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What do woman want ?  

YungNBlessed1 32M
3 posts
2/2/2015 9:11 pm
What do woman want ?

For us new members that dive head first into something that we know nothing about, what do I need to do to make sure that I'm utilizing all the features to my advantage? How do I make my profile look as inviting as possible and not give off the "catfish" impression? What do woman want to see.. a man fully dressed in his main picture.. or a naked body showing off how<b> endowed </font></b>i am? H E L P !
i need answers ladies! lol

rm_debluvz2fck 55F
535 posts
2/2/2015 9:25 pm

 I looked at your profile and your pictures before providing my suggestions. If you dismiss them, I won't be offended.

The pic you chose as your profile pic is a good one. Your profile, while not very detailed, does allow a glimpse at your personality and not the barest of one liners that many men here are guilty of.

The suggestions.

You are athletic, not average, by Local Adult Companion status. This was obvious in some of the pictures, though baggy clothing will hide the truth here. Most men consider themselves to be average well into the medical category of obese. And women sometimes overlook men who declare that they are average as a result.

The other suggestions I would make are regarding your profile and your attempts to engage women in conversation.

Your profile will garner more interest if you provide more detail about yourself and what you're looking for. A freak in the sheets, which you mentioned, could be anyone from a woman who enjoys sex frequently to one who wants to tie you up and whip you until emergency services are required. Being specific also lets a woman who might otherwise think that she doesn't qualify on your terms know she does and avoid the ER where it doesn't interest you (unless, of course, it does).

Regarding initiating contact, read a woman's profile and be prepared to explain why she should respond to your email. Talk about what you find to be common ground from her email. It will set you apart from the many men who simply request sex without monetary compensation. Not surprisingly, those men don't tend to get positive responses.

Good luck.


coptrainer56 74M
1880 posts
2/2/2015 11:23 pm

 they want to be treated with respect and dignity, not as a cum recepticle. They want to be pleased as well as please. Nt much complicated there.
Be safe, relax and just have fun!


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