside and enjoying myself. I already wrote a blog about "Sunday School Girl" ...... she was one of my favorite encounters at Club Discretions. But most of the time I like just going to the swinger's club just to hang out ........ there will be times that i have no other plans that I just want to go to either club and just chill there. sure there will be a few times that i'll have an encounter with others, again i like to go with the flow of things. But one of the best things that i've done to break out of my shyness is getting on the dance floor ...... if it wasn't for a certain person at Discretions for her DJ assistants i would not have gotten the courage to get on the dance floor. If you're ever at Club Discretions and you see someone doing some form of dancing ...... that just might be me out there. I want to end by saying that I totally respect everyone's privacy and that I usually don't walk up to people and start engaging in conversation ....... when i'm at the club i usually engage in conversation outside. I guess there is a small bit of shyness in me that keeps me from walking up to a female or couple to start engaging in small talk, but all i know is the clubs have helped me get a glimpse of what the sexual swinging lifestyle is like, as well as not being so damn shy and nervous. Now i have enough confidence to sit back and watch people have sex or even go up to a female and complement them on their beauty. Gosh i sure hope this blog is not too crazy to ready or boring, but glad to have tell why i go to the swinger's club. Enough write ...... now i can go to bed 
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