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a girls curiosity
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a girls curiosity So, when a guy is become curious. What typically do men crave the most ? Do you have the urge for a guy to suck you or vice versa? Do you want the penetration? I just know the thought process I had with the first time I was with another girl. So was hoping to get some insight from the guys. I wish more men would be comfortable with the curiosity or being bisexual. This doesn't make them gay or love a women any less. Guys love the idea of two girls together. Why can't we love the idea of two guys? You can message me if you'd like, but I would also love to hear the first time stories too. |
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There is absolutely nothing attractive about any males doing other males. Using more than all the road!
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...always wonder when one posts a blog question, folks not interested or versed in the topic feel the need to answer their disinterest... specifically to the question, seems a vast majority of bi males seek the role reversal. This is why 'bottoms' out number 'tops' about 50:1 - but course we didnt count..its just rare...a little more common, but rare are 'versatile' . Seems a common fantasy, desire is to be the submissive, female - but not in any gender bending way - kinda difficult to describe...suffice to say to 'be taken' to 'submit' in the same way (stereo typically) as a woman, seems to be very common among bi males. Then there is the group whom fall into the same categories as above, but limit the male/male play...ie oral only, no kissing, no 'touchy-feely", basically no sensuality. Third - there is the blow and go crowd...again the categories are the same, but the goal is simple quick cum. Can be either anal, bj, hj, basically in, bust a nut, leave - some reciprocate, some dont want any reciprocation - only our perspective - those so inclined are less likely bi, just not likely to find a woman to meet you in a parking lot to suck your cock without $20 changing hands. Those males whom indulge in the submissive side, again our opinion only, are quite bi/gay - its again that there is such a willingness on the part of other males to participate to feed their base desires. There is the altruistic bi male. So extremely confident in his sexuality, that he is fully capable of being in both a sexual and emotional relationship with another man...or woman - rare, rare, rare....want to know how comfortable a man is with his bisexuality? ask him if he is equally comfortable 'making love' to a woman as he is with a man....that separates the boys from the errr...bi boys....an no we dont mean making love, like love - guys no full well if a woman says 'dont fuck me, make love to me' - we can do that...whether we are 'in love' with the woman or not. Lastly there is the denial/curious group - they will flitter around the edges, have several experiences, but really dont look at themselves as being a 'solid' bi. Sometimes those include closeted gay men, as well as older males whom no longer have access to a wide array of women - this is why there are many more older bi males than younger - the younger guys have a larger group of young, single women....it does get much deeper than that. Bisexuality among women enjoys way more social support than males. It's likely that the thought process you went through with your first time with a girl, was not weighed down heavily with thoughts of 'am I gay'. But for a guy...pretty much..the thoughts are 'am I gay', 'did I just get aids', 'am I still masculine' 'we kissed, am I gay', 'can I still throw a football', 'was he gay, am I gay, no he was more gay', 'can i still get it up with women', 'if I have a son, will be be full gay'....glibness aside, the problem with bi men, bi sexuality - is the 'gay' component. So the above, though some parts are very generalized, is the perspective based on a lifetime of being bisexual, his own experiences, and our shared experiences with others, reading various sources, other research and this and other sites. His experiences, when young way more interested in women. Had an older adult male hit on him, but too shy to act on it. First experience was in his 30s...took a lot of working up to do, but it was pretty sensual...but akin to riding a motorcycle...scene it done, but not sure how to do it...as this was during a previous relationship without permission, lots of guilt...experiences as a couple, pretty darn good - for us as a couple - as a now confident bi male with spouse support and participation - we have to contend with all of the above - have not yet met that sensual bi male - but did meet with a gay male - pretty awesome, except not so much for her...the male on this end defines himself as altruistic vers.
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