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Recreational Sex Recreational SEX The Who, What, When & Why By: Tabitha Beaumont According to the online dictionary, dictionary.com the common definition for the term “recreation” is as follows: noun 1. refreshment by means of some pastime, agreeable exercise, or the like. 2. a pastime, diversion, exercise, or other resource affording relaxation and enjoyment. As a society, particularly through all media be it social or commercial, we are pushed to have sex, be sexy, create sexual experience, enjoy sex ( but not too much if you are a girl) and in general be bombarded with with the fact that we are not having any where near enough sex. Conversely, if we are having all the sex we are supposed to have, then you are a slut, a player, not a good mate, etc. The concept is confusing at best and damaging at least. And although the concept of “recreational sex” is pushed upon us at every beer and bra commercial, it is certainly not supported openly in “real life.” However, there is a growing trend from some of us brave enough to understand our wants, needs and limitations to embrace the concept of “recreational sex” and all that it entails, both the good and no-so-good. As per the snarky comments often muttered to me about the dangers of STDs and the like, there is, of course, precautions to be taken, no athletic activity or hobby is taken lightly where risk is involved. People go sky diving every day, however, most do not go into it willy-nilly, they understand the inherent risks of their parachute not opening, they make every precaution that it does not happen and commence their adventure on the faith of their choices and skill. Recreational sex is no different. You would not begin a game of tackle football without protection, and you do the same for recreational sex. Is this a guarantee you will never encounter a problem or consequence, no, but the same goes for football, ice skating, BMX biking, driving a car, cooking.… But here it is 2016 and the concept of free love that was so much of the tag line of the late 60’s and 70’s has faded like old bell bottom jeans. We now have whole web sites devoted to finding partners for sex, yet everyone claims they are still looking for that “One”, why, because the concept of having sex because it is fun and feels good is still rolled up with social and family guilt. So how do we push on and develop a more healthy attitude toward recreational sex. For starters, you much understand that sex has a SHELF LIFE. Yep, there IS an expiration date, and it will sneak up on you like a Lion to a limping baby gazelle. Age, life illnesses and environmental factors have far reaching effects on our bodies and sex drive and ability is not immune, so have it now while you can!!! Secondly, brutal, open and terrifying honesty are a requirement, first with yourself, and secondly with any partner involved. You must be able to have a conversation with yourself about what you need, want, desire and fantasize about and if you can handle it in real life, and is it worth testing the fertile ground of your imagination…or is just masturbating to those thoughts enough? And are the risks worth the return? Lastly, you cannot be LAZY!!! Nope, your fantasy will NOT come to you. You have to go to it, and create it, and flesh it out, and explore it, push boundaries, tests the limits of your comfort zone, come to your emotional edge and guess what….it all takes WORK. Yep work. W. O. R. K. A term that our Sixty-second-solution-society is at war with. Ladies…telling your man you want to try a gang bang will not make it magically appear, and Gentleman, you need to get off your ass and make your fantasies come true. The thing is like most adventurous pass times, Recreational sex takes time, research, and a few try to find what works for you. My recreational sex takes place at Sex Clubs and private gang bang parties…Like finding the right place to take sky dive lessons…I asked people who did it, looked up the various clubs, takes to the owners, went to some 101 workshops and meet ups, had constant contact and communication with my primary partner, till we made our first Jump. It was worth it, but It may not have become such a fun, exciting and fulfilling adventure without the steps we took. Now we have become advocates for the new sexual revolution that is recreational sex… Is it all for everyone, nope.. But there are way more people I know who long to try and experience what I do than not…Get your sexy one, learn who you are sexually, take a chance and experience recreational sex the way it should be.. Long Live Sluttery |
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Sounds like an interesting concept 
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Long live Sluttery, Debauchery, Sexiness, Freakiness and all things slippery!
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