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Reading the Profile  

rm_CanWeBeThree 69M/67F
2 posts
7/31/2015 8:48 am
Reading the Profile
About a week after joining, I find that there are several things that set Local Adult Companion apart from other "dating" sites. Some are obvious - the sexual content and pictures, of course - while some are not as apparent. How much of a person's profile do you really read? Do you look for someone who seems to want the same things you do? Are they here only for sex or do they want something more?

I question why my husband and I receive pictures of a cock from a man -- gay or straight -- when it plainly states in our profile that we are looking for a long-term bi/lesbian lover to add to our marriage. Sure, we want to play some in the meantime, but when part of the couple has an "opposite ends rule" about other men being in the session, he will not be happy to receive mail from other men. He wants a woman who will interact sexually with me while he watches, then also will interact with him - all three together - in bed and out.

The responses to the many messages I have sent out are similar to other websites - most of those who respond have nothing to do with the criteria set in the profile. We have a friend who is a couple in Spain - so I can't read anything they write - and a man's dick - which is not what we are looking for. This is very much like other dating websites in that respect. On another site, if I show pictures of myself, saying I am very feminine and looking for someone similar to myself, why do at least 50% of the people who message me look more like my husband than me?

I understand that they are looking at a picture and only worried about what they want. If that is the case, how good a lover do you suppose they will be?
tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
7/31/2015 12:10 pm

 As a veteran of this site, my advice is that if you want to actually meet people, I suggest checking out local groups or chatrooms. Even there you will find standard members who can't do more than read the first couple lines of your profile and will try to convince you that you want what you don't, but there are often meet and greets or conversations online that give you the opporuntity to know people better.
Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


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