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The Downright Sad
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The Downright Sad Some people appear to be little bit clueless when it comes to adult dating….. Yes I’m on a sex dating site, but there’s a bit more to it than meeting every single moron who is looking for a shag. Despite it being a site for hook ups, I love the social aspect. I need to find the person attractive. I want to chat online and if we meet up have a few drinks first. See how we get along, before anything else happens. A small handful of people don’t quite get this. It really is a very small handful thankfully. Wouldn’t be on these sites if this was the norm. “Wanna fuck?” “Thanks for the offer, but will have to give it a miss” “Why not?” “You’re not my type and the wanna fuck opener doesn’t really do it for me” “Well that’s a bit rich coming from someone looking for a fuck on a fucking website” “You asked and I told you. Now go bug someone else” Needless to say, this was the first and last time I replied to the “wanna fuck” message. And yes, they do come in quite frequently. x  |
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No you seem to have a very high level of self respect, and responded to that guy with more respect than he deserved! Lol. I guess I worded my eariler post wrong. I meant that I wouldn't have any interest in a woman that would be OK with "wanna fuck" and would want to meet someone that messaged her like that' lol 
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Somehow, at least online, many seem to forget that there real people behind the profiles. These real people have real feelings. I agree, this is downright sad. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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If they catch me in the wrong mood with an opening line like that... I reply with "would you go up tp a woman in a bar and say that?" the usual repy is "no".. so I say, "so why do you think that will work on here" i generally get 2 different responses... "sorry" or "well it is a sex site!, hopefully, suitably chagrined 
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Lots of people out there, living under the illusion of anonymity - social dictations are tossed out the window On a funny note, what do you expect ? texting one handed there!  Cheers - P
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How very sad and such a poor reflection on men in general. It is nice to start with a little chit chat and to take it from there. Although very few women response to this approach or maybe they just consider me too old.
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I usually contact someone that I'm interested in with something like this. " Hi, I like your profile, I found what you wrote to be quite interesting. I like your pictures too, they are very sexy! I would love to chat with you sometime and get to know you. Hope to talk soon! Take care " I don't write a novel, but I try to show that I am interested, I find them attractive, and I would like to get to know them. I don't get many replies, and I don't send many messages. Just looking to meet a good match, and get to know them through interesting conversation. If there is a mutual interest and attraction then I start thinking about meeting them for coffee or a drink. I couldn't imagine using the "wanna fuck?" line I can't see any normal self respecting woman responding to that garbage! I wouldn't have anything to do with someone that would! Lol
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Just because we are all here to try to hook up does not mean that common manners be tossed out the window. Men, would you walk up to a woman on the street and open with "wanna fuck"? I doubt it, so why here? If you treat the women here with the same respect you SHOULD treat them anywhere, you will more than likely have more success. Personally, I want to talk and get to know the person. This is where I find out if we are compatible. Sure, appearance plays a factor, but personality also play a huge part in any relationship; physical or otherwise.
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