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Rudeness - Incident #1  

Banana_Canyon 46F
0 posts
4/29/2017 6:24 pm
Rudeness - Incident #1

Here's one that just tickled me the wrong way. So I'm signed on to IM here and I get this random message pop up from a female member here (brightly11) who claims I wrote to her. Here is the brief encounter:



So I beg to ask, why is there such a sense of ignorance on this site anymore? If I'm being accused of writing someone a message (and I haven't done so), then what is so hard to briefly explain the situation like an adult here? Instead it's easier to make a false or mistaken claim and instead of respectfully explaining what happened to me like an adult, it's simply easier to go on to block me altogether? Proof is right there in what the screen shot shows. I'm not understanding this mentality at all. The level of childishness, rudeness and ignorance is at an all time high here. And here I thought guys were pretty much the ones who showed that level of rudeness. Proves that gender makes no difference here and that the ignorance can be from both sides. The kicker is that I'm so kind, respectful and willing to discuss whatever issue anyone has like an adult. Grrrr frustrated!!! Sorry, I really had to vent over this one.

Is anyone else here experiencing similar encounters with people here like these?

brightly11

txmature2 70M

4/30/2017 4:39 am

Rudeness abounds hon! And it ain't just from the 'Standards.'


lyavu 50F
1538 posts
4/30/2017 9:44 am

Gal there many dicks on this is site I wouldn't worry why one would make this site seem not fun. Delete or block and move on .


Banana_Canyon 46F

5/2/2017 4:13 pm

Appreciate your comments. I absolutely did block her and moved on without losing sleep over it. It's just really irritating that it's come to this. Rudeness and ignorance online is certainly nothing new, however, I do recall the earlier days of Local Adult Companion and the internet in general as being not so cut-throat and much easier to find others online, whether that be long-term online friendships or even much easier meet-ups with relatively decent folks. These days it seems that people either go right into battle mode and want to argue/ignore OR they simply want to write and talk completely filthy. Where the middle ground anymore of decency, friendship and the potential of meeting with someone sane. I have plenty of theories. All in all, it's just sad that this is what it's come to. Thanks for everyone's input.


JimmyB7474 59M

5/5/2017 8:19 am

Yes, there are lots of rude people here and I think it has caused many of the more popular bloggers to develop a hypersensitivity to comments. I commented on one blogger's artistic style and how I was very blown away by the visuals and colors. I also told her her subject matter (bondage and domination) was entertaining and that I had never tried that before. She took offense to the word "entertaining" and blocked me. Go figure. Me? I'm a writer. If you enjoy reading sexy stories then I have a blog that might interest you. It started about a year ago when I posted the story of my first orgasm. From that simple beginning, I have posted over 80 tales about the sexual misadventures of some guy named Jimmy Here is a hint - some of them are true - don't tell anyone. lol free entertainment and who knows? you might even become a watcher. I post a new story every week.

My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.


lilfuck035 50M
34 posts
5/20/2017 11:53 pm

I may not be a gold member but understand where your coming from. I'm on here just to have fun and watch right now. there are just certain things that life can not provide in the real world so I come here and I can fantasize what it would be like with someone else.


Banana_Canyon replies on 5/25/2017 12:00 pm:
I understand, lilfuck035. We're all here for different reasons, and that's fine. I think there's really a lack of understanding what the intent is of this site that a lot of members overlook. To be very clear about it, this is a personals site (for the most part), NOT a porn site. Sure, there are areas of this site where you can let your imagination and fantasies run wild (cams, erotic stories/blogs, magazine section, adult movie section, etc...), but for the most part this site is considered a personals site, intended to find others with similar interests and to hookup, date and things like that. There just needs to be that distinction in understanding that it's NOT appropriate when people write me through my profile/IM and want to engage in those fantasies via cyber sex.
So you're right, there are places here appropriately dedicated for fantasy, but when it comes to my personal profile/IM, that is not appropriate.

notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
8/13/2017 9:12 pm

i have had some random chats like this, unable to track back the person, the chat usually dies when a response is given, also have had phantom emails and get told person was viewing me


Banana_Canyon replies on 8/14/2017 1:28 pm:
In most cases it's just complete ignorance, but do agree that some strange things do happen at times.

On another note as you were saying, sometimes a "profile view" is a bit misleading to the person who gets a notification that their profile has been viewed by another member here. That's not always completely accurate. It has been brought to my attention quite a long time ago that if you're on Local Adult Companion's home page, for example, and if you're using a pc and your mouse cursor hovers above someone's profile by chance in the "Who's Online" tab so that some of their profile information drops down....from what I was told, that counts as a "profile view" and will show up under that member's notifications that their profile has been viewed by you. It's a bit misleading, considering that by mere chance if your cursor just so happened to rest and hover over someone's profile by chance that another member will get excited in thinking that I viewed his profile, when in fact I didn't and that I'd probably not even be interested in that person for various reasons. Seems that not a whole lot of people know that. Overall, the site is weird and glitchy...stranger things happen all the time here.

hereandnow579 64M  
20 posts
9/12/2017 6:48 pm

Hi. This seemed the best place to respond as it is similar to my experience with you. Below is the view of my message history with you. I don't recall ever seeing your profile here until I got the first message below. Not much of a message I know your handle a blank line a little dark square I have no idea how to get and a time stamp (Sorry I'm not smart enough to copy the page itself and include here.)
Anyway, not wanting to be rude I looked at your profile pictures. Was very impressed and sent of a short note of my appreciation.
When I got your response then I read your profile. Better late than never. Or is it better never late? I don't remember.
Maybe you can figure out why I received the first message from you and what the little square is.
Y'all have fun up there and good luck.
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Me and Banana_Canyon Quick View

Banana_Canyon

9/9/2017 2:16 pm

Me
Very nice set you have and I am sure it is a lucky man that gets to play in your "banana_canyon. ,Love to talk when you can.
M
9/9/2017 2:21 pm
Get read receipt

Banana_Canyon
Well thank you for that nice shout, hun. Appreciate it! Hubby plays with the "banana canyon" often. lol. Sadly, I see you're living in AL, which isn't at all realistic or relevant to what I seek and require. Even for ongoing chatting with non-locals (refer to profile). I do thank you for the kind shout, sweetie. Hoping your Monday is going well.
9/11/2017 10:41 am


Banana_Canyon replies on 9/23/2017 11:38 am:
Hi. I'm not sure if this is the same relevance in topic. These mysterious squares seem to be an issue with the operating system here on this site and nothing that anyone intentionally sends. I've read that some people claim these square dots to be pictures being sent that don't go through, but that is easily disproven by the very fact of your copy/paste message here which shows a square coming from me to you and I know that I sent you no pics at all...nor would I simply due to the fact that there's no relevance here in the matter of you living so far from me for what my profile describes I seek here. This isn't some isolated thing, these squares mysteriously get passed on from member to member here for no reason. Assuming glitches that should probably be disregarded. Anyway, I found a blog from another member claiming the same. Do a blog search entitled "Getting strange squares in im"....or:

https://Local Adult Companion.com/blog/Heels_N_Squeals/Getting-strange-squares-in-im-4026787#Local Adult Companion?{}

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