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hubby came out to me that hes Bi  

cinamon6915 55F
14 posts
5/18/2017 1:41 am
hubby came out to me that hes Bi

im not sure where this leaves me anymore. he says he loves me and that he would never hurt me but im hurt by the betrayal im hurt by the lies i dont know how i am supposed to feel. i wonder now if im no just the bait for him to get near to guys and im just a glorified cum conveyor. he instigated us participating in threesomes with other guys ages ago just as a dare he said but since then it has become almost an adiction for him going on line looking for big cocks to come and play with us....im left feeling bewildered as to what is really going on. does anyone have any insight they could help me with. please

lilbigman8833 57M
257 posts
5/18/2017 1:49 am

 eh be happy least hes honest enjoy it you both can hava wonderful time with all the cocks you want now hehe


Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
5/18/2017 2:49 am

 I think you will have to tell him your concerns. It does sound a bit like you don't enjoy being with other men but do it for him.

Also ask him how he would feel if you said you wanted to go without him.
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seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
5/18/2017 5:58 am

 My first thought would be your sexual health. If he has played with men before or during your marriage then you probably should go for a check up, and him too.
I personally would feel used, as you said,maybe a means to an end?, does he participate with the men? are they bi too?
And what is the next step, do you think he will leave you so he can fulfill his fantasies, would you leave him because of the betrayal?
You could stay together, and allow him "free time" to do his own thing, or you could continue participating in 3 somes. (did you enjoy them?)
I guess it depends how you feel, firstly he has been dishonest, is that the worst thing, or that he is bi?
Sorry 101 questions, but just my thoughts, and how i would feel x


lyavu 50F
1538 posts
5/20/2017 7:19 pm

 Communication is the key to any relationship. Tell him how you feel. Sad this is happening but our world has changed some pple like the same sex more like never before .


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