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*recent post* Dom and Dommer......  

Babyboo661 57F
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8/7/2017 4:13 pm
*recent post* Dom and Dommer......

For many months i spent a lot of time on a bdsm site...quite a famous one...three letters one syllable... (not playing charades lol) where i genuinely wanted to know all about the bdsm lifestyle from every perspective...but i was bombarded by messages because my username started with a capital letter yet my *role* was left as *unsure*...I think that is what was the intrigue that led to the masses of messages and offers...I confided in some that i had played a little..never declaring which role..but i was in fact going to write a book...something that would blow 50 shades of grey to oblivion..but it would be based on the things i had learnt over the months on there and the real life characters i was meeting and chatting to online along the way...but each and every day..when i was asked what my role was..it got the same reply...I am ME...that is my title...but i was told i needed another one on there so people would know more about me...i scoffed at that and said that they would obviously get to know ME,,,,not a role or a title....i didn't need one and refused to HAVE one other than me myself and i....What became quite interesting was the Male Dominants in there...i started to notice there was a similarity between them all....they all claimed to have been in the *lifestyle for years* and were seasoned Doms..but yet i was getting messages telling me they would *switch* in an instant if i would be THEIR Domme....if i had any respect for them at the start of my membership on there..it kept dwindling as i realised they were not really who they said they were...not being true to themselves i mean...so me being me i challenged who they were....seeing as they were more or less all short in height..not so easy on the eye...always wore black..and literally restrained every submissive they spent time playing with to feel any pleasure...my theory was...and i was expecting a shitstorm after saying the following on a public post..which didn't happen...that they felt inadequate when it came to bog standard one on one sex...because if anyone in a chatroom or forum dared to mention the swear word VANILLA sex they all mocked it and slated it with steam coming out of their ears;;;WHY I WONDERED...why would anyone be SO anti non bdsm sex...it didn't make sense and it didn't feel right....SO the big question was...to both male Doms and female Dommes...were they slagging off vanilla sex because it was something they weren't particularly good at...but restraining submissives and humiliating and inflicting pain on them...eventho it WAS what the submissives wanted....they WERE good at as it really doesn't take that much effort to tie someone down and do whatever the fuck you want to them....there is no effort or hard work involved in that...i know as i have done it myself...only in roleplay..not in a serious 24/7 bdsm relationship which i never wanted...the only hard work involved is making sure the act is never repetitive and your level of power over the sub is always present and never wilts....After that post with my theories and beliefs in it...i expected to be lynch mobbed by most of the site...but no...i was catapulted from normal status to Platinum VIP membership worth about 50 quid.....Had i hit the nail on the head ? Was it what others had thought for years but just wouldn't say it out loud ? To this day i couldn't answer that question...but what i do know is that i then started getting offers of friendship and told about lots of different experiences that i don't think they would have divulged had i not ruffled a few feathers in there...it was like the rawness of my post opened up a new world and i gained a new family of various people...into various things....the only reason i left was when a very beautiful woman from the USA... who was flirting like hell with me..popped a pic on the site of her breast feeding her SIX year old ...because men on there were asking her to do so because it turned them on...i don't even want to be on a site where ONE person w.ould do that to her ...so i made my feelings of utter disgust clear to her..,asked an american gent in her area to get someone in authority regarding childrens welfare and well being in their area to get the situation checked out thoroughly to make sure this was not in any danger or dodgy situation....it repulsed me and couldn't spend another moment on there....apart from that...it had been a weird and wonderful journey full of mystery and intrigue...no 2 days ever the same...I miss my little flock on there but i do know that the woman i just mentioned is STILL on there so not going back,,,EVER

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