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Do people know how to read
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Do people know how to read I am sure most of us on profiles state what we are looking for some are very open some a little more covert. But we all have a location so why is it that people like to message you and try to make contact with you that are 100+ miles away? On that not I am a smoker why do people message me that state you have to be a nonsmoker? You know if you where all truthful with what you post you would have better luck. I have made friend on sites like this that I have fucked regularly. Now I am in a dry spell in a repressed state where people do not let there kink on. So I understand the need and want for the kink in a area where you will not be ostracized for things you like or do not like. I make it clear that with in 5 years and female I will date out side of that it will be a FWB or jest friends. if you come off creepy too me (and it is harder then you think) the most you will get is a friend. (biggest problem is men) I know I am kinda creepy at times (mostly do to not rubbing one out before talking to you) Another problem I have is for some fucked up reason people allways message people they have no chance of meeting. and for both men and women where is your fucking head shot!!!! and is it new (less then 1 year old) there are people on this site that I know there photo is over 10 years old) learn to fucking up date them too. The reason I am writing this post I got a message today from a person who I would like to meet (yes I think we would make good friends possibly with benefits) The message was simple and honest (I ended up giving a fucking blog post for a reply) this person had face pics no xxx ones but her profile was hot. (she is also almost 20 years older then me) My concern is she is a 45 minute drive but that is still with in reason for me she is a non smoker but dos not mind them if they cover up the smell (I will vape only after a shower before I go see her to try to cover up the smell of smoke and will not smoke when near her if it is not a all day thing) Part of me is concerned that I might have came off too perverted (I was watching webcams and did the dumb thing of replying with out going soft 1st) The point of this is we all get horny we all are human so quit playing the fucking games most of us do not have the time for it. and the game players would have better luck if they told the truth. if a women is looking for a NSA or jest a fuck buddy then say so. (most men do not mind a slut at least this one dos not (but I do not do one night stands that is a way to get bugs) (now I have a few things going on tonight but if I get a reply fast enough I might beadle to go out to her area and get a cup of coffee in a public place for her safty if she wants it that way. (1st time meeting should not be to get some tail. (not saying I would mind) but that is not the goal I would have. and most should not have that as a goal but then if it happens it was not what your target was so it is a extra. |
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I can say for a fact, the fakes and the scammers can't read !! There's a few less of them on the site right now too !!
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so true it is why I felt I should start blogging about it. Thanks for the comment on the blog though (Few people do that too)
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Usually, when you get mail from someone who clearly is not a match to you: 1) they didn't read your profile despite being gold or 2) they read your profile and don't care. They usually want just cyber sex, phone sex or, if they are in my area, they want a quick hook up. I have had to bold and underline these issues in my profile due to some 'miscommunication' with a few guys in the recent past but guys still get mad when I decline their sexy offers to meet...they live in California (or New York or Idaho, etc) and are going to be in my area next Thursday. Just not my thing. Like you said, no games. I am who I am and I respect everyone's different needs and wants. I decline their offers with a thank you but sometimes, they still get mad. Being honest is the best policy, for sure. You just have to realize being honest may get you less action, if you don't fit into the majority on this site. And that's ok with me. Good luck with your search. Take care. Read RESPECT WE all NEED to do Better and Re Petition to Stop Transsexuals from Using Female Profiles
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the other thing you need to consider is that if they dont have a membership there not able to read more than the 1st line of your profile.
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There are people who feel they can change your mind. You say that you only want to meet local....they say they don't mind driving. You say you are interested in someone close to your age...they say age is just a number.....etc. I generally chalk this up to the assumption that the person is just horny and doesn't really care if you'd be compatible. They are just hoping someone, anyone, will want to have sex with them. Of course, this type of behavior usually makes them less desirable, but if just one person at least replies to their emails (or IMs) they figure there might be a chance. Admittedly, there have been times I've succumbed to curiosity and chatted online or have actually met someone who did not meet my criteria (which I am pretty stringent about), especially if they threw in something amusing or witty...or I found physically attractive.
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