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Women: Looking for the answers (IN MY OPINION)
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Women: Looking for the answers (IN MY OPINION) All women who are single/available but attached, are looking for the answer to the same question. Is he the one? Its one of those questions your grandmother could answer just by looking at him. And she would be right. Thing are so much more complicated now a days. Smart women are more cautious and the not so smart ones are needy. God if that isn’t pathetic. (sorry personal opinion) I talk to so many women every day, most on line and I take the time to read their profile to see which category they’re going to fall into. For some women its easy, others cant figure out what the problem is. Ive never had a problem attracting men, wow you wouldn’t believe how many Mr. Wrongs you can meet. I believe they have their own population. Do you want to know what men are attracted to? Confidence, Independence, Style and Class. If you have these 4 things you’ll never be without a man's attention. That doesn’t mean you’ll find the right man, but you’ll have a lot more to choose from. The first thing you should look for, is a friend. 85% of women will marry their best friend. Yes it’s a very high number but its accurate. Think about it for a minute, what is your best friend? Someone you can tell anything to and they wont judge you. Someone who will be there for you thru thick and thin. And of most importance, someone who’s got your back. They don’t even have to agree with you, but they got your back. Someone who wont even have to ask, they will know you well enough to know when something’s wrong. They pay attention to small details, not because they have to because they truly want to be able to judge your responses. Let him be assertive in the relationship. See how long and when he wants to see you. Or even how often he calls or texts just to let you know he’s thinking about you. Oh yeah, that’s such a tell. The very last thing you need to determine if he’s the one is your emotions. Ask yourself, can I live without him? Can I just walk away and never look back? If you can answer yes to both of them the odds are in your favor he’s possibly Mr. Right. Right about now probably ½ of you are either confused or think I’m crazy. Fact is I’m not. If you meet a man who you feel you cant live without, run. He’s the last one need. Probably the first one you would chose, I once found this man. Instead I turned around and married my husband of 24 years. I’ll tell you why. In order to emotionally keep yourself in check and your life in balance you need to be able to do one thing in life. Count on you. Anyone can walk in and out of your life but if you can know deep in your heart you can count on you to make the right decision your all set. When all is said and done you’ll still be your own best friend. If getting into a relationship means giving up or losing one of those 4 things, Its wrong. If you ever lose your independence or your confidence your giving up what attracted him to you in the first place. This is never an easy decision or answer, but you need to always protect you. It may sound cold but its not, and there’s nothing wrong with being guarded when it comes to your life and your heart. I’d rather have a broken heart and a level head any day. Love is great, and being in love is even better, but don’t ever loose you in the process. Your worth so much more. LikeSexy2016 |
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Love it!! so true on all levels ..Thank you for this post its just what a lot of us needed to read..ME INCLUDED Alexandria05~~ 
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Great read but if ur happy and married why r u here
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In my opinion, there are a lot of happy and married people on here. Some people enjoying chatting with others, some have extenuating circumstances. I firmly believe it is not for us judge why people are on here. All are welcome for what ever reason. Sometimes that is someone's way of politely saying "No thank you" without trying to hurt someones feelings. It is what it is. Have a great day. LikeSexy2016
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Hiya, sweet lady! Hey, I liked this blog post, it is quite interesting. "Count on you. " I totally agree with this and find it a great perception. Of course, I am a Sagittarius, we tend to be independent sorts, but I firmly believe that everyone needs to know and trust themselves, and KNOW that they are survivors and have faith in themselves. Not to be too sexist, but I find your observation, from a female, to be extremely perceptive. As far as what men are looking for in a woman, I would like to add one thing I look for .... "sweetness" .... if a woman is sweet, it just gets to me. There are some very sexually attractive women on this site, they have lovely bodies, but it is a total turn-off for me if they come across as snotty or self-absorbed. No doubt, the ladies feel the same way about us guys .... but I think a sweet woman is a treasure. Thank you! 
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