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Girls Blog so Men might read Ok so tell me this. Why is it that 95% of men on this site bring up meeting or phoning in the first 5 min. of a first chat? Do they not see how girls see them as very needy and insecure about themselves? Also, as long as im griping lol, They must also realilze that to at least me and im sure other girls that they are only thinking of one thing. Themselves. Yes im sure you might email me and tell me its because most men on here arent all that sharp or smart but hey they are men and I like men. Final gripe of the day: is it just me or do most men chat or email in the first person, always taking about or referring to themselves. What is that? Lack of confidence? Help! lol |
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Dearest I Like Older Men, I Have Always In My Letters Before E-Mail, And Now In My E-Mails, Speak Most All How So Beautiful And SEXY The Woman Is, And How Such A So Gorgeous Beauty She Is To Me !!!!...The Middle Of My Message, I Will Always Tell Her What City I Live ( Washington DC ), And Where I Live At, But That Is All, The Rest I Tell Her When She Answers Me, We Can Exchange Our Photos With Each Other, And I Will Love Flood Her With Love Flirt Messages Of Her So Great Beautiful SEXY Loveliness !!!! Your So Loving New Friend GEORGE
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Probably because 95% of women don't have the confidence to show their faces.It is after all,the main reason someone will deny or accept you.Needy and insecure are some pretty heavy assumptions to level towards people you've never met.It isn't themselves that they are thinking about if they're on a site like this.Not being smart or sharp is not gender specific.They do lack something more important. Respect! Women write blogs like these because they're pissed that they've either been shown no respect or that the perfect man hasn't been showing them any attention. At only 21 years old and with no real life experience and already bashing the male gender?Try a positive approach and treat people as if they were yourself.It will drastically reduce the amount of B S you'll encounter with a negative approach! Using more than all the road!
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I would be willing to bet that the men you refer to are thinking with their "little" head and you probably know what that wants! I would probably be correct in assuming most of them are standard members that don't have access to profiles and have bought into the advertising hype "join now, hookup tonight! "  Good luck in your search, I hope you find your Prince Charming. 
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7/23/2015 4:39 pm |
I can tell you're the type of chick who's cute when she's mad.
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Great title but the content falls off topic. That said, this is your first clue to identifying a man you might want to continue talking to - at least for a little while. If he who approaches you has not taken the time and effort to get to now a little about you, he not worth your time. But make sure your blogs are well written (proof read) and present content that describes the real you - hopefully in a good light. So, no ranting and reactionary entries. Since this too will attract the riff-raff as much as a man of education and class. 
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Are these men your talking about really being total jerks. Not really. The point of being on the site is ultimately to meet you. To top it off you are cute. Only then does he have a chance to get into your panties. He may decide he doesn't want to. You can have one or two or a dozen boyfriends if you chose. If you aren't getting some the problem is with you not these alleged jerk men. The wife of a certain Roman Emperor would have loved this site. She took on the chief priestess of a certain temple. This Priestess was the top whore of Rome. The wife took on the Priestess and she bested the Priestess. Perhaps it's a bit of a fish story, but supposedly she had a 100 men that night. So unlike you she would definitely be telling some of those guys get your ass over here now and show me what you got. If you want a serious relationship you can't escape the fact you are going to kiss more than a few toads, so have some fun kissing the toads. As a military veteran the other reason men do what they are doing is they don't you to waste their time. If you are close to them you either meet them for coffee or your not. So just like your at a club or a bar the object is to get your number and or a date. Or you engage in a conversation and you gotta tell hey cool your jets, your going to have to talk to me and vice versa.
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It's a Y chromosome thing.
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Hello, I hope... umm... he hopes... no, uhh... IT IS HOPED that by "first person" you actually had intended to indicate third person, or possibly second person because, admittedly... ...I... tend to communicate in the first person! 
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1 post 9/16/2015 5:49 am |
Yes... hear what you are saying... I Cant speak for other men, but my time on here is limited and im just trying to figure out< first if anyone is actually real. Most girls/women it seems are not really interested in meeting. This is just being used as a forum for voyeurism. i do like to chat and get to know someone and ask questions to learn more about that person. You did shoot me down on that in our emails and then i havent heard from you again? Thats what happens on here and guys tend to try to find out if someone is actually here to meet someone or not. I guess i dont like to waste what time i have on here and would like to get to know someone a bit first. But i do see your point that men can come across as needy and not so well adjusted.
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1 post 10/27/2015 12:28 pm |
Having gripes are fine and a part of life. The important thing is... even though you've run into a few of the less scrupulous characters that tend to troll the internet highway you've managed to hold onto your inner belief, and continue to like and desire men. That fact puts a smile on my face.
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1 post 12/11/2015 6:36 pm |
I must confess that I do, in part, agree with you, but for this reson, dudes under, hell, 35, are still toddlers (mentally) or they have not learned the golden rule to reltionships and YES, sexual encounters! Communication, with all 6 senses (wht is the sixth, you ask??) paves the way for intimacy, of all kinds. Follow with honesty (but NOT truth, it is subjective) sensual abandon and well developed awareness (re: 6 senses) and you "prime the pump", then just settle in and enjoy the ride, Hey, It'll be good for both! I say, kill'em with kindness, multi-O's and a surprise alternate activity (something YOU would never do, but she loves) semi-occassionlly, then mke she she feels and KNOWS deep down in her pleasure centers (she has 7) that she is the ONLY woman you hve time to worship, in all ways. Trust me, it is fool proof, just not boy proof!!! LOL Email me for a casual chat sumtime, bbygirl
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12/13/2015 2:54 pm |
Many men here believe that there is no need to get to know a lady because obviously she is here for the same thing. They don't realize that in order to make that all important connection requires time and a bit of work. Never have preconceived expectations.
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12/29/2015 1:39 am |
Lust4life hit it out of the park..... short and simple.... We are just trying to introduce ourselves.... and the Y factor kicks in.
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I, like most men probably believe that this being a sex oriented website, that what most women on here are looking for is sex. If we chat and try to get to know you better, you find us boring or needy. I would love to find someone for more than just a sexual encounter or playmate. A women who is looking for at least something ongoing or an FWB. I would really love to find a woman into a polyamorous long term relationship. You probably will never find what you are looking for. If you do respond back I am sure you will refer to your self as "I". That probably means that you are only thinking about yourself right? Or do you see you 'double standards'. Best wishes, but you don't sound like the type of woman to interest me. Yes you do look good, but looks are not everything. My brains are in the head on my shoulders.
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1 post 9/8/2016 8:12 am |
Not enough time if there is no interest in meeting on neutral ground.
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1 post 10/21/2017 12:14 pm |
Interesting collection of comments. You prefer older why, in your youth obsessed culture? Older people are more experienced or have a perspective. I guess what people really want from Local Adult Companion is variable. As a divorced guy, I think I want someone interesting and attractive to go out with.
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Did you ever feel like you got an answer that made sense to you? Just curious. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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4/3/2020 7:52 am |
Men are stupid where women are concerned. Period
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i started reading but within 5 min i got the urge to just call or meet you in person
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1 post 9/20/2020 10:10 am |
Yes i am one of those older men who just wants to meet or talk by telephone rather than chat on herei also am the first one to discuss or expose myself . My reasons are from past experiences ;women are hesitant to talk about themselves their stated reason is that we cant trust anyone and we need to be careful so by talking about myself i hope to give them some knowledge about me , but also someone one needs to expose themselves first otherwise there is no learning about each other. There are soo many robot profiles on the sites that it just becomes all about money and computer sex, it is my way to try and weed out the scammers. Hope that answers your concerns from my perspective only
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10/27/2020 8:23 am |
Lots of super good advice for me thanks. Most men then seem to agree that getting to know online first is important. Is for most girls to.
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I know exactly how you feel I think? I've heard the same thing said from females I have met and know on here!
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You raise some good points in your post. I figure the ratio of men to women here is 15-20 to one and the men tend to have a "send a little note to everyone" attitude so you get a lot of short messages, few replies and when someone does finally talk, over eage to set up a meeting when they should figure out if there is chemistry to meet at all. Hey, it's a sex site, we all are a bit thirsty here but think any person with actual experience knows it takes some time to get to know someone before meeting. A little patience and having a conversation first takes time, some guys don't want to invest it. They also don't want to invest because we end up dealing with a lot of fakes, scammers or sex workers. Have had some good conversations with somewomen and more so couples, seems less fake couples, and if we hit it off in chat can potentially meet. Hope your having some good chats, maybe we will have one some day... Currently enjoying outdoor festivals in Chicago, missed the live music, just good to be out and about among people considering the past Covid year. Hope your summer's going well too.
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