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Is it wrong to play online?  

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6/11/2018 5:07 pm
Is it wrong to play online?

Got into a conversation in a chat room the other day that make me think. The topic was about<b> cheating </font></b>and whether significant others knew of our (people on the site) presence and activity here. It made me think about my situation and how and why I got to this point.

On the one hand, my wife does know that I am interested in men. We discussed it a long time ago and while she has no interest in 2 men together (damn, damn, damn, damn...) she understood me being curious and said she expected me to try it eventually. She said she didn't want to know about it, walk in on it or have me catch anything. So even though that was over 10 years ago, I still see it as permission - thought it may have expired. Haven't talked about it recently. When she came into the room while I was watching an episode of Grace and Frankie and went "Eww" and left when the 2 male characters kissed, I knew there was no change of heart for her about interest level.

So why am I here? People change. 25 years ago 2 men together would have scared me off and I would have fought anyone who suggested I liked it. But people change. I have changed. I find myself more open to a lot of things. Hell, 25 years ago, I didn't like pickles, sauerkraut or sushi but now I eat them any chance I get.

So that brings me to the question - is being on here OK when my wife technically doesn't know about it? I liken it back to the food. If she didn't like pickles and I did, why shouldn't I eat them? If she told me "I don't like pickles and I won't have you eating them either" would it be an earth shaking tragedy if I had pickles when I as out with my friends and didn't tell her? Why would it be different with...OK..."pickles" turned out to be an unintentional pun that worked well

I play tennis, run, bike and bowl with other friends as she doesn't have an interest but she always knows when I do those and has no issue with it. I guess the knowing and being OK is the big thing.

I still think that if the activity is harmless - and really, if no diseases are passed, what is the harm in 2 guys hanging out, having a beer, watching the game and blowing each other. No one really gets hurt. Unless they are into that...

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