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No shows and flakes  

VegasVixen02 64F  
12 posts
5/3/2016 7:32 am
No shows and flakes

Why bother doing the "dance" going through the desire to meet, talk, chatting and then setting up the "date" and then either blowing me off or worse yet standing me up? Is it a game or what..? Not waste my time ( or the other women you've done it too)
I am not a puppet where you can pull the strings and I will come running HELL NO.
Make and keep the date, now I am not talking about somebody who has to work late or a real emergency comes up, that's is not your fault, but if you use that bullshit as an excuse that's a completely different situation

If a woman did it to you, I can guarantee, you wouldn't be to thrilled.
I promise you that..

Be kind and keep those plans

1ALLNYTR 59M
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248 posts
5/3/2016 7:45 am

 When it happens to me i just appreciate that they showed their true colors before it cost me more than a lil "time". Chock it up as experience and keep it moving.


BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
5/3/2016 8:04 am

 I adopted a protocol that pretty much ended that for me. There are several steps but a couple that help tremendously are:

I only meet at a place I would go to anyway (for me it'a Starbucks or other coffee shop).this way if the guy is a no show, I've not wasted my time.
I call the day before to confirm that we are still on. If I can't complete a first confirm no later than 12 hours before the meeting, I cancel.
When I first confirm, I tell him that he needs to confirm he's on his way 30 minutes before meeting and that if I don't hear from him, I'll assume he's not coming and I will not be there either.

Oh, and no second chances.

Here's the thing, if I agree to meet you, I'm committed to that and I need to know that he is as well. Better luck next time!


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