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Random thoughts about sex, love, God and misery.
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Random thoughts about sex, love, God and misery. Have you ever stopped and thought about lall the people in this world and how horny everyone is? I mean let's face it folks, Freud was a little extreme on some things but one thing he did get right: sex is the greatest motivator and the number one obsession with the majority of human beings. We know sex sells, but it seems to play a role in our entire lives. The one thing expected of all of us , gay, straight, bi, etc is that we will seek a partner and have a wonderful love life full of good sex. But speaking of that idea, it has begun to fascinate me what we do to one another while we are here on this rock under the heavens called earth. We come into this world and early on , somewhere in our young lives we are subject to two very wrong notions. 1. Sex is naughty. We need to be hush, hush about our sex lives. Too much sex is evil. Sex with this person or that person is a sin. And so on and so on. Where does all that rubbish originate? Some folks would say religion has a great deal to produce this fallacy and i would agree to an extent. Most of the major religions of the world seem to put a real damper on sex and some would even claim that is what God says about it. Phooey. I can only speak for Christians here but you know what? Christians believe that God (or His who became one with God) lived a life here on earth and was crucified. My belief system is somewhat aligned to that premise but as a student of theology, I find it interesting that when Jesus walked the earth, his biggest complaint was not about the sex folks were having. His gripe had to do wth greed and power and prejudice. Truth be told, Christ spoke of sex and romance almost not at all. He mentions a bit about divorce and adultery. And if you ask me , in the three out of four passages (yes folks, Jesus talked about sexual behavior , or what could be assumed sex behavior only four times and one of those is debatable whether it has to do about sex ) where he does discuss those things, i would tend to believe he is more concerned about the wrong doing those behaviors may have on the victim. , not so much the sex. So if religion does play a part in this, then it is simply man's religion , not God's that has done this. But beside religion, many of us had parents or extended family who treated sex like a bad thing. The very ones sometimes , who screwed and conceived us then hid it from us forever more! And then we get the censors, the educators, the doctors and nurses, and so on who further perpetrate this very sick notion that sex is bad. Where does it ever stop? And it should stop. Since the beginning of time people have been killed, abused or outcast for sexual deviance, lust, or in some cases , for simply having a normal good time. So it is more than just a passing thought for me We must approach this and find new ways so our teens can survive their years without suicidal thoughts, our queer brothers and sisters (and that word pretty much means all of us) can be free to love the way god intended and that God can quit being blamed for our misery. God had nothing to do with it. But lets take a look into the other ridiculous tradition going on in our world. 2. If you had a life similar to mine , you were probably taught the following things: You should not have sex prior to marriage, you should marry someone and marriage is forever, you should only have sex with this person. So, each of us were put here on this earth with 7.4 billion other people , most with sexual bodies and desires, and yet the person who only fucks one other person his or her entire life is the one you should strive to be. I mean c'mon! We are set up for failure from the day we are born. No wonder guilt and poor self imagery have infiltrated humans forever. Who the heck can possibly live up to that standard. Really . . I want you to name one person you know that has only had sex with one person in his or her life. And who would want to? I know you are all thinking of the elderly couple next door to you or even your own parents but get real! The odds are surely in favor of nice Mrs. Smith next door having had a little nookie with her bloomers on at the drive in and dad has surely had some on the side , or at least experimented prior to marrying mom. It just makes me nauseous to hear the do gooders claim this is meant to be a life of near<b> celibacy. </font></b>My own views are so that i have begun to see monogamy as a not so human trait and perhaps its role as a precursor to love needs to be addressed. Call me radical but i am a realist and have seen too many suffer into adulthood all because they were trying to live up to one or more of the very notions I bring to this discussion. Its time we save them! And save ourselves. Surely no one wants only one sex partner over 80 years of living and truly, quit calling my sex evil and bad! Try some sex out . . you might just like it. But chances are you already have and already do! From me to you with peace, goodness, fulfillment and light!  BL Rose |
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8/4/2017 2:56 pm |
Hi Rose. I get a lot of what your saying. I do look at Sex a little differently though. First, I DO think sex is a healthy and normal act to do. It shouldn't be so hush, hush. 2nd, Marriage SHOULD be forever, thus having sex with only each other will happen, as long as the two people marry the right person for them ( Today, to many people marry for the wrong reasons and / or to immature to understand what marriage and life means ). So YEAH, one should only fuck one person, among the 7 billion people on this earth. Fuck MORE than one, outside of marriage is okay, if that's what one wants! Just deal with the consequences (unwanted pregnancies, STD's, Hate and distrust between two people...). I admit myself that I've had multiple sex partners over the years. I've never been married. In God's eyes, If I'm not married, I shouldn't have had sex, right! So I'm a sinner too. I don't think almost anyone could live up to THAT standard. People have this desire for sex. Many can control it, while many choose not to control it, and have sex. Me, If I found the person I would fall in love with, when I was young, and it was right for both of us, then I would marry her, and be with her, and only her, for the rest of my life. In reality, for me, it didn't happen like that. Sex is NOT a bad thing! That's how we come into this world. But if people want to engage in sex, then they need to be mature enough to understand what it was meant for, and be able to deal with the consequences that may come up. Being curious and asking questions is a good thing!
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Michael, You say things that make good sense. But you say, "I've never been married. In God's eyes, If I'm not married, I shouldn't have had sex, right!" No. That's not right. Other humans might think of you that way but who wants to worship a God the would play such tricks on His or Her own creation? That is the whole point of my blog. Sex is not sinful among consenting people. You are 48 and have not met the perfect person you speak of. I hope you do. But regardless, humanity would expect you to be celibate until you do and i think the is a huge fallacy. that's all I'm saying. From me to you with peace, goodness, fulfillment and light! BL Rose
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