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Current idiots - fwb_monagomous  

Banana_Canyon 46F
0 posts
11/28/2018 11:48 am
Current idiots - fwb_monagomous
Same old thing. I sit here minding my own business a few days back and an incoming IM comes in by a member who goes by fwb_monagomous. I open it, only to find the contents so completely rude and vulgar for no reason whatsoever. Don't you just love it that when someone dislikes your profile or can't agree with the contents, they automatically go into battle mode with you, rather than to just respect someone's profile for what it is and casually move along if you disagree or don't fit the criteria? SMH!

So he goes on, flipping out on me and calling me rude names. All for what? Because he doesn't understand something on my profile, nor agree, nor even try to ask me what it means and why I post certain things there. Again, people here are complete losers! These know-it-all type of people boldly want to get in my face at times. They think they know more about me that I even know about myself. They make outrageous claims, get completely in a rage by default over what they are completely clueless and wrong about. Try to make some sort of justifications that do not even exist in the first place.

The attached pics show the brief conversation I have had with this unhinged clown. Just one more reason why most women don't exist or reply to IM's on this site. I post ALL known pics of those who mistreat me. Congrats for your exposure!

fwb_monagomous

GIdontknow_134 66M
270 posts
11/28/2018 1:16 pm

 Hi B_C:

If you don't pay his bills or he yours, I'm surprised that you bothered to put any effort into a response at all. You can't fix stupid (nor should you try to).

Have a great day.

Ciao, Bella.

G


Banana_Canyon replies on 12/1/2018 2:19 pm:
"I'm surprised that you bothered to put any effort into a response at all."

You shouldn't be surprised at all. Ignorance is my pet peeve and the very reason that I do a lot of these blogs is to get the message through that ignorance / blocking others is not only rude, but it's shaping society into being completely shut off from one another and completely independent. I find it ironic that this site's very design is for people to mingle, communicate, flirt, meet or whatever else in a human to human interaction, yet almost everyone on this site resorts to the ignore / block mode by default, rather than openly communicating with each other and trying to sort out issues like adults ( as the very name of this site implies 'Adult' ).

"You can't fix stupid (nor should you try to)."

That's usually true. Stupidity is just a state of mind. To overcome that, one has to make a will to change on their own.

Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
11/28/2018 1:34 pm

 Omg hun and I thought I only got those.. some men just don't know how to appropriately IM a lady..
Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Banana_Canyon replies on 12/1/2018 2:21 pm:
I'm sorry you deal with this issue, as well. I guess all women do. There is no respect or any level of decency these days. Just a reflection of the chaotic society we reside in.

harbor112 64M
Ask me for a photo
1567 posts
11/28/2018 1:52 pm

 Now, that there explains a lot, why women stay away.


Banana_Canyon replies on 12/1/2018 2:25 pm:
Exactly! I find it comical that men come here acting this way, yet magically expect women to thrive in abundance on this site or even bother to open up IM's / emails anymore. Where is the mystery at all? Too funny!

MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
11/28/2018 2:00 pm

 I get those emails as well. Mostly from married men because they feel it is my loss that I wont drop what I am doing to screw them. They obviously don't like that part of my profile and do go into attack mode. Sometimes I wish I did blog to expose the trolls.


Banana_Canyon replies on 12/1/2018 2:49 pm:
Yeah, I know what you mean. They feel the need to attack, simply because they don't agree. That's ok, they only hurt not only their own self, but the odds of every single other guy out there by this behavior when women flee the site and are now not even bothering to open the majority of incoming messages by choice.

As for exposure...I won't tell you what to do, but I'd definitely encourage everyone to do so. My single-handed attempts at this aren't making a dent in social behavior unless the masses begin banning together. The site's TOS is a joke anyway. If it was actually effective, this site wouldn't be in the shape it is. I have zero tolerance for rudeness and nonsense here. Do me wrong and take advantage of my kindness, they find their selves exposed on these blogs, along with all known pics I can gather of them. It is THE only way that will force change at all is to take action like this.

I appreciate your comments. Always enjoy them...just sorry you deal with the same sorts of nonsense. Most women here can relate.

DonnaChang 54F
212 posts
11/28/2018 3:45 pm

 Know the experience all too well. I call them Keyboard Warriors. Their little ego is bruised because they thought that they could come on here and get laid immediately. When they realize that they can't they get hostile like it's someone else's fault not their own narrow minded way of thinking.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/28/2018 6:31 pm

 People really need to keep an eye on their kids
or at least their account information!
Using more than all the road!


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
11/29/2018 9:41 am

 He obviously leans to the "left" alot, tho in all honesty, I dont which pol party is on the 'left' these days !


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
11/29/2018 6:06 pm

 I don't understand why you engaged him in conversation. - where did you think the conversation was going to go..maybe you were bored.


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