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Round 2!
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Round 2! Well, it's been a while since I posted my first rant and not much has changed here. My biggest problem has been with people (mostly single guys, of course!) who totally disregard my notice on my profile that I limit myself to meeting only with those who live in the greater Miami area (no more than 50 miles or so ) unless there are unusual circumstances. There are so many hot people to meet right here in this part of FL that going through the trouble of meeting someone who's just in town on vacation or business doesn't make sense. Especially, those who want to drive a long distance to meet me - I had a guy drive down here last year from Orlando (about 240 miles) who I thought was really hot and,, he was. We had spent quite a bit of time on the phone and he was not only handsome but very well hung. But after we met and chatted over drinks for a while I found I wasn't attracted to him (his personality and mannerisms) and had to go through the embarrassment of sending him back home. He spent the better part of the day driving to Miami then back home empty handed (literally) and I won't take that chance again. I've had to explain this to so many guys that I have it prepared on a Word document so I can just copy and paste it to all those that need further clarification! I know, I don't really need to go through the trouble of responding to all the airheads but I just don't like ignoring anyone who's spent the time to message me. The only ones who get deleted without a response (and usually blocked) are those who send crude one liners. Then, there are all the dreaded " gray silhouettes" I mentioned in my first rant. I don't mind a guy who hasn't or won't put a pic on his profile send me a complimentary message. but I just have to laugh at the guys who rave about all my hot pics and expect me to be interested in them when I don't even know what they look like yet! Anyone with any sense at all knows that posting a naked or nearly naked pic of yourself from the neck down won't threaten your anonymity and it at least gives me a chance to see if I'm attracted to him physically to get the ball rolling. And, yes, there are plenty of men who are insulted that I won't consider meeting them even though I haven't seen a pic of them! I've become so fed up with gray silhouettes that I won't even accept friend requests from them so they can't see all the other videos on my profile. Is that mean of me? TTYL! |
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No. I don't friend any gray silhouettes, and will remove gray silhouettes if they take their pics off their profile  Nice to know it isn't all just looks for you, that you are attracted to manners and personality too.  I'm the same way.Standards are people too.....kinda 
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well said
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I totally agree with you. My experience on Herr is fun I have talked to so many made plans to meet but oh something always comes up. Really ? . Many hot pics do not much the face u wonder if it's photo shop..Waste of my fuking time . Gal was about time someone said something.
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Well spoken.....just wish I was within 50 miles of Miami!! Enjoy your weekend
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Have to agree with ya,it's not shallow to expect at least a body shot to even get things rolling like you said.Another good point is entertaining folks hundreds of miles away,is there really a point.
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My response is a bit late, but I thought I'd share how we go about meeting new people. Sue and I have shared a FWB type relationship for almost 30 years. We never rush into anything, and out policy is to get to know others via messages, chat then phone conversations. We make it very clear that nothing sexual will take place on the first meeting, so no one has expectations of sharing sexual fun on the first meeting. If and when we do meet in person, it's a social meeting with nothing sexual planned. We'll enjoy dinner and a few drinks, or visit some type of social event where we can talk. If we feel as if they're the type of man, woman or couple we'd enjoy sharing a sexual relationship with, maybe we'll take a walk along a certain public trail to discuss things in more detail without others hearing our conversation. Most of the time, nothing sexual takes place on that first meeting. It has happened, but it's rare. I do the same thing when I'm meeting a woman or a couple without Sue. It's a great way to see just who those other people are, and to weed out those who we'd rather not do anything with. It's worked great for us so far.
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