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The Fine Art Of Kissing
The Fine Art Of Kissing I LOVE to kiss and I’ve been told that I’m good at it…..(I choose to believe them)....lol To me….kissing is only the beginning of foreplay, and a pleasant one at that. But it most certainly needs to be with someone (for me at least) that: A. I am interested in, and have some feelings for, and B. With someone that knows how to do it properly. I do not like to feel like I’ve been slobbered all over,or gagged by an overzealous tongue. For me...nips and nibbles are okay, as long as they are gentle and don’t draw blood. So below are a few “suggestions” to perhaps help make the experience more pleasant..... At our ages….most of us probably have a pretty good idea about the how to’s - but maybe some of the younguns (or just those less experienced) could use some pointers…..lol Kissing is one of life’s greatest pleasures that can be shared by two. But not everyone is a perfect kissing match, and certainly not all kissers are created equal. Sadly, we encounter over a lifetime of kissing quite a few kissers who make elementary—or truly awful—kissing faux pas, and it makes us wish that everyone with a pair of lips got their own user’s manual. Wouldn’t it be great if there was a mandatory kissing politeness class in every high school? Here students would learn that kissing isn’t a face-chewing contest. You do not get points for trying to box the tonsils with your tongue. Licking your lips too suggestively before a kiss looks really scary and gross. And above all, kissing is something you do together, rather than to or at another person. It might be a very long time until kissing etiquette becomes required for graduation into the real world. Until then, there are a few things to know that will keep you and those you kiss happy to be smooched. Show the following list to anyone you know who might benefit from the advice it offers. Even a friend who’s dating someone they just discovered is a bad kisser—it might give them some ideas. KISSING DO's and DONT'S * Beautiful, brushed teeth, fresh breath, and supple, moisturized lips make you a delight to kiss. Anything less is a drag. * It’s okay to pull away and take a break from kissing without saying anything. It’s okay for someone to want to stop completely and offer no explanation. You can talk about it later. * It’s not okay to expect a kiss in return for anything. Kisses are gifts, not currency. * Cradling your partner’s head and face feels wonderful. As long as you’re not trying to prevent escape or contributing to claustrophobia. * Kissing isn’t the checkered flag and starter gun to feel up your date. Lip contact is not an invitation to ass grabbing or unhooking a bra. The good bits aren’t going anywhere, and it is in your best interest to take your time. * A kiss does not signify a willingness to have sex, ever—no matter what kind of kiss. * Never approach a kiss with an open mouth, or with an extended tongue. * Never open your mouth wider than your kissing partner’s lips. * Poking with your tongue is annoying. You are not trying to make a phone call. The mingling of a willing tongue is okay, if your kissing partner is willing. Not everyone will like the things you like, and that’s okay. You may love to have your sensitive ears licked and breathed on, but he might hate it with a passion. Be open to all kissing styles. Whenever you’re in doubt about how things feel for your kissing partner, or even if it’s the right time to kiss, ask. Your partner will be happy you care enough to ask. If anyone has any other suggestions or words of advice other than those listed...Or if you disagree with any of the advice....feel free to share! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL |
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Mmmmmmm......I LOVE to kiss AND smile. [image] Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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*sigh sometimes I'd like a kissing date... just kissing. I don't think I could ever get enough! Love your comment meme!
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8/10/2018 9:06 pm |
Yes, it’s always better to kiss someone with nice fresh breath as opposed to someone who’s finished her fifth pack of cigarettes that day. Interestingly, some are so detached from sex nowadays that kissing can be more intimate than intercourse.
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8/10/2018 9:45 pm |
Interesting read, kissing is way too important to be ignored!!
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8/10/2018 10:06 pm |
very good post...
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O, so on this topic, how do nyou gals feel about kissing a man with no teeth?
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My last kisser was a bit slobbery... I HATE that with a passion,.. so I told him, I prefer soft gentle kissing,,, he took the hint and now does as he's told " Cradling your partner’s head and face feels wonderful. As long as you’re not trying to prevent escape or contributing to claustrophobia"
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This is worthy of a full blown poster in color. I, too, have been told I am the best kisser they ever met ( and like you I chose to believe it). The worst thing is a smoker followed by a tongue poker/jabber/thruster who wants to find out just how tight your gag reflex is. And kissing is an huge turn on and can last for hours when done right with feeling (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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I love kissing and it can be very nice. I always wait for the other person to show what she want in a kiss and go from there. My gf and I really get into kissing damn she is good! Butch
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*sigh sometimes I'd like a kissing date... just kissing. I don't think I could ever get enough! Love your comment meme! Thanks....I liked the meme, it's kinda sweet....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Yes, it’s always better to kiss someone with nice fresh breath as opposed to someone who’s finished her fifth pack of cigarettes that day. Interestingly, some are so detached from sex nowadays that kissing can be more intimate than intercourse. To me kissing is quite intimate....maybe not quite as intimate as sex, but a darn close second for sure. Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Interesting read, kissing is way too important to be ignored!! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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very good post... Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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O, so on this topic, how do nyou gals feel about kissing a man with no teeth? Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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8/12/2018 5:32 am |
Very good post on kissing. I feel even better now, because I agree with all the pointers that were outlined and I believe (and have been told) that I pretty much adhere to them. I love to kiss and to me the slower, the softer, the tenderer the meeting of lips is the best and most sensuous. And if you can't kiss correctly or are over zealous, then how good will anything else be with that partner. Great post and if you ever want to get together for some practice, I am here to help! LOL Cum follow my blog and feel free to leave a comment. It's what makes the chat interesting!
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This is worthy of a full blown poster in color. I, too, have been told I am the best kisser they ever met ( and like you I chose to believe it). The worst thing is a smoker followed by a tongue poker/jabber/thruster who wants to find out just how tight your gag reflex is. And kissing is an huge turn on and can last for hours when done right with feeling I agree that kissing a smoker is not pleasant. My ex was one, and after awhile I just didn't bother anymore. There were other reasons for that as well....but the ashtray breath played into it.... Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I love kissing and it can be very nice. I always wait for the other person to show what she want in a kiss and go from there. My gf and I really get into kissing damn she is good! Butch You get to see their "style" of kissing, and if there are some things you don't particularly like, you could maybe give a few gentle hints to improve the experience. Hopefully they are open to suggestions, if needed.....lol Glad to hear your gf is good at kissing....makes for much more fun! Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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LOL.....you know what they say - practice makes perfect....haha Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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I haven't honestly kissed a lot of different men, but I also have one in my past that was perhaps the ultimate kisser. Sadly I had some doubts that perhaps he was giving "lessons" to other women..... He actually used that particular skill to come up with his handle on some sites.....lol It is disappointing to meet a terrible kisser....especially if there are otherwise things you like about them. I'm not sure I would have the patience to be an instructor.....lol Actually thinking about this, there was also another guy in my past that was awesome.... I'm going back to our teen years....but he was excellent.....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Very good post on kissing. I feel even better now, because I agree with all the pointers that were outlined and I believe (and have been told) that I pretty much adhere to them. I love to kiss and to me the slower, the softer, the tenderer the meeting of lips is the best and most sensuous. And if you can't kiss correctly or are over zealous, then how good will anything else be with that partner. Great post and if you ever want to get together for some practice, I am here to help! LOL Gentle kisses are wonderful,enjoyable and senuous, but I think sometimes a more passionate meeting of the lips can be exciting.....as long as no one is getting injured.....lol Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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hmmm Very interesting. Seems like you've studied the subject quite thoroughly !!! Don't stop . . . I was just closing my eyes and starting to get hypnotized by your lips . . . . . ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Have you ever .... (very gently) .... had the breath taken from you as you were... 'inhaled'? Ummm. I'd have to show you... Never mind.... Oh these crazy guys! Lol what? ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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hmmm Very interesting. Seems like you've studied the subject quite thoroughly !!! Don't stop . . . I was just closing my eyes and starting to get hypnotized by your lips . . . . . Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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Have you ever .... (very gently) .... had the breath taken from you as you were... 'inhaled'? Ummm. I'd have to show you... Never mind.... Oh these crazy guys! Lol what? Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL
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