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unicorn_confetti 52F
22 posts
11/22/2018 10:29 pm
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I astounded that the majority of couples that appear on here have a very traditional age "role" (for lack of a better word) The men tend to be a tad older whilst the women are of a younger age. I myself have rarely been in a relationship with men around my own age (This does not indicate my taste regarding nsa fun). Mind you, I also tend to veer away from Australian men. Not at all on purpose. Perhaps it is just that I attracted to accents. Anyway. getting off the beaten track (no pun intended). Maybe it is that the ppl who surround me are of a wide age range. I would love for some discussion on this matter if anyone is game.

LakeRidgeBBWSeek 63M
3847 posts
11/22/2018 10:58 pm

Age is a matter of mind, and sometimes how your body doesnt work as you would wish it to ( I had those same issues until I was about 16 too) and if your both adults (and age does NOT indicate THAT), then what you do between you is up to YOU & your partner and age should NOT be part of the equation!


Owatalife 67M
1711 posts
11/23/2018 12:10 am

Everybody obviously has their own preferences regarding age. I'm open minded & believe you just take each individual on their own merit & see what happens.


Laflooking2 50M
18 posts
11/23/2018 2:43 am

Thank you for your time


unicorn_confetti replies on 11/27/2018 1:58 am:
ur welcome

charlesmartel0 59M
173 posts
11/23/2018 6:46 am

The male being older goes back to the days when a man would come of age, then go shopping for a wife among the local population. Youth in a wife would be valued for purposes of childbearing and housework. Love and romance were rarely considerations. The age differential became an ingrained tradition more than anything.

Similarity of age provides commonality of cultural references. I was chatting with a younger girl, and the subject came up that I was waiting for belts to repair my brother's stereo cassette deck. I may as well have been speaking Urdu. The "cassette" was an alien concept to her, and the very idea of a stereo system, with separate boxes for the different functions, simply didn't make sense to her. A few years older and she may have understood more.


unicorn_confetti replies on 11/27/2018 2:00 am:
Indeed. this I know but in todays day and age we are less restricted. hmmm perhaps not altogether true. we still have it flowing through our dna. ty for ur wonderful comment.

classicalrebel4 68M
1755 posts
11/23/2018 6:50 am

I think that many women still judge men on their ability to take care of them and don't want a man that they have to take care of in any way.
That usually means looking for men who are older than them.

Please don't let me be misunderstood.


unicorn_confetti replies on 11/27/2018 2:00 am:
Oh yes. that is almost biological

unicorn_confetti 52F
6 posts
11/27/2018 1:54 am

oh absolutely agree with you. all I am saying is that I not that there are not a lot of age gaps with cpls. And thanks heaps for your comment.


unicorn_confetti 52F
6 posts
11/27/2018 1:57 am

Ah now that is kinda what I was getting at. I know the age gaps between cpls can be quite extreme. I guess it's kind of whatever floats ur boat. I am just surprised not to see a wider variety on Local Adult Companion. thanks heaps for ur post. and perhaps some day you may find urself in the lovely land.


descreetfun42 61M
143 posts
12/5/2018 10:46 pm

age is just a number..as they say... I think if you can both make each other satisfied ..then who cares on your age number...


sbrown019 41M
29 posts
12/15/2018 5:27 pm

great blogg age should matter it should simply come down to attraction


sbrown019 41M
29 posts
12/20/2018 12:47 pm

Merry Xmas hope to see you on here soon


MichaelMythos58 65M

12/19/2020 5:00 am

If you are speaking of a significant age gap in terms of purely sexual activities, I do not believe matters much as long as there is a genuine, physical attraction. However, it becomes a little trickier if you are talking about an ongoing relationship.

While certainly the number of one's age is not necessarily a determining factor of satisfaction, a significant age difference often reflects a significant difference, not only in life experiences, but how the relationship plays out down the road.

Taking myself as an example, I am sixty-two and would have no issue today committing to a woman in her twenties or thirty if the connection is strong. However, my issue would be how things would be for her when I'm in my eighties or nineties should I have health issues like Alzheimer's. My mom's brother remarried a woman twenty-plus years younger and that exact situation arose and it was really rough on her.

Also, from an anthropological and biological perspective, it is not surprising that older men and younger women mate since men remain able to sire children indefinitely while women have a time clock built into their bodies.

But for purposes of this site, I see no issue with older and younger hooking up and smashing whenever, however, and as often as they like. Some of my best sexual memories involved women eighteen to twenty-plus years younger than myself.


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