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Sex Only?  

Lonely2518 60F
0 posts
7/7/2019 4:03 pm
Sex Only?

I thought this guy was a friend. I thought we were getting
know each other because he liked too. And we have had
great sex as well. Then today, he lets know that all he
cares about is my pussy. What a bummer! When can someone
come along and be a friend and not just use me for sex only?
Or is that asking too much?





backpocket13 50M
9007 posts
7/28/2019 4:46 am

Hey Darlin,
.........What a Loser!..........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


Bunnysyummy2 64F
11293 posts
7/25/2019 7:46 am

It's a shame that it happened to such an awesome woman as yourself hon
Things will work out for the best 🙋‍♀️💋


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wackerpp 53M
256 posts
7/21/2019 10:47 pm

I am so sorry.
Though this is the nature of this site, you would think people hanging out naked would be more honest.


Guy_B75 49M
5 posts
7/21/2019 8:46 pm

I Would like to be your friend..


Lonely2518 60F

7/16/2019 10:22 pm

Yea very true


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
7/14/2019 9:26 pm

No respect for a beautiful woman like you. His day will come.


Lonely2518 replies on 7/16/2019 10:21 pm:
Thank you.

xfunn70 54M/54F

7/14/2019 5:22 am

Sounds like he used that for an excuse to get out of the relationship. Let him go and find another. You know that about half of the world's population are guys so there are plenty out there.


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
7/11/2019 9:05 pm

Lonely2518 replies on 7/10/2019 10:21 pm:
To be honest, I rather be told up front it is sex only. That would have been better for me to know it up front. I would have met him, had sex and nothing else would have happened. I would have gone in with just sex mindset.


Okay, so the take-away from this experience is : You have to tell the men, contacting you, or you contacting them, "Just sex, is fine with me".


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
7/10/2019 2:58 pm

Lonely2518 replies on 7/7/2019 4:19 pm:
I know, but why lead someone on for months?


Because it's works....Because he had already gotten in with a lie.

When he did disclose the truth...." Then today, he lets me know that all he cares about is my pussy. What a bummer! " ...... You're bummed out.

Is this situation with him still working for you? ...Probably not.

Likely if you knew that upfront... you would not have done what you did .


Lonely2518 replies on 7/10/2019 10:21 pm:
To be honest, I rather be told up front it is sex only. That would have been better for me to know it up front. I would have met him, had sex and nothing else would have happened. I would have gone in with just sex mindset.

positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
7/10/2019 7:17 am

If I meet him here, it’s a given it is sex only. You may find that rare gem here, but you will only be disappointed if you think there will be more.


Lonely2518 replies on 7/10/2019 10:18 pm:
I rather have been told it was to be sex only. That would have been fine.Sex only works for me.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
7/8/2019 1:09 pm

Lonely2518 replies on 7/7/2019 8:42 pm:
To be honest, I am weird I guess, cause if he had told me all he wanted was sex I would have been fine with that. What is wrong with some honest?


He wouldn't know, "Honesty" would get him laid, because most of the time being honest just doesn't work.

Should be common knowledge that if you're on a sex site, first comes sex...any other connection is still a "Maybe".

Lonely2518 replies on 7/7/2019 4:19 pm:
I know, but why lead someone on for months?


I'll take a shot at that..... Because he found a woman to have sex with, and making her [you] think this is about friendship, [like , "Let's be fwb"] ... is a more effective way to get get sex than telling her , "I just want your pussy".

Look, if you want to find friends, join a common interest group outside, or online, that doesn't involve the idea of sex.

And don't use the picture of you standing there naked. Use the proper bait.


Jacknight1273 51M
645 posts
7/8/2019 11:03 am

most mean desire in a concealed way to have men with female, Friends...

however, there are exceptions...


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
7/8/2019 7:55 am

It's his loss. You are Sexy and very Pretty!!!


Lonely2518 replies on 7/10/2019 10:30 pm:
Thanks.

ToTheEdge4fun 38M

7/7/2019 10:52 pm

it’s not easy


LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
7/7/2019 10:20 pm

He obviously wasnt the man you were looking for.
Men CAN do that easily, some women CAN too, but much rarer.
At the current time, I am involved with multiple women, 2 know about each other, they are sisters that compete to have the same men, and brag to each other about their conquests. All they want is sex, and that is fine to me, since I knew that from the start.
Another is involved with 5 other men that I have heard about, and I think I am the only guy that knows the details about her other men, but am sure a couple suspect she plays in the community. She says she is in it just for sex, but I know she really wants to find a sugar daddy/hubby. In the meantime, she plays as much as she can, often having 2 or 3 of the guys on the same day! I have been her end of the day guy many times.
And finally, there is the one that wants a relationship, but also is so horny that she is willing to have sex with multilpe guys while she is looking. She treats me like her one & only, but I know better, as she cant keep her play schedule quiet. Again, I dont care, as long as we have funn too.
NOW, I make it plain to any woman I meet that I am in it for the sex ONLY, no exceptions, Have been married 3 times, and relationships in between, and have had enough of marriage & permanent relationships. if the woman cant accept me on MY terms, then I will move on, but I never tell them I want MORE than SEX, NEVER!!


Lonely2518 replies on 7/10/2019 10:38 pm:
That's what I want is the honesty, sex only is just fine with me. Just let me know first thing. I don't like the way he did it. Making it out like we were going to be friends. Yea, I would like to have a friend, but if it isn't going to be like that,tell me.

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/7/2019 9:14 pm

Are you asking them what they are looking for before you get to the sex part?

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


scoupe42 60M

7/7/2019 9:10 pm

Some people not legit!


Lonely2518 replies on 7/10/2019 10:39 pm:
True enough.

cocklikerock1369 51M
43 posts
7/7/2019 9:06 pm

yeah it goes both ways


Look8880 40M

7/7/2019 8:58 pm

It's definitely not


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
7/7/2019 7:13 pm

Well one mistake, if you met him from this site...he wants pussy. The comment , "Let's be fwb", is about as lame as when a woman says, "Let's just be friends".

"Let's be fwb". appeals to the woman because she thinks she can have a friend and sex. If he said , "Let's just have sex"..... ha... most women would veto that.

[Healthy] Men and women cannot be just friends.

A "Friend for a woman , a "Friend" who isn't interested in pussy"? ....Would be another [straight] woman.

I'd say a , "Gay man".... but these guys sometimes play on both teams.

I'd say an, "Old man", with a kaput penis, but he'd still want to finger you or put his tongue in you.

I'd say a, "Nice man/Gentleman".... but the entire reason he is trying to be nice, or trying to be a gentleman, is because he wants to get you into bed, and he thinks that'll work.

So if you really want "Friends".....see other women. Especially if you're looking for those friends on a sex site.


Lonely2518 replies on 7/7/2019 8:42 pm:
To be honest, I am weird I guess, cause if he had told me all he wanted was sex I would have been fine with that. What is wrong with some honest?

dogslife2live01 71M

7/7/2019 6:38 pm

if you thought he was a friend then you must have done friend things together
or did you just meet to fuck
do not take a persons words spoken in anger as truth. it is never only the other person that can be in the wrong

there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


Lonely2518 replies on 7/7/2019 8:46 pm:
I am not saying any of the stuff in the article out of anger. I just wondered why he couldn't had said that he wanted nothing more than sex. I would have been fine with that. And I wasn't insane nor stupid to think we were friends, it felt like a friendship to me.

Luck44l 36M
58 posts
7/7/2019 6:29 pm

That's asking to much..lol..


Lonely2518 replies on 7/7/2019 8:48 pm:
I guess so

Makeyoucum9211 39M

7/7/2019 6:25 pm

You just got to keep looking the right one is out there for you


Lonely2518 replies on 7/7/2019 8:48 pm:
Thank you. I know you are right.

bker4ever 65M  
269 posts
7/7/2019 4:11 pm

some are like that males and females


Lonely2518 replies on 7/7/2019 4:19 pm:
I know, but why lead someone on for months?

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