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What are you looking for?
What are you looking for? I am asked this question often in it's various forms and disguises.... The problem is, I don't really know what it is I AM looking anymore. I find, more often than not, that I have little or no interest in actually making a connection with any of the men on here and am drawn the blogs. I read the words that others have written and, in some small way, I get a little insight into their world. Just as they do with mine.... There is a part of me that still hopes to find that partner is crime. That person who wants to get out and see new sights, then spend the evening in just the two of us. My actual experiences on here have tarnished that notion, though. My version of a casual relationship is very different from the expectation that this site has instilled in the majority of it's male members. And, I'll leave it at that.... Suffice it to say, the women on here are not disposable, we are human beings. We have thoughts and feelings that go beyond making a man's dick hard. But for the right man, though, the partner in crime... We look forward to those evenings in, making your dick hard. To my reader who lives nearby.... I hope my ramblings were able to answer your question in some way. I hope you find what it is you are looking as well. |
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I have not met anyone on here in over 5 years! I have had offers, but no one I was interested in. I also am not sure what I want after 2 marriages.... not sure I want to put myself out there for disappointment. I would like to get laid of course, but not by just anyone. I am not considered attractive by most so that limits my options. For now I will ride my motorcycles & enjoy the company of my dogs.
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I have not met anyone on here in over 5 years! I have had offers, but no one I was interested in. I also am not sure what I want after 2 marriages.... not sure I want to put myself out there for disappointment. I would like to get laid of course, but not by just anyone. I am not considered attractive by most so that limits my options. For now I will ride my motorcycles & enjoy the company of my dogs.
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Hey now! You looking to start a harem or some such? Where have I heard that 10 years younger and 3,000 miles closer? 😆 Whaddaya mean 'looking to start' McFish?? I already have a harem, read point #5 here:- [post 4343329] Anyways, all you good uns are so much younger than me these days, and most of you are over there!!
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11/3/2020 5:52 am |
Very well put McLade...... I'll never understand the approach some of these guys take to finding a shag. I mean, even if it was just a shag I was after I'd find better ways of looking for it than 'wanna fuck', then abusing a girl when she knocks me back. It's a shame that your aim of finding your 'partner in crime' has hit the buffers and that you're a lot more cynical about it than you were when you started out........but hey, it's a common theme with the ladies here......sorry. 10 years younger, 3000 miles closer.......ooftah!!! Those local guys must be daft!!
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wanna meat for a quick fuck?!! does it not sound like a all you can eat buffet . . . . with no food I'll be in Gaylord today. That's it, no other information. Just that they'll be in my town today. Am I supposed to swoon? Drop my panties? Patiently await your arrival? Not....
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It seems your sentiments are shared by a lot of women on this site. The crude treatment is so bombastic at times it makes us mistrust others. Some people get their kicks out of striking back for any mis conceived perception. Sad commentary on how we treat strangers who have done nothing to us.
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I'm glad you enjoy reading my blog... I know the feeling of only being 'half hearted' in your search. There was a time in the past when men and women would communicate on here, chat back and forth, and get to know each other before actually meeting in person. That first meeting wasn't for anything other than to get a feel of the in person chemistry... And then you went from there. That piece is missing now... There is an expectation that, if you've sent more than a message or two, you're invested and you should be meeting up to fuck, then moving on to the next person.
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Perhaps if we were treating each other the way we want to be treated in return.... This could be a kinder, friendlier place. Just my thoughts...
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In order to find a partner in crime, one must know where to go looking. I have pretty high standards for that. But to each their own.
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Hi secret_lade that's eggzactly how I feel women on this site just want to have a one night stand with me they want to use me and abuse me they whisper or write sweet nothings in my ear or on my blog posts all to get my silhouette wet to suit their needs I don't wanna be another notch on their headboard I want to be listened to and pampered and taken seriously it's a dilema I have to deal with every day I hope that I am up to the challenge I still haven't found what I've been looking for and my profile is very specific I hope you do find what you are looking for hmm be safe Ella Vos - "Temporary" So I've lost my way looking for a sign I should slip away, mystery of time And now the quiet hours stay a little longer Till the darker days come and go again And they say I'll be fine again Please just tell me it's only temporary When I'm here feeling ordinary No, don't try and hold me If you're gonna hold me back Just tell me it's only temporary
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Hi secret_lade that's eggzactly how I feel women on this site just want to have a one night stand with me they want to use me and abuse me they whisper or write sweet nothings in my ear or on my blog posts all to get my silhouette wet to suit their needs I don't wanna be another notch on their headboard I want to be listened to and pampered and taken seriously it's a dilema I have to deal with every day I hope that I am up to the challenge I still haven't found what I've been looking for and my profile is very specific I hope you do find what you are looking for hmm be safe Ella Vos - "Temporary" So I've lost my way looking for a sign I should slip away, mystery of time And now the quiet hours stay a little longer Till the darker days come and go again And they say I'll be fine again Please just tell me it's only temporary When I'm here feeling ordinary No, don't try and hold me If you're gonna hold me back Just tell me it's only temporary To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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I am fascinated by other people's lives.... I like the blogs who belong to writers that share the details of their life. Sometimes I see similarities, and like them from the start. Sometimes I think, what a jackass, but I continue to read because I'm waiting to see what could possibly happen next. Lol
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It's a question we'll all ask at one point or another. Good luck finding an answer. Is there one? I guess you can chill here, till you find one.🤔🍷🍷❗😎
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The dreaded question.. I usually say I'm looking to date with a view to a relationship.. some men reply that they are only looking for sex,, which is absolutely fine (thanks for your honesty) but once the question is asked... you say,, "and you?" ,, and then they say, the same. or similar I immediately think are you? are you REALLY?! The trouble is after a while on here you doubt what anyone says anymore!
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I'm not really looking for sexual benefits. They would come naturally in time if the sparks are flying.
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I'm not really looking for sexual benefits. They would come naturally in time if the sparks are flying.
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The dreaded question.. I usually say I'm looking to date with a view to a relationship.. some men reply that they are only looking for sex,, which is absolutely fine (thanks for your honesty) but once the question is asked... you say,, "and you?" ,, and then they say, the same. or similar I immediately think are you? are you REALLY?! The trouble is after a while on here you doubt what anyone says anymore!
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Would we still be friends without the benefits? That is the way I approach it.
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It's a question we'll all ask at one point or another. Good luck finding an answer. Is there one? I guess you can chill here, till you find one.🤔🍷🍷❗😎 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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11/2/2020 6:34 am |
In order to find a partner in crime, one must know where to go looking. I have pretty high standards for that. But to each their own.
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11/2/2020 4:43 am |
It seems your sentiments are shared by a lot of women on this site. The crude treatment is so bombastic at times it makes us mistrust others. Some people get their kicks out of striking back for any mis conceived perception. Sad commentary on how we treat strangers who have done nothing to us.
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11/2/2020 4:15 am |
wanna meat for a quick fuck?!! does it not sound like a all you can eat buffet . . . . with no food there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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Would we still be friends without the benefits? That is the way I approach it.
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Very well put McLade...... I'll never understand the approach some of these guys take to finding a shag. I mean, even if it was just a shag I was after I'd find better ways of looking for it than 'wanna fuck', then abusing a girl when she knocks me back. It's a shame that your aim of finding your 'partner in crime' has hit the buffers and that you're a lot more cynical about it than you were when you started out........but hey, it's a common theme with the ladies here......sorry. 10 years younger, 3000 miles closer.......ooftah!!! Those local guys must be daft!! Honestly, when I first started on here, years ago, it was a very different atmosphere with very different people. I think the anonymity of the internet makes us callous and gives us the courage to treat each other poorly because there is little fear of retaliation. Nobody knows who you really are until you reveal yourself.
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Would we still be friends without the benefits? That is the way I approach it.
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