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Instant Message Function?  

TB5758 65M/67F
27 posts
1/6/2019 5:32 am
Instant Message Function?


I cannot tell you how disappointing the Instant Message function or I should say disfunction. I hate the fact that people would think I am purposely not answering. If I cannot chat, I would just say so. Ever since the “new button” was added it has gotten worse not better. Just wish they would fix it. It is right up there with eliminating the trolls. Makes it hard to enjoy the site for what it could be.

cathunter20102 56M
63 posts
1/6/2019 5:49 am

The IM on this site has NEVER functioned well at all. I agree it's very frustrating!


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
1/6/2019 6:04 am

whats the new button ? Yes...its always been tempermental....fortunately tho....most people know that its whacky and will understand if they are not seeing your replies.

I always just chalk it up to the crazy site.

Dont hold ur breath waiting for it to be fixed. ~~


ernest0501 49M

1/6/2019 6:06 am

i hate it also


mutualbenefit69 49M
201 posts
1/6/2019 7:30 am

totally agree


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
1/6/2019 7:44 am

some days it works, some days it does not, when they make fixes on here, IM suffers


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
1/6/2019 7:48 am

I've rarely had problems with it

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


TB5758 replies on 1/6/2019 7:50 am:
People say they messaged me and I never see it or I respond and they don't see it.

TB5758 65M/67F
577 posts
1/6/2019 11:53 am

    Quoting  :

Thanks I will try it


missthee 58F  
4511 posts
5/6/2019 9:12 am

I prefer receiving snail mail, but I try to answer pings - if I even notice them. I'm pretty sure it's a very small percentage of total IM requests.


initforfun19573 66M

1/31/2021 8:46 am

it really dosent pay to be a gold member anymore the instant messenger in plain words sucks


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