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Matrimony or Mating
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Matrimony or Mating At an interesting point in my life. I am not looking to start a long term relationship. But that doesn't mean I just want to hit and run either. Craving exciting new connection but not necessarily sex. Sometimes it seems easy for people to be focused on the extremes. They are either wanting to find their "forever love" or preying online for a meaningless sexual experience. Wish there was more middle ground out there. Can a connection just be spontaneous? Is it possible to just enjoy whatever it ends up being? Even if there isn't obvious chemistry, it can be enjoyable to sit and talk without expectation. The chemistry will take care of itself when the connection is right. Why force it? No need to be angry if it ends up just being drinks and a talk. People are interesting. Spending time with a woman without a predetermined goal is more fun in my experience. Not being judgmental about what other people enjoy. Just don't really get excited about the idea of meeting the first time for the sole purpose of sex. Sometimes the conversation builds the interest and physical draw. Sometimes it reveals a lack of real interest. Expecting to find forever love is too much pressure and, it is only valuable because it is rare. Jumping right in bed kills the excitement of anticipation. Just roll with it and enjoy whatever it ends up being. Maybe I am nearly alone in this, but my ideal connection is meeting at a unique hole in the wall bar or coffee shop to have a drink or two, talk, and enjoy the unknown. It won't be a failure if you don't have an agenda.    |
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Would love your feedback, thoughts, and personal experiences.
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10/27/2018 10:29 pm |
Everyone is on here for different reasons and just because its a sex site does not mean people have to act less intelligent than necessary..Stimulating conversation is a turn on for a lot of people who are looking in anticipation for that person who can turn their brain on..after all the brain is the biggest sex organ ever and if it can get turned on by a simple conversation then imagine what the final outcome may be..It all has to start somewhere and for a lot of people it does start with the level of intelligence...
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10/27/2018 10:32 pm |
Never have agenda. People tend to avoid people with agendas.
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Good post.. sadly finding someone who thinks the same who is anywhere close to local seems to be the Holy Grail!
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