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Man or Beast!!  

sweetslut2013 52F
72 posts
11/29/2015 3:54 am
Man or Beast!!

Just wondering how others feel about being approached right up front with asking to suck cock or screw them??? I love every sexual activity there is but with my partner and that is a total turn off for me. Not only myself as a woman but friends that are men too have said that no they would rather be treated with a respectful conversation first. So please I'd love to hear how others feel about this and I'm sure many have a different opinion especially the ones with no class nor manners.
So is it rude and disrespectful?
Or is it just cutting to the chase and getting dowmn to business?


sexybunny743 49F  
16 posts
11/29/2015 4:19 am

I don't reply to those sort of messages, they get instantly deleted.
I get men with little to no info on their profiles and no pics messaging me asking to meet. No introduction or a hello first. Do they really think i will say yes and meet a complete stranger whose name i don't know and have no idea what they look like or if we have anything in common!!!! I really don't understand it tbh!!!!


eboneflame 56M
167 posts
11/29/2015 4:22 am

My thoughts are it depends on timing and place. In a bar, in the majority of public places and in certain social media sites, yes it is rude and disrespectful.

However, in certain open to the public but can be considered private places, it can be cutting to the chase. What makes this site such a minefield is that it is marketed as a "HOOKUP, Find SEX site." Most would say if you want romance, long term etc go find one of the dating sites. ( just a fact, not trying to argue for or against.)

Saying that, in some chat rooms, and on IM, 1st email, blogs and advice lines, it would be rude to say hey let's fuck etc.

But in some of the chat rooms, it may be okay to announce as you are entering, what you are wearing, what you are looking for, if you are masturbating on cam etc. i.e. cutting to the chase.


Acouplelookin4fu 63M/51F

11/29/2015 4:30 am

I think it's rude, but that's the best part about Local Adult Companion, you can just ignore, block, or tease and be rude back.


Hunter4Head 61M
6253 posts
11/29/2015 4:35 am

It's definitely very rude and disrespectful......that's certainly not MY way of trying to impress a woman in ANY way, shape, or form..... .

Be respectful, and show at least a "little" class.... .


Great_eight 58M
1561 posts
11/29/2015 4:38 am

I have found that when someone offers to suck me or screw me before we have met that it usually doesn't turn out.


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
11/29/2015 4:44 am

it seems like this site is full of rude people that have no manners, blogs highlight this over and over, everyone should treat others with respect, and treat them how they would like to be treated


powercaps716 67M  
83116 posts
11/29/2015 4:51 am

i find that to some they think it's okay to approach some one in that manner, for me not,respect me or nothing at all.


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
11/29/2015 6:39 am

It is incredibly rude, stupid and clueless. Am not sure it can be called disrespectful, at least from their end, as sex toys exist outside of the concept of respect, disrespect. They may not even be aware enough to realize what they are doing.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/29/2015 6:47 am

Well to tell you the truth
speaking that nonsense
is very uncouth!

Using more than all the road!


SomewhereNTX 62M
1624 posts
11/29/2015 8:22 am

Hi,

They should get a blowup doll since that's how they're treating women with behavior such as that.

Take care,
H


1ForeTex 70M
120 posts
11/29/2015 5:25 pm

I feel you treat people the way you want to be treated. You get what you ask for.


2BaTwistedLover 62M
87 posts
11/29/2015 6:28 pm

It's Rude ! ! ! But That's How This World Operates Now Days.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
11/29/2015 8:23 pm

I'm betting not to many get far with the first approach.


Pulsator552001 63M
132 posts
11/29/2015 8:32 pm

Generally speaking, I would say that it's rude, but there could be times when it's just right.


anjaan58 62M
1347 posts
11/29/2015 11:02 pm

It is rude and not done
For me sex without mental or emo connect is a no no
Takes zing out of pleasure


jackiebrow 36M
38 posts
11/29/2015 11:24 pm

come on let's cum with me bb!


psucker1951 72M
89 posts
11/29/2015 11:24 pm

Hey, we must take time and let it be a mutual desire to proceed and not
do it rudely.


TrucknLuvn 59M/41F  
1622 posts
11/30/2015 5:05 am

We get a lot of "wow, your wife is hot" or "I want to fuck your wife" comments. It gets old after a while. On IM, we also get a lot of guys that just assume she is the one that is at the keyboard, when that is not always the case.

Yes, this website is for ultimately hooking up and finding sexual partner(s), but let's try to show at least a tiny amount of respect during the process.

♡Jess: The Trucker Babe

♡♡♡

Want more? Be sure to check out my blog: TrucknLuvn!


asiaas 55M
747 posts
11/30/2015 8:30 am

Rude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
11/30/2015 10:31 am

in my opinion if u want 2 cut 2 the chase find a way 2 use a better choice of words


mrryan74 50M
45 posts
11/30/2015 12:07 pm

that is very very it is rude but depends what way you say


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
11/30/2015 2:29 pm

Sadly respect, manners seem to lack here at times. Doubt they would behave that way I public?


iraduu 43M
3598 posts
11/30/2015 2:35 pm

bem sintomatico


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
11/30/2015 2:37 pm

Bad rude !

~ ~


rm_Holdmyassplz 45F
44 posts
11/30/2015 3:53 pm

Just rude it doesn't matter if this is a sex site not every women wants to be talked to or approach like that...

Those are the one that I say need not to talk because they talk their way out of pussy lmao


SensualOne128 69M
5 posts
12/1/2015 8:07 am

We are animals, but we do have a brain, or some of us do.


firedup_19 62M
1684 posts
12/1/2015 12:53 pm

I agree with you completely, what's funny though is that a couple women have approached me in the same way...so I guess there are tactless people in both genders.


bamaman359 64M  
1624 posts
12/1/2015 1:29 pm

that's rude of him n u should have kick him in the balls


Bdysnatcher 61M
1021 posts
12/1/2015 2:17 pm

Were all here for the same reason but coming out and just saying it is not cool !!!


zinnia1968 55F

12/1/2015 5:51 pm

Shit at my age, if someone thinks im fuckable, ask away, you might get fucked!!!


bdadebora 63F
71 posts
12/2/2015 3:04 am

If a man APPROACHES me , and opens his mouth with , that kind of Disrespect , There the ones I love to make them feel as small as there penis , while there standing there in front of me , especially a perfect Stranger , this Is the biggest turn off


Wanton_man 53M  
38 posts
12/2/2015 7:44 am

In a very few scenarios it might be reasonable and could be very hot but in any other setting it is completely rude.


solowsolo 52M
34 posts
12/2/2015 9:29 am

I would never behave that way towards a lady or couple, but am ok if the tables are turned.


Coasterfan1969 55M  
115 posts
12/2/2015 10:49 am

This site is about hooking up, but, We as adults should give respect to others , how we would like to be treated, At least have some kind of genuine get to know a person first , conversation with the person before discussing, the fun of having SEX.


needfun4us41 49M/49F  

12/2/2015 10:57 am

Just plain rude and turn off.


ReginaAngelor 62F
4 posts
12/2/2015 1:15 pm

Being a woman, and getting those messages, I say that if you really want to make an impression, quit sticking your dick in someones face by your profile pic, and at least have some common courtesy to the person you are trying to hook up with. Being nasty most likely isn't going to get you want you want, however not being a bit forward with your conversation may not work either. Common courtesy and taking some time to get to know the person seems to be the way that works for me. I just keep in mind that I am not going to hook up with all of them, so its ok to be kinda picky and look for someone who could also be a friend..


iraduu 43M
3598 posts
12/3/2015 4:59 pm

nice


mikeylikesit3127 52M
2 posts
12/3/2015 9:25 pm

i like a beast of a man to fuck me


ChromeNation 40M

12/3/2015 10:48 pm

nope never done that.


balajee2002 58M
15 posts
12/4/2015 1:33 am

if a man really wants to get a gal for sex there is no point in being rude .. just seduce her slowly u get more from that than the straight cock suck etc hats my real opinion


wickedone4more 62M
8 posts
12/4/2015 2:02 am

It doesn't hurt to get to know the person some.


JustTravis907 48M

12/4/2015 9:38 pm

It's cutting to the chase and not beating around the bush. It's what most guys want and are coy about because they don't want to scare of women.


JPEORIA 54M
287 posts
12/4/2015 10:15 pm

Respect first and earn trust.


pocosin2 60M
15 posts
12/5/2015 7:18 am

I feel it is disrespectful. Even in rooms where things ar hot and heavy, everyone should be treated with respect. Probably the one thing this site lacks most, decency and respect for each other make things more enjoyable for everyone imho


trisha_ann_glynn 51T
1982 posts
12/5/2015 11:11 pm

Depends on the hour of the night and who is asking.


needyned2 49M
21 posts
12/6/2015 12:47 am

I find if very rude, however I did have one lady on here that I started chatting with and when i asked what she was looking for (i.e. type of guy etc) she got rude and just laid into me saying this is a fuck site not a chat site, we are all here for the same thing, needless to say I was turned off and she could use that attitude for birth control


snippedshooter 60M
470 posts
12/6/2015 2:23 am

Most times asking or stating up front is a good way to get slapped.
But, then there are memorial times
Sorry if a bit long.
This was when in my 20's
Went to this bar with friends after work..
It had two levels, but only one bar on the main. And very dark.
Going down the steps to go to the bar......two woman were coming up. It was very dark, but some how in our passing my pinky finger got stuck in one of the woman's beer bottle and then flipped and flew across the room smashing against the wall missing two big picture windows.
I and they were shocked.....I apologized and said will buy her another.
Her friend went up the stairs as we went down to the bar.
It was a long line up....with people moving around and music our bodies rubbed several times. With each touch could feel and smell the passion grow.
We must have stood in line for 15 minutes when her friend came down for another drink and we still never got ours yet.
I looked at her, our hands for some reason were joined together.
And stated or asked....I do not have a vehicle there so are you going to drive me to my place or yours.
Just as we got to the bar to order, she looks at me and says Fuck this I am driving you to my place
She told her girl friend she was on her own and we left
Was a very passionate night and weekend.


cumlately2016 73M
145 posts
12/6/2015 7:30 am

it just depends if she wants to fuck or talk.


looking12453 28M

12/24/2015 3:22 am

It's a "hookup" site so I understand it but people could go about it a different way


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