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Let me Ask you, What is your PHOBIA???  

nicelipss66 48F
51442 posts
5/21/2016 3:19 pm
Let me Ask you, What is your PHOBIA???


What is your biggest fear or Phobia?

I have a Phobia to 3 things.

1st. Heights. I just can't with that. makes me sick. my body shots down. Ironically. I was never afraid of heights when I was a . not sure what happen or when I pick that up.

2nd. Deep water. not sure why I am afraid of that now days, cause when I was a . I was a great swimmer and used to be on deep water all the time. now the idea of finding myself on deep water makes me panic. I don't even like to watch movies about deep water, I feel like something is going to come up and grabbed me.

3. Snakes. Oh God, I don't like them, I can't even watch snakes on TV or movies, I refuse to watch them. that is how bad it is for me, all my life. One time, I found a little snake that had gotten in to our house. by the basement door. my was there watching her and barking at it. I had no idea. he had her corner to a closet that was by the entrance door. Thanks God he saw her and stop her there. When I went to check what was he looking at and barking at inside the house. I ran out of my house almost naked, just had shorts and a bra on. run to the guy that used to live across the street from us. there I was at his door with just a bra on it. almost crying LOL. At first he didn't know what was going on. cause I kept saying, Jake, go get my and get her out, All hysterical semi nude on his door, ironically, he was a Cop Haha. he came over, grab her with something and took her outside, he said, I gonna take her and drop her off far in the woods. I said, no, kill her, what if she comes back here, I know, that was mean but it was my nerves talking. of course, he didn't kill her. He never lets me forget that time

Now. your turn. What is your fear, your biggest Phobia?

Please join the conversation!!!


Raven9376 47M
476 posts
5/21/2016 3:36 pm

The one Phobia I had for the longest time was spiders when I was a kid, but not now. I don't know if I have any phobia now


bull_in_florida 65M
966 posts
5/21/2016 3:40 pm

I can get startled when something unexpected happens, but, never have really had any fears or phobias. Military; cop; EMT and volunteer fireman; have raced just about anything on pavement, dirt, and water; even made extra money in high school replacing the warning lights on local radio station towers. But, had a stroke last year and for about 12 hours couldn't talk, could barely move any muscles, and had a very hard time breathing/swallowing. Don't even know if it's a classified fear or phobia - but my brain was fully functioning and I knew everything going on around me, but, could not communicate with the doc's or nurses. Guess, that scared me shitless to be conscious that way, but, to not be able to communicate, sorta trapped in my own body and brain.


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
5/21/2016 3:55 pm

fire is a huge fear for me.... and I'm not a fan of snakes


sika41 62M
643 posts
5/21/2016 4:28 pm

RATS !

Also slightly claustrophobic !


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
5/21/2016 4:30 pm

I have to say Airplanes, I will never fly on one!!!

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Guyfrom98388 64M
441 posts
5/21/2016 4:37 pm

Sorry that you have them at all, having a fear of the unknown in normal but having an irrational fear if thing one can control is debilitating. I’m sure you have heard it all, it all in your head, face your fear to concur it. All these thing a nice if it was that simple. It only simple for those who do not have your fears. Those of us who do not have then do not seem to understand why you do. Well here is my story several years back when I was in the fire service keep this in mind firefighters are the biggest pack of joker you will ever meet and the only thing off limits in a station is PPE. Anyway we had this female firefighter who like the rest of us was a joker. That ended one day with one in the hospital and fifteen of us under investigation. Because we did not know she was an Arachnophobia and someone had clued a plastic to the bottom of her coffee cup. She had a medical emergency do to her fear and we had on at the station because of that. Thing went downhill from there she never did come back to that station and several of my fellow firefighters were move and reprimanded and a few demotion as well. It is sad that it took that to make us all understand the fear that a phobia generate in the person with the phobia. I hope your phobia never generate that much fear in you.


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
5/21/2016 4:40 pm

Planes, trains and automobiles


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
5/21/2016 4:51 pm

Your first two hit home.First time I ever went water skiing I was really good
and thought I could really enjoy it.Then I had to wait for the boat to come back to the middle of the lake to get me.It was the first and last time.
There is something eerie about floating in 200 plus foot deep water!

Using more than all the road!


rm_gIllicit 67M
503 posts
5/21/2016 10:01 pm

Well so long as your Phobia about snakes does not include Trouser snakes you should be OK !!! And seeing your BJ pictures you seem to be OK with that one at this stage !!!!


GoldenKinght14 32M
91 posts
5/22/2016 12:39 am

Not afraid of heights but uncomfortable with heights and I think my phobia is the dead.


AlvinBooth 70M
5468 posts
5/22/2016 7:40 am

It used to be dying alone was number one but then I realized that we all die alone so that went away.

That as I get older and health fails that I will become more dependent on other people and less upon myself. Then ... I am at their mercy.

That I won't be able to retire in a few years because others depend on me for financial support. Could be hard to do both on a fixed income.

Compared to those ... spiders ... snakes ... heights ... etc ... aren't even on the radar.

AB


No Bozos


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
5/22/2016 11:33 am

BUGS anything that can crawl to me or on me!!!
Swimming - as a little girl I was pushed into the deep end of a public pool and could not swim- even today I am a poor swimmer
Being very ill again- very rough road

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Fatgirl1976 48F
3601 posts
5/22/2016 6:16 pm

spiders!!!

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sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
5/23/2016 4:01 am

I'm not great with rats, mice or heights but my worst fear is that one of my children or grandchildren will die before me. I buried my first son as a baby and never want to do it again.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

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funluvin4you 57M  
96 posts
5/23/2016 1:48 pm

Not a bid fan of snakes either, heights can be a little intimidating depends on where & what i am up...Really rough water in a small boat can be scary so not a big fan of real strong winds..


sjokolade2 59M
40 posts
5/23/2016 5:08 pm

Gotta say snakes!


Dark_Star1972 51M
743 posts
5/24/2016 12:08 am

I've always had an issue with heights. On a family trip when I was a kid, I freaked out on a mountain gondola ride to see some ice fields. It scared the hell out of me. There is a high bridge here in Edmonton, and I try very hard not walk it.

More recently, I've developed a severe phobia of traveling in a car on a highway. I'm usually okay within the city, but once I get out onto a major, fast, multilane highway, I start to freak. (It has to do with past traumas [i.e. car accidents]) As a result, I haven't traveled outside the city in a while. It's a real problem that I'm just starting to get help with.

I'm not freaked out too much by spiders or snakes. More often, I find them intriguing. Of course, if I came face to fang with a poisonous spider/snake, I'd likely retreat, quickly!

Does social anxiety due to shyness count as a phobia?

The Darkstar

The Bearded One: Dark_Star1972
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luvexotic 62M

5/24/2016 4:53 pm

Spiders - can't stand the those furry eight legged freaks


mrbadwxample 65M
115 posts
5/26/2016 11:54 am

My three worst fears...
1. Spiders...I was bitten a little over 2 years ago by a brown recluse spider and still haven't fully recovered.
2. Heights if what's under me isn't solid...I'm fine on top of a building or on a mountainside, but if I step out onto an exposed grating more than 10 feet off the ground I have to fight panic mode.
3. Mushroom clouds...I grew up in the duck and cover days, when they taught you in kindergarten to hide under your desk and kiss your ass goodbye if the warning sirens ever went off.

Sometimes you just have to say fuck it, drop everything, and go to Vegas.


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