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Sex, Lies and Online Dating
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Sex, Lies and Online Dating We all know that love makes the world go around, right? But to what degree will we go to find love? In the 21st century the most common way to meet people is online but the problem there is this: people lie!!!!!! How can we trust anyone online? I was on another dating site a few years ago and after chatting for a while.... agreed to meet this "hard working professional man" who "owned his own home" and "loved to travel abroad".... Well.... he turned out to be a "Non-working unemployed bum" who "lived in his parent's basement" and the only traveling he did was "upstairs to ask his mom for cigarette money" ...... I don't have the answers for how you can trust someone. I could suggest hiring a private investigator or hooking them up to polygraph test... but who wants to go that far? Please have some comfort in knowing that there are still some good honest people who have good intentions. There comes a time when we have to trust our instincts and take chances. Just proceed with caution and keep your eyes open. Trust your gut feelings... YOU CAN DO THIS!!!! If you want to share any experiences you've had with online liars.. I'd love to read them... comment here... Wet Dreams and Hot Kisses Kitten THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG |
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People need to use more common sense when meeting up with others either online or offline. Communication is key, then meeting up - in a public place - to see how you feel about them, ie; does what they've told you in previous conversations add up now you've met them; are you having feelings that are telling you to run or do you feel safe with them; are they looking you in the eye while talking to you. So many things. But people are as likely to lie offline as online so it's pot luck.
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1 post 5/17/2016 11:36 am |
I have had many bad experiences especially with late night drunk calls. not the best when you are at a friend's home and they call late at night or their boyfriends call saying nasty stuff.
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5/18/2016 4:59 am |
I have known a few people who were liars, fortunately I seem to be able to spot them just because I am paying attention to what is said and done. I have found that if something does not seem right, just make a mental note and let them expose their deciet. The most painful example of this was a close family friend who lied about almost every aspect of his life, assuming I was taking it all as truth. I knew he was lying and would call him on it, but he defended his lies until the end. By that I mean, he died when simple honesty could have helped him. complex and sad story, but the lies caught up with him. Addiction of any kind, gambling, booze, drugs can shut off a person's humanity, and the lies are just part of their survival mode, feeding the addiction. Just pay attention, you can almost always spot a liar.
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5/18/2016 5:01 am |
deceit, sorry, it's late, spelling suffers.
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6/8/2016 4:57 am |
I could not agree more with your philosophy. Take people as they show themselves, believe in "cautious optimism" and take your time. Now, in approaching a lady on Local Adult Companion, NOTHING is more important that my two normal watchwords: Respect and honesty. Especially on Local Adult Companion, there are people that are rude or don't subscribe to the normal manners they should. If you show the lady on Local Adult Companion the respect she deserves, most often it is returned. Second, honesty. If you are honest and upfront, usually they return in kind. By no means do I suggest this as a "perfect" strategy to get a lady on Local Adult Companion. Far from it. But I DO think it is the best approach to take to at least introduce yourself and start a dialogue. I am so glad that a lady here (YOU Kitten) understands that "cautious optimism" idea too. Hugs
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Hi Kitten! That's a very good post and I know coming from you it's a glass-half-full perspective (optimistic). I totally agree with your experiences and enthusiasm for Local Adult Companion. There are definitely a lot of very cool people - if you can find them! While I agree with this optimism, I also feel that most people (particularly guys) are full of shit online. My best advice is to be VERY cautious and naturally pessimistic. I think Linked-In is an excellent reference for anyone that calls themselves "professionals". (well unless it's in Vegas). You can ask a few of their associates to vouch for them. If meeting someone, a coffee house is best. It's short and deliberately busy. It should set the tone for ability and interest to want to meet, follow-thru questions, and the occasional omfg-your-pic-is-20 yrs younger-50-pounds-less type of issue! [image]
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my first thing is when they say they have read your profile and feel like we connect, but they live 100's of miles away or a lot younger than what you stated in your profile, I get this on a lot I will be in your town this weekend let meet at my hotel room, if you have read my profile then you know that we don't connect, lolol, I guess because this is a sex site they seem to think you will fuck anyone who contact you,
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my first thing is when they say they have read your profile and feel like we connect, but they live 100's of miles away or a lot younger than what you stated in your profile, I get this on a lot I will be in your town this weekend let meet at my hotel room, if you have read my profile then you know that we don't connect, lolol, I guess because this is a sex site they seem to think you will fuck anyone who contact you, THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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Hi Kitten! That's a very good post and I know coming from you it's a glass-half-full perspective (optimistic). I totally agree with your experiences and enthusiasm for Local Adult Companion. There are definitely a lot of very cool people - if you can find them! While I agree with this optimism, I also feel that most people (particularly guys) are full of shit online. My best advice is to be VERY cautious and naturally pessimistic. I think Linked-In is an excellent reference for anyone that calls themselves "professionals". (well unless it's in Vegas). You can ask a few of their associates to vouch for them. If meeting someone, a coffee house is best. It's short and deliberately busy. It should set the tone for ability and interest to want to meet, follow-thru questions, and the occasional omfg-your-pic-is-20 yrs younger-50-pounds-less type of issue! [image] THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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I could not agree more with your philosophy. Take people as they show themselves, believe in "cautious optimism" and take your time. Now, in approaching a lady on Local Adult Companion, NOTHING is more important that my two normal watchwords: Respect and honesty. Especially on Local Adult Companion, there are people that are rude or don't subscribe to the normal manners they should. If you show the lady on Local Adult Companion the respect she deserves, most often it is returned. Second, honesty. If you are honest and upfront, usually they return in kind. By no means do I suggest this as a "perfect" strategy to get a lady on Local Adult Companion. Far from it. But I DO think it is the best approach to take to at least introduce yourself and start a dialogue. I am so glad that a lady here (YOU Kitten) understands that "cautious optimism" idea too. Hugs THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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Hi Pollen... where are you hiding??? I haven't seen you around THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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deceit, sorry, it's late, spelling suffers. THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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I have known a few people who were liars, fortunately I seem to be able to spot them just because I am paying attention to what is said and done. I have found that if something does not seem right, just make a mental note and let them expose their deciet. The most painful example of this was a close family friend who lied about almost every aspect of his life, assuming I was taking it all as truth. I knew he was lying and would call him on it, but he defended his lies until the end. By that I mean, he died when simple honesty could have helped him. complex and sad story, but the lies caught up with him. Addiction of any kind, gambling, booze, drugs can shut off a person's humanity, and the lies are just part of their survival mode, feeding the addiction. Just pay attention, you can almost always spot a liar. THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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I have had many bad experiences especially with late night drunk calls. not the best when you are at a friend's home and they call late at night or their boyfriends call saying nasty stuff. THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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Hi Boat girl... How areyou?????? THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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People need to use more common sense when meeting up with others either online or offline. Communication is key, then meeting up - in a public place - to see how you feel about them, ie; does what they've told you in previous conversations add up now you've met them; are you having feelings that are telling you to run or do you feel safe with them; are they looking you in the eye while talking to you. So many things. But people are as likely to lie offline as online so it's pot luck. THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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very good advice... very nice reply... THANK YOU GUYS FOR FOLLOWING MY BLOG
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